Did you suspect anything beforehand, or was it a surprise?
I'm not looking for advice, I just want to read your stories.
2007-02-15 08:58:16 · 7 answers · asked by rainfingers 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, I was in the spare bedroom and kept hearing a beeping sound. I looked around and there was a pager behind the headboard on the floor. Neither my husband nor I owned a pager. I called the number and was pretty surprised when a MAN"S voice answered and told me that it was HIS pager! Needless to say, my husband and I did not last much longer after that!
2007-02-15 09:09:00 · answer #1 · answered by Helen T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suspected it but couldn't confirm it. He exhibited all the signs but he claimed that I was crazy.
I saw them by coincidence in the street while I was going to work and they were going on a date. He claimed that she was just a coworker that needed a ride, that they were "just friends" and that I was being paranoid and crazy, Yeah, right
Fast forward a year
I received a phonecall from HER husband. He told me that they were having an affair. He said that my husband wasn't where he said he was,and that if I didn't believe him I could go see it with my own eyes.
So I did
And there they were....the little love birds.
He was shocked and said NOTHING, He had no excuse and no cover up.
After that I found me a greedy lawyer and took him to the cleaners. I got him for everything he was worth and then some.
Good luck
2007-02-15 17:11:43 · answer #2 · answered by Blunt 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She kept getting phone calls from a co-worker, which was unusual. She became more weight-conscious as well as her choice in underwear had changed. After asking her several times, she finally admitted it. The situation, even though she ended it, hasn't been resolved to my satisfaction. But one day soon, it will.
2007-02-15 17:05:25 · answer #3 · answered by rtanys 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My ex husband got totally wasted one night and told me he'd been cheating on me for 6 months. He gave me names, details, everything. He eventually passed out. I packed mine and my daughter's things, and when he "came to" the next day-we were gone. He finally called me at my mom's house and I repeated back to him all he had told me. He was devastated. Cried, begged, pleaded, the whole bit. But, it was too late. He couldn't believe he told me. We got divorced (this all happened 8 years ago) and now I am engaged to marry someone terrific.
2007-02-15 17:12:15 · answer #4 · answered by Lotus 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suspected he was cheating. Then I found a hallmark "I miss you" card and since we hadn't been apart for any length of time, I knew it wasn't for me. He had it hidden in one of my old yearbooks. Brilliant.
2007-02-15 17:07:40 · answer #5 · answered by katydid 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Text messages that he was too stupid to erase. Never suspected anything.
2007-02-15 17:18:58 · answer #6 · answered by Candy C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well...i cheated first then he did...he called me at work one day all upset and told me. i think he was just trying to upset me (he didnt)
2007-02-15 17:03:07 · answer #7 · answered by Tissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋