2007-02-14 11:30:19 · 41 answers · asked by vee20082009 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
give him some head
2007-02-14 11:32:33 · answer #1 · answered by DaLab 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋
Sweetie, this is such an important step. Do not under any circumstances have sex until you are completely ready. You will regret rushing it and he won't appreciate you more, if anything, he'll take you for granted because he got you to do something you really didn't want to.
Relationships are about who has the power. Right now, you do. You rush into sex, you give him the power and your relationship will go downhill. Until the day that the power is shared, stick to your guns.
2007-02-14 11:41:33 · answer #2 · answered by Loki 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him "no". I know it won't be easy, but in the end, it isn't something you'll regret. If he's the kind of guy that would dump you or be an *** because you won't have sex with him, he's an asshole and you can do better (you really can!)
And ignore the jerk who gave the first response. Don't use oral sex as a substitute for genital sex. If you're not comfortable don't do it.
2007-02-14 11:36:40 · answer #3 · answered by alc051001 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't feel like you are being forced into it. I would like to point out that many boys will say what ever it takes to get the cookie, and once they get it then they go looking for another cookie. some but no all of the lies they tell, Baby I just love you so much, I have to have sex every day or I will die. You know you are the only woman for me, I can't help it honey you just turn me on so much, if he can talk you out of your panties he is going to do it and 99% of the time he is gone unless you are going to give him more and more, and then when you are pregnant he will act like he doesn't even know who you are and will say things like it ain't mine she ain't nothing but a whore and is trying to pin this kid on me,....sweetie keep your panties on and if this boy loves you he will wait to have sex at a much more appropriate time in your life and if he leaves because he isn't getting any then he wasn't worth having anyways.......Just say no and hope that he really does love and is willing to wait
2007-02-14 11:47:32 · answer #4 · answered by ffperki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then dont .. Just tell him no and send him on his way
Why do girls always think that they have to settle
There are so many guys out there who wont pressure you>
Stop giving guys a reason to not respect women
They want to F everything in sight
But they wont settle for anything less than a Virgin when theyre ready for marriage
Hes not worth it if he dsnt understand And you will definitley reget it if you do
2007-02-14 11:42:23 · answer #5 · answered by ♥NEVAR♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand your ground and make sure he knows you mean it. If he really likes you then he'll respect your decision. Don't let ANYONE pressure you into doing something you're not ready for or don't want to do. If this is your first time which it sounds like it is, it should be special and not something forced upon you. There's nothing wrong with saying NO so if that's your answer - stick with it after all it is YOUR CHOICE!!!!
2007-02-14 11:52:26 · answer #6 · answered by albert 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to, you must figure out why. Have you had sex with him before? If not, then just tell him you are not ready for that kind of relationship with him yet. If you have, then you need to figure out why you don't want to anymore , maybe he has hurt you emotionally in some way or you don't really love him.
2007-02-14 13:04:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
then don't, never let anyone pressure you into doing something you don't want to do, that is how people get hurt emotionally, physically and also unplanned pregnancy, you will do it just to make him happy and you are not ready to have sex, and what do you know, oops, you got pregnant and now you will be screwed, he only wants to have sex with you, cuz if he really loved you or cared about you, he would not try to make you do something you are not comfortable with
2007-02-14 11:37:38 · answer #8 · answered by SuzyBelle04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple -dont' do anything that you do not want to do.
No matter what he says or how he tries to persuade you!! Do not let him use you if he loves and respects you he will respect how you feel.
You will have to live with it for the rest of your life.
2007-02-14 11:35:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not ready, or just don't want to, then tell him so.
There is nothing saying that you have to have sex with him, remember, you owe him nothing.
Your body is yours alone, and only you can choose wether or not to share it.
2007-02-14 11:34:11 · answer #10 · answered by xylina_69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it until you are sure it is what you want to do, no matter the pressures to get you to rush into sex. And be sure to use protection!
2007-02-14 11:34:35 · answer #11 · answered by marenka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋