how did that work out?
2007-02-14 11:23:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, I did and fell in love and had two of the most wonderful boys a mom could have.
2007-02-14 11:27:00 · answer #1 · answered by ladybugjan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, i did. After a while i started to fall for him. It took him a long long time. But he was sweet and patient.We broke up after almost 2 years. I had nothing to complain about, just that our personalities didn't fit. My friend told me that attraction is a must, but to my experience, it's not always like that. By the way, it's really nice to be "spoiled" because he's the one that's chasing you. The next guy i'd go out with , i don't care if i'm attracted to him or not, as long as he is to me and he's a nice guy. :-) It's easier and less hurtful that way. Because if you're attracted to him at the beginning, you'll tend to let go when he mistreat you and end up getting hurt. I'm not brave enough to risk my heart, even though i think that's the only way to experience the love that so rare that you've seen in movies and novels. oh well, you gain some, you loose some.
2007-02-14 19:38:29 · answer #2 · answered by mhn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I learned a while ago not to date just on physical appearances, now I am seeing people based on their personalities, ability to carry on a conversation, sense of humor, how they treat me, deal with my little quirks, etc.
Some of the best people I have dated are completely against the type I was attracted to in the past. The guy are closer to my height, no longer the football type build and I will tell you I have had the best dates/times out. I have laughed a lot, had great conversations, and in hindsight I had a better time than I did with the guys who fit into a type I thought I was attracted to.
2007-02-14 19:32:40 · answer #3 · answered by nightdance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have but he ended up being a jerk and then when I finally started back talking to him I no longer wanted to look past his ugliness. I could talk to him on the phone as a friend but was no longer willing to give him a chance just because he was nice.
2007-02-14 19:28:22 · answer #4 · answered by mypassions4life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope - there has to be some sexual energy and some attraction or else you're practically friends and then what's the point? And plus it wouldn't be fair if he was attracted to you and the feelings were not mutual.
2007-02-14 19:26:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yess - i used to be worried about that too - like "why go out with the guy if you're not a bit physically attracted to him" - but here's the thing, if he's a sweet guy with a great personality, he'll grow on you and you'll learn to love him more and more each day. corny, i know, but its true
2007-02-14 19:27:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, i have n it didnt work out so good he found out 3 weeks later that i had gone out with him just because i tought he was nice but had no feelings or ne attraction 4 him wat so ever so we just became friends but we dont talk much no more.
2007-02-14 19:32:09 · answer #7 · answered by ~*Princesa_Mexicana*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ive never done that before cause the looks matter to me... so i think if i would ever to do that the guy would have to have a nice car and lots of money!!!!
2007-02-14 19:26:38 · answer #8 · answered by Licious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I'm straight.
But I couldn't date a girl if I was attracted. It will only be friendship.
2007-02-14 19:28:15 · answer #9 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is called dating for fun, not for sex or an actual relationship. go for it, have a good time, and make sure he knows whats up so he doesnt get hurt.
2007-02-14 19:27:21 · answer #10 · answered by rand a 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋