Why does it feel like that guys who treat women like crap do so much better than me?
2007-02-14 11:30:07 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You'll get some eventually maybe, but nice guys do finish last. It seems that 99% of women actually like being treated bad. I don't know what our problem is. It creates drama and gossip? I don't know. Try being mean and see if it works!
2007-02-14 11:33:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason why, the "bad boys" do so well with the women is because they will say or do anything to get that girl in the sack and from the little bit that you have written, you seem to have a certain ounce of integrity that you don't do that. Furthermore, it about the chase because it is fun to chase someone that is difficult to obtain (by the way that sentiment goes for both men and women). I know you probably hear it before, but as a woman that has been through the "bad boys" and now perfer nice guys, it takes a certain amount of maturity to choose to be with someone that is not going to play with you emotions because that would mean that the woman in question has to be mature also and not play games. Sadly as you can attest a number of women are not there yet and it took me 20 years to get there and I am not 35 years old. Don't give up hope love there is someone out there for everyone.
2007-02-14 11:40:12 · answer #2 · answered by Almarie L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, but that depends on the type of girl you're looking for. The ones who know they are worthy of respect wont accept anything less than a gentleman. But I know how you feel. In high school I was always getting used and abused by the ladies. But by grad school (23 +) the quality of women changed. They were looking toward the future more and looking for a guy they could consider long term and by then they're tired of the bullshit. I think girls have that problem too, when dudes want just the kitty and then once we get older we start looking for wifey material. When you start having a little cash flow they start liking you too (personal experience)...You can figure out who loves you for you and who doesn't. A good one will come along, just keep treating them with respect and a girl who respects herself will realize that you're the right kind of guy.
2007-02-14 11:46:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK, like who says nice guys always finish last. I have probably hundreds of people who would give a sincere testimonial for me (and how I am the nicest person ever). I also have had so many sexual partners that no one really wants the answer to that. When younger, i exuded a confidence and sexiness that had women walking up to me in clubs and proposing just what acts we should perform. Sex five times a day was never unusual for me even if two of those were with the five fingered lady. So just fix yourself up, pull your shoulders back, and strut like you own the world and really believe in yourself and things will happen.
2007-02-14 11:42:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had better luck with nice guys than ***holes. Nice guys seem to bring romance and cuteness into a relationship. Also, I have found that sex with nice guys is so much more fulfilling (and crazier too) than selfish guys. You may just be alone for the moment, but you'll find someone. It's better to wait than to be treated like crap for who you are. Good luck!
2007-02-14 11:38:45 · answer #5 · answered by jennisthedude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't met a woman who sees your value yet. I was one of the "popular girls" in high school and college and I quickly learned the popular guys, jocks and uber handsome guys were to be avoided like a plague! They were sooo full of themselves, always cheated and treated women like crap. I always pursue that quiet guy in the corner that all the other women overlooked...the diamond in the rough so to speak. People think I'm crazy when I do it...but I can appreciate the inner beauty and I like to be treated like the lady I am. Be patient...the right woman will come along who is worthy of your attention...just be ready when the opportunity presents itself...don't screw it up! If you get it right the first time...she will love you forever!
2007-02-14 11:37:27 · answer #6 · answered by luvleechica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Big D? I'm one of those Nice Guys. And it may look like it, now? But the women get to seeing how fake, the others are. And you're in the Captains Chair, from then on! Have Patience! You're a Winner!
2007-02-14 11:34:10 · answer #7 · answered by Goggles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are picking the women that like being treated like crap. There are some women left out there that like being treated like a lady. Hang in there.
2007-02-14 11:37:22 · answer #8 · answered by coopta85 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Might because while you're sitting there, minding your own business whilst enjoying the newest issue for Spiderman or X-Men, the girl across from you has a narrow opinion of you off the bat.
It's just too easy for someone to dismiss someone else with simplistic stereotypes, like "love at first sight" but in an entirely negative way.
2007-02-14 11:38:24 · answer #9 · answered by Roy M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know I personaly would go for the nice guy instead of the crapy guy. Buy hey I have never been on a date and I am like 14 so I don't know. I don't even know how to get this certain guy to like me I guess I am not the best person to answer this question.
2007-02-14 11:35:06 · answer #10 · answered by Loaha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋