My freind is obbessessed with this EMO NINTH GRADER, and she is in Seventh grade, but all she talks about is him. I feel as if she is pushing me out and bringing this other girl in, and the other girl is one of my friends too, but now all she and my freind do are hang out together and talk about guys. Not that I dont enjoy talking about guys or anything, but they are a hassle. And I am only twelve years old, so I shouldnt have to worry about guys yet, so, any advice on how to help get to her to start being my freind agian?
2007-02-14 11:33:24 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You are completely right! You dont need to worry about guys yet and it is great you are not trying to act older than you actually are like your friends! :]
dont worry...if they are real friends they will come back at you when they realize what theyre missing. and if they dont that just means theyre not the right friends for you. Maybe you should look for friends that have similar interests to yours right now. Friends that value youth like you do and that do not try to act like little grown ups :]
good luck....and stay good
2007-02-14 11:41:20 · answer #1 · answered by dang-duh! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing I want to tell you is that at twelve years of age you are right where you are suppose to be. Boys should not be the most important thing in your life. You are at an age when your peers can push you into growing up to fast by trying to fit in. Have a heart to heart with your friend and tell her that you care for the friendship a great deal but that you are not into boys yet and maybe the two of you could enjoy some other activities or whatever.
2007-02-14 19:56:40 · answer #2 · answered by thinkincap1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a hard one. You want a natural friendship, if she has shifted to wanting to hang out with this other friend, you dont want to make her feel guilty, just let her know that you miss the time you guys used to share and maybe invite her to a girls day of just the two of you. Its the puberty time, and it sounds like shes in a different level than you, don't fee bad, just see if there are any other people you would like to hang with and try to find some other friends.
2007-02-14 19:47:56 · answer #3 · answered by no_me_no_u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHat I would do is just tell her that you would like to hang out with her a little bit ,ore because you are starting to feal left out.P.S.
I am 13.
2007-02-14 19:37:18 · answer #4 · answered by ♥LuV my preppyness♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun all i can say is just wait... you cant realli say its her fault she just well umm llk has started maturing and no can change it.
i am sorry but there isnt alot unless you can be really brave and talk to her but yuh hav to be nice about it dunt blow up on her that wont do anything at all.
hope it turns out okay for yuh :)
2007-02-14 19:38:58 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your awesome and she is lame. all my life i hated 7th graders because they think thier so great and they become sluts. but your cool. just forget her.
2007-02-14 19:39:19 · answer #6 · answered by cierra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie u arerite dont worry about it
2007-02-14 19:37:36 · answer #7 · answered by mrs.smith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋