c he cheated on me with my sister and he gave me a house full of stuff for valentines day all night he keep the phone ringing and last night i had 82 messeges and 42 e-mails and he text me 20 times today and he leaves love songs on my answer machine should i dump him or what
2007-02-14 11:25:23 · 14 answers · asked by The DONmistress 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanx u peoples but now i have to make a decion
2007-02-14 11:50:00 · update #1
I would either dump him because he cheated on you and no amount of gifts or presents will ever make up for lack of trust. OR if you are nice and decide to give him a second chance, he will have to earn your trust back. You'd have to understand that the second time around you can't just immediately trust him again, or you're just setting yourself up. Sometimes, people do change if they want to change badly enough. Sadly, what happens more often is people try to change but never do. Good luck, and be careful. And what the heck, you're sister! You can't trust her either!
2007-02-14 11:31:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
K u asked for it...I think u should dump him. Sure he says he loves u now...but couldn't he have figured it out b4 he cheated on you? And worse, w/ur own sister? In my opinion, u should've given him the time of day in the first place.
2007-02-14 19:36:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, definitely dump him. Not only did he cheat-he cheated on you with your SISTER. That's pretty bad.
Besides all the material stuff he's sending you, sure it's nice but you can't buy loyalty. He messed up, he's missing out. Move on and find yourself someone else.
2007-02-14 19:31:55 · answer #3 · answered by jules44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump his a$$. He shoulda been doing all that stuff before he cheated on u with your SISTER of all people! Gees
I would get rid of him/
No question about it.
Good luck
2007-02-14 19:30:39 · answer #4 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is bad to cheat with your sister. I'd dump him. That is just tacky. Don't take him back, he is a loser.You can do better.
2007-02-14 19:29:47 · answer #5 · answered by tigerprincess_bee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would dump him! Even though he is showering you with love, most guys that cheat, will never stop..."Old habits die hard", as they say...nad well, it's true! Good luck and Happy Valentines Day!!
2007-02-14 19:29:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would dump him .u know what they said one time is not the last one . also i can't believe he cheat on u with ur sister is ur sister fault 2 she knew she was ur boyfriend why did she do it
2007-02-14 19:38:12 · answer #7 · answered by hi ! (: 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it was me he cheated on, then i would dump him. can you ever trust him again, i mean he didn't just cheat, he cheated on you with you sister, just cause he left you stuff doesn't mean that it was right, and has he apolgized face to face with you... like i said i wouldn't it.... but you have to do what you think is right
2007-02-14 19:32:34 · answer #8 · answered by :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he realizes he screwed up. Dump him anyway. And your sister sounds real nice too.
2007-02-14 19:30:33 · answer #9 · answered by m k 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if ya love him then ........................no(listen to your heart)
if you've had enough you can tell ya sister she can have him 'cause he's so mean but if i were you i would dump him no matter wat if i loved him or not 'cause he cheated and if he really loved you he wouldn't have cheated in the first place
but
you must realize that if you take him back you're taking him back so that he can cheat on you again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
well in the end it's your choice:-)
love,
killerqueen
2007-02-14 19:37:53 · answer #10 · answered by killerqueen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋