okay theres this guy or at least almost all the guys i know think im okay but theres this one guy who i really like or a few guys who i like and one of the guys said i was really ugly. what should i do? I am not ugly and all the guys gave me an eight so yeahh what should i do to get him back or how do i get a guy if im not drop dead gorgeous pleaseeeee help me this is really important cuz i dont know what more i can take
2007-02-14 11:25:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am not shallow i am trying to give more details sorry if it sounds like that. thats totally not me.=)
2007-02-14 11:34:51 · update #1
the best answer is to be confident with who you are and walk around like you are proud of the things that may be quirky or different about you. unfortunately, in reality that is a hard thing to do. but if you know that you are unhappy with something, try to improve it enough to give you that confidence. the best feeling is when someone likes you for who you are and think you are beautiful even when you are not trying to be. but the world we live in is superficial, so again it takes a lot of courage to be yourself. i had a lot of luck acting like "yes, she's pretty, but pretty girls are a dime a dozen. i think it's much more attractive to be cool with yourself" - if you believe that, others around you will too. also, if you get a guy to like you because of your looks, you will only keep him for until the next pretty girl comes along-which is soon since they are a dime a dozen. good luck!!
2007-02-14 11:43:41 · answer #1 · answered by maggie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't change your looks but you can always add on. Guys might've gave you an eight to be nice or something. They do that all the time to exclude the rudeness they might show. Even I do that when someone asks me if they look nice. I just tell them they're not ugly. You think too highly of yourself "I am not ugly and all the guys gave me an eight" Try taking it as a compliment and not let it get to you.
2007-02-14 19:33:11 · answer #2 · answered by A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, looks should not be the one thing you focus on. if you are looking for someone who might really care about you and love you, let your personality show through. i mean, im not ugly, i could have any guy i wanted, but i would rather just make the one guy i have really happy. and when youre 50 and wrinkly, youre gonna need a personality behind that face, so start letting it grow now. confidance and personality are what should matter more than anything. if a guy cant get past a few zits, a size 13 ***, or whatever your insecurity is, he isnt worth anything in my book.
2007-02-14 19:36:45 · answer #3 · answered by Lips-of-an-angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether your good looking or not so much, guys usually respond favourably to women who dress slutty. Remember, you can dress slutty but you don't have to act or be one.
2007-02-14 19:42:08 · answer #4 · answered by roger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow - maybe your personality sucks more than your looks and thats why you can't get a guy.
Have confidence, and quit seeming so shallow
2007-02-14 19:29:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
JUST GIVE UP YOUR UGLY WITH A CAPITAL U
2007-02-14 19:38:52 · answer #6 · answered by BananaZ 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Worship his "member".
2007-02-14 19:37:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be your self....
2007-02-14 19:29:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋