Family & Relationships - 14 February 2007

me and my boyfriend went to a party 3 days ago
i drank like 10 beers. and did like 12 shots
i smoked like 6blunts and im pretty sure i took some pills.
I couldnt remember if we had sex or not so i asked him and he said No. than as i was walking down the hall of my dorm and my boyfriends best friend came up to me and told me that me him and my boyfriend all had sex and he hoped things wouldnt be strange. Why did my boyfriend lie also i found out i was passed out most of the time while my bf was doing me. he didnt use a condom. why would he do this weve been together for 2years and never did it before or anything like it
also i have like a huge bump on the back of my head what could that be from.

2007-02-14 11:34:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i keep getting dragged into their life dramas. obviously dont want to be friends but they dont get the hint. tried it all. am rude, dont answer dont visit. they just keep on calling. and yes, i know this is what friends do. i just dont want to anymore.

2007-02-14 11:34:02 · 5 answers · asked by tziamin 2 in Friends

I had a gf from another town . I pretty much only knew her name. Then after we played them for football this year(huge rivalry game). Then as we were walking back to the bus i wasnt around a lot of teammates and she said hey good game. then when i got home she called me and we started to talk more and more. So we knew each other for about a month then she really started to like me. So we went out for about like a month and she had second thoughts because she said "i didnt know u well enought yet". I found out that she was a "guy hopper". SHe still wants to be friends, and she was the best gf i had thus far. So i try to talk to her still and be friends but she kinda ignores and. I have been giving her space to think about it but if she tells u the reason why she wanted to split is it usually the truth and does she seem like a guy hopper or wat was she probably thinking at the time. And if we do get to know each other a little more would there possibly be a second chance with her or not

2007-02-14 11:33:37 · 5 answers · asked by gopackgo51 1 in Singles & Dating

My freind is obbessessed with this EMO NINTH GRADER, and she is in Seventh grade, but all she talks about is him. I feel as if she is pushing me out and bringing this other girl in, and the other girl is one of my friends too, but now all she and my freind do are hang out together and talk about guys. Not that I dont enjoy talking about guys or anything, but they are a hassle. And I am only twelve years old, so I shouldnt have to worry about guys yet, so, any advice on how to help get to her to start being my freind agian?

2007-02-14 11:33:24 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2 in Friends

MY BOYFRIEND CHEATED ON ME WITH A WHITE GIRL AND NOW THEY HAVE A BABY TOGHTER AND HE THINKS THAT EVERYTHING IS OK. BUT THE TRUTH OF IT ALL IS THAT I REALLY HURT. BUT I STILL LOVE HIM AND WANTS TO SPEND THE REST OF MY LIFE WITH HIM. I REALLY NEED SOME HELP

2007-02-14 11:33:15 · 22 answers · asked by Tay 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 11:32:47 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hei der guys... Help me w/ my problem... I'm now at my 3rd yir H.S.... And i think I already fell in love w/ my clasm8.. But we dont talk that much because Im shy when im talking to him... And I think that Im not her type... What will I do, for him to appreciate me?!!

2007-02-14 11:32:36 · 1 answers · asked by christine u 1 in Singles & Dating

This kid I like keeps staring at me and I think he likes me. He's really nice and knows how to treat a girl,but he says he likes someone else. We've been friends since the beginning of the school year. I asked him out through a note , but he showed it to all his friends so I got embarresed and told him it was a joke. I want to know if I should ask him face to face or just admire from afar.

2007-02-14 11:32:04 · 5 answers · asked by tawgirlz 1 in Singles & Dating

oik yeasterday i started going out w/ this realli hott guy!! my friend asked him out for me and he said yes but, she likes him to and she told me that he called her a hor and a ho!and everybody is telling me we make an ugly couple and they r calling me ugly!they r calling him ugly!and sum ppl r calling him ugly!and sum ppl r may wanna jump me cuz i am going out w/ him!PLZ HELP ME WAT DO I DO!? o yea sry 4 my bad grammar

2007-02-14 11:31:49 · 8 answers · asked by sad 3 in Singles & Dating

I just had 2 failed relationships in the past year and just recently. I have done nothing wrong, never cheated, and loved them with all I can give but then they always hurt me so I end up breaking off with them. Is it the fact that I`m still celibate and wont sleep with my ex`es?

2007-02-14 11:31:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm an American who was invited to a wedding of a European couple in Asia but did not attend. The couple live in London but were married in New Zealand. I prefer to give cash. What is the appropriate amount in pounds?

2007-02-14 11:31:28 · 3 answers · asked by sothere! 3 in Weddings

he,s 18 now and i have never spocken or seen him

his mother has told him i am dead

but feel he has a right to know

and feel i could help him if he needs it

2007-02-14 11:31:15 · 14 answers · asked by whereisiain 1 in Family

2007-02-14 11:30:19 · 41 answers · asked by vee20082009 1 in Family

Why does it feel like that guys who treat women like crap do so much better than me?

2007-02-14 11:30:07 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

heres the deAL I LIKE THIS BOY BUT LAST TIME WE STARTED TALKING ON THE PHONE BUT THEN IT DIDNT WORK BUT THEN WE STARTED TALKING AGAIN AND LAST NIGHT WE HAD A DANCE AND WE STARTED TALKING AND WE WERE DANCING AND I ASKED HIM SO U SAID U LIKE ME (BECAUSE AWHILE HE TOLD HE LIKED ME ) and then im like what ever happened and he said he didnt know so now i emailed him sayin we should hangout sometime and i said this friday and he said he cant maybe some other time so i emailed him maybe next week o r somethin but i like him again and this time i want it to work out this time so what should i tell him i want to go out with him but what should i do to have him aske me out?????

2007-02-14 11:29:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

SO i was thinking.... all girls know what they want in a guy??? But what do guys want in girls besides good looks????

2007-02-14 11:28:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

today for valentines day....i gave a girl a really nice hand made card...and although she didnt show a lot of emotions ...she seems to like it....anyways...my questions is.....what should i do next?? what is my next step? i see her in class almost everyday.....what should i say???

2007-02-14 11:28:09 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi, I have this new coworker started working about 4 months ago, I asked her out twice, but she refused,, since then I just flirt with her and we talk like as a colleague..
She has been dating a guy... so I thought she will get flowers from him... All girl got flowers today... so toward the end of work, I asked her where are her flowers? she said, no where...
Then I heard she talking to another girl, it seem the guy (one she was dating) brooked with her? today (I guess she had plan to go out with him for dinner, he cancelled it) and she seem very upset, calling guys immature... then when she left the wrok quite upset,, I asked she want me to send her flowers, she said she will be alright.. Then I called a local store and send her flowers at her home address. Though I told the store to send as anonymous, but she most likely guess that I send the flowers. What most girls think about it? Sweet thing or stalker? Can she complaint about me to the boss ..the card /flower will anonymous

2007-02-14 11:28:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 11:27:59 · 18 answers · asked by Love is Patient, Love is Kind ♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

All of a sudden I have this CRAVING to wear thongs. I almost feel slutty inside. Does that mean im a whore? Do you like it when girls wear thongs?

2007-02-14 11:27:42 · 8 answers · asked by c-lo 2 in Singles & Dating

he is 18 now his mother has told him i was dead and i have know idea where to start

i have only just managed to find wheree he is living and know its going to be a shock to him but feel he has a right to know

or is there a website that gives advise on this sort of thing

thanks

2007-02-14 11:25:49 · 5 answers · asked by whereisiain 1 in Family

My mom is hateful and is only nice once in a great while so i always feel unloved, I am only 12 and I take care of the house and the baby Isaballa. When im at my dads i am always taken care of and i only have to take care of my older sibs eric,16 and jay-jay ,17. the are awsome i dont know what to do please help me.

2007-02-14 11:25:35 · 9 answers · asked by Alissa W 1 in Family

okay theres this guy or at least almost all the guys i know think im okay but theres this one guy who i really like or a few guys who i like and one of the guys said i was really ugly. what should i do? I am not ugly and all the guys gave me an eight so yeahh what should i do to get him back or how do i get a guy if im not drop dead gorgeous pleaseeeee help me this is really important cuz i dont know what more i can take

2007-02-14 11:25:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

or rich average lookin partner

2007-02-14 11:25:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

c he cheated on me with my sister and he gave me a house full of stuff for valentines day all night he keep the phone ringing and last night i had 82 messeges and 42 e-mails and he text me 20 times today and he leaves love songs on my answer machine should i dump him or what

2007-02-14 11:25:23 · 14 answers · asked by The DONmistress 2 in Singles & Dating

OKAY...so me and this guy have been good friends forever and i guess he's always had a thing for me but never took it seriously until now...and both of us our falling for each other. We crossed the "kissing" boundries and now he's been giving me sweet little gentle kisses on my neck - what does this mean?

2007-02-14 11:24:35 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I cant be true to myself... What can I do to show the real me?!

2007-02-14 11:24:11 · 3 answers · asked by christine u 1 in Friends

2007-02-14 11:23:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Now I know this girl who is getting married. She has 3 girls all under 10, and on her wedding, she is doing this sand cerimony thing where they usher pours a little bit of white sand in the bottom, then her, her kids and her new husband will have a different color of sand and pour it all in at the same time, then the usher will pour the rest of his sand in at the top. Well, she needs something to call that to put in the um... the thing where it says whats going to happen in the wedding. Also, she wants a good song to go along with that. Like, it isnt a normal wedding with organs playing and stuff, but it should still be wedding- worthy, if you know what I mean. It will play while they are pouring their sand in and she wants it to do with them family coming together and stuff like that. Any ideas?

2007-02-14 11:23:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

how did that work out?

2007-02-14 11:23:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating