MY BOYFRIEND CHEATED ON ME WITH A WHITE GIRL AND NOW THEY HAVE A BABY TOGHTER AND HE THINKS THAT EVERYTHING IS OK. BUT THE TRUTH OF IT ALL IS THAT I REALLY HURT. BUT I STILL LOVE HIM AND WANTS TO SPEND THE REST OF MY LIFE WITH HIM. I REALLY NEED SOME HELP
2007-02-14 11:33:15 · 22 answers · asked by Tay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah.... I'd probably cheat on you too if i found me a white girl
2007-02-14 11:38:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you really do need help if you still want to spend the rest of your life with this guy. He can't be trusted, so how can you even consider being with someone who has cheated? Your life will be miserable if you were to spend the rest of your life with this guy, because you won't be able to trust him. What kind of a future is that? Have more self respect for yourself & find someone who is faithful & honest, each & every day. He's out there!!!
2007-02-14 11:41:23 · answer #2 · answered by Shortstuff13 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't allow yourself to be drawn back into that relationship! Don't you think that he hurt you enough? Now that he has a child with this person you will never be emotionally free from the hurt of him cheating. I made the same mistake because I said I loved the person but in actuality it was an excuse to not move on and accept that I was being used. Maybe this will be a changing experience for you and you will grow and understand and value your worth. Good luck..I feel your pain :(
2007-02-14 11:39:29 · answer #3 · answered by pinksmycolor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't, if you take him back, to him you'll be a weak person and it will happen again and again (cheating that is). I know it's hard, and I've been there, to let him go, but you have to. Plus him and the other girl will always be in between you two, because of the baby. And you probably are not gonna be happy with that. Trust me there will be another love, a guy who'll sweep you off your feet! Stay strong, you are a woman!
2007-02-14 11:38:24 · answer #4 · answered by Nataliya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run away and don't look back. It's just a matter of time till a cheater will cheat again. If you take him back, he will think that he can get away with it again. You will eventually have this baby a big part of you guys life and then, the gal he cheated with will always be connected. Move On! Time will heal that hurt. You deserve better.
2007-02-14 11:38:39 · answer #5 · answered by ladybugjan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, he CHEATED ON YOU. which means that he does not respect you. if he loved you so much, would he have cheated on you? no. you answered your own question. why would you take a man you know is unfaithful back? you're asking for a lifetime of hurting. if he cheated once, he'll do it again. have a girls night or go find another man, and forget about his stupid ***.
2007-02-14 11:38:54 · answer #6 · answered by vomitdoll 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it you put a label on people it doesn't matter if she is black, white, brown, orange, you have some kind of racial issue, you don't take him back he that baby and its momma will always be in his life because he and the girl he slept with have a baby so get over it, and move on.
2007-02-14 11:38:28 · answer #7 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no!!!
girl, you seriously need to get over him. he's not doing anything for you. if he cheated once and had a baby, will he ever cheat again? do you really trust him that much? i want to know if that bond of trust will be there if i had a guy. there will always be that awkward hole in your love. you can't forget that. even if you do wanna get over him. i'm serious. you can do much better.
no man deserves your tears, and the one who is, won't make you cry.
2007-02-14 11:38:41 · answer #8 · answered by Sunbirddie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You DO need help....help to stop loving such a rotten man!
How many times do you want to get hurt just LIKE this? Because that's what will happen if you stay with him---he has SHOWN you what he's like---now show him the door and find a GOOD man!
2007-02-14 11:37:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that's crazy. Who raises the child and who pays support for the child? Do you need this heartbreak in your life? Pardon me for saying this, but get your head out from between his legs and see the situation for what is. He says everything is OK. Do honestly believe this????
2007-02-14 11:42:03 · answer #10 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The main question is WHY ARE YOU TAKING HIM BACK? He cheated ... HAS HE LEARNED ANYTHING FROM HIS MISTAKES? Have you forgiven him? I believe that couples can get back together after cheating however TRUST IS THE KEY!!
2007-02-14 11:39:11 · answer #11 · answered by red 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋