Family & Relationships - 14 February 2007

Im 13 years old and i still don't have a boyfriend. I know that im still young and everything and there aren't any guys that im intersted in at my school. But still, it is Valentines day and i feel lonely... Is this normal? When did u start going out? When was ur first kiss? Just wondering. what shoudl i do? Thanks for your help. HAPPY VALENTINES DAY!

2007-02-14 11:47:09 · 15 answers · asked by MorganR 1 in Singles & Dating

A guy,me ,school And he's my crush...

2007-02-14 11:46:54 · 16 answers · asked by sabrina s 1 in Friends

I just started a new school at the beginning of the school. At first, I was popular, every guy wanted me, and everybody wanted to be me. Well then all the sudden this shy, quiet girl came along. She had a bad no no ..... horrible life. And I just hanged out with her and she wasn't a prep. So I just stoped hanging around preps to help her out and be friends with her. But now, she moved to a new school and I have been left in the dust with some other friends. How can I get up to the top again. I talk to the preps but I don't hangout with them cause we live in a small town and there isn't no place to hangout but this kids club. But there are drugs, and fights and just don't want to get all caughted up in all of that. I'm gradualling going up, but how can I go faster. Also, it dosn't help that Im kind of shy and I get nervous infront of them. Please Help me! Thanks

2007-02-14 11:46:05 · 6 answers · asked by volleyballis4ever 3 in Friends

I'm a redheaded guy, and i want to know what girls are looking for me in boston!

2007-02-14 11:45:38 · 5 answers · asked by redims81 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 11:45:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 11:45:31 · 32 answers · asked by lucylen 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and I have been together for a year now, and she has problems showing she wants to have sex with me. She says she wants it, but never shows it. To me it means a lot more if she would just show that she wants to start once in a while. She says she is shy and thinks she would look stupid, and i just want her to show more interest in it.

2007-02-14 11:44:50 · 11 answers · asked by nyyanks831 1 in Singles & Dating

okay shes in my dance class (jc college) and i talked to her once...i said hey..did u get the dance..she was like excuse me (smiling) I was like ur in my class right and she stopped and we looked eye to eye(this was as we were walking outside in the parking lot)...she responded "yeah" smiling ..i was just like i was jw and i walked away rightway ..lol...(man did i get nervous!!)...anyways if i say this to her next time...(casually) hey so when r u going to show me how to dance (or that dance)...she probably just laugh and then ill say...I don't think I introduced myself to you last time...im ben(or i can say i dont think i got ur name last time..whats ur name..im ben) u dance good...so u been dancing for a while?...
so...how does this sound?? lol give me suggestions if this would be too strong of a approach...i think it just sounds just being funny and cute idk what yall think !! give me suggestions!!

2007-02-14 11:44:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

DON'T READ THIS. You will get kissed on the nearest possible Friday by the love of your life. Tomorrow will be the best day of your life. However, if you don't post this comment to at least 3 videos, you will die within 2 days. Copy and paste this, to be saved.

I'm worried that this will come true. Will it? Or is it just a chain letter?

2007-02-14 11:44:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been e-mailing someone I consider a friend for over a year, I liked her from the start, it is my ex boyfriend's mom. She would always send me funny e-mails and such and we talked about different things, he ended up doing me very dirty and we even discussed that as she did not approve, she has been sick lately and wrote and told me, I have not heard from her since and have e-mailed her twice to see how she is but have not heard from her, I dont know if she just doesnt want to talk anymore and doesnt want to tell me or if she is worse or because of him and things he may have said about me, should I now just leave it alone? It hurts my feelings that she wouldnt have the nerve to say so if that is the case as I have always sent her something at Christmas and cared for her as a person, and thought she did me also.

2007-02-14 11:43:42 · 5 answers · asked by jeannie64 2 in Friends

2007-02-14 11:43:18 · 4 answers · asked by ki55nte11 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been very depresive the last couple of days because I feel that my parents don't love me because they are always saying that I am not good for anything and that they are tired of being with me and are always treating me bad, I dont want to go to a sustitute home because that would only make me feel worse and I have a little brother which is the most important thing to me. Should I suicide?

2007-02-14 11:42:38 · 16 answers · asked by Axel C 4 in Family

2007-02-14 11:42:18 · 41 answers · asked by linda 2 in Marriage & Divorce

she wants to borrow $50.00 for a DNA test to see if the baby is really hers. Can they tell that on DNA?

2007-02-14 11:41:51 · 6 answers · asked by Jim R 4 in Family

this is a follow up question to my other one regarding bob and john. it was suggested that i talk to john but i only have one class with him (first hour) and then i dont see him the rest of the day. how should i approach him and what should i say? im sorry for being an incredibly shy person when it comes to people like him, I really am working on it. if you were me, what would you do?

2007-02-14 11:41:07 · 8 answers · asked by Miss_Sunshine 4 in Singles & Dating

Found out that my "boyfriend" of 3 1/2 years belonged to a popular internet dating site and wrote 2 females. I questioned him about it and he deined the whole thing. I have the proof that he belonged to the service, just not the e-mails he sent.
He tells me he loves me very much and wants to get married, but if he can't be honest then I will hit the road. Could this have been a test to see if I am the "one".

2007-02-14 11:41:00 · 14 answers · asked by iamhappyfourme 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 11:40:22 · 4 answers · asked by one_thing 3 in Singles & Dating

im going through a divorce my court is on the 28th of this month and im a really good father to my kids and as i was to her 2 other children, but i want Joint Custody for my two kids what does joint custody really mean

2007-02-14 11:40:06 · 13 answers · asked by hotrod 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-14 11:38:38 · 20 answers · asked by Heidi J 1 in Singles & Dating

i really really like this one guy and we r always talking n hanging out. we talk before bed and in the mornings when we get up..i really really want to be with him but my best friend likes him too. she always gets whenever she finds out that i talked to him pluse she has a bf but she cant stand me being near him... iv tried to let him go because of her but i just cant and when i start to he comes back to me....... i really dont want to lose either of them but what do i do???

2007-02-14 11:38:35 · 12 answers · asked by DaZe 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 11:38:06 · 15 answers · asked by Steve 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I really like this guy and he's really nice I love talking to him. I have a class with a friend of his so I befriended his friend in order to see the guy I like and find out more about him. However, my plan backfired and now the friend has asked for my number to "call me sometime" and I think that the guy I like thinks I like his friend. Has this ever happened to anyone else? How did it end up?
Any ideas would be welcomed.

P.S. I think that I was wrong for "using" his friend but sometimes when you like someone you have to ask the friends about what they like right?

2007-02-14 11:37:35 · 22 answers · asked by AlysonC 2 in Singles & Dating

Open this 2 IMPORTANT NOT TO PLEASE OPEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...
heres the deAL I LIKE THIS BOY BUT LAST TIME WE STARTED TALKING ON THE PHONE BUT THEN IT DIDNT WORK BUT THEN WE STARTED TALKING AGAIN AND LAST NIGHT WE HAD A DANCE AND WE STARTED TALKING AND WE WERE DANCING AND I ASKED HIM SO U SAID U LIKE ME (BECAUSE AWHILE HE TOLD HE LIKED ME ) and then im like what ever happened and he said he didnt know so now i emailed him sayin we should hangout sometime and i said this friday and he said he cant maybe some other time so i emailed him maybe next week o r somethin but i like him again and this time i want it to work out this time so what should i tell him i want to go out with him but what should i do to have him aske me out?????

2007-02-14 11:36:57 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am getting married in july and have asked my grandfather to give me away. but, i am getting back feed back from some of my family. i dont have a relationship with my father what so ever, and they want me to ask him to give me away, but the way i see it he has never had me. what should i do, any information or advise will help. thanks

2007-02-14 11:36:40 · 17 answers · asked by ccsd25 1 in Weddings

I was legally married on September 18, 2006. We couldn't afford a wedding at the moment. We're back on our feet now, and we decided to have one September 16th, 2007. Yay finally, I'm so excited. However, it might seem so weird. Walking down the aisle, being annonced as husband and wife. When we were already married. Anyone seen or heard of a similiar situation. Do I have to tell the rabbi and priest (I'm Jewish, he's Catholic) that we were previously married?

2007-02-14 11:36:31 · 12 answers · asked by Soldier'sWife 3 in Weddings

I may expect to much from people but most people, even friends act to busy to call or come around. I try to stay in touch with my friends but I feel like I am the one doing most of the calling and wanting to get together, people always talk about how busy they are but my life is just as busy and I still yet find time for them, I feel I am a true blue friend and expect the same, but find it rarely, except if they really need something, they can always find time to call. It makes you just want to stay to yourself, Anoyone else have this problem? And why does it bother me so much? How do I avoid feeling it?

2007-02-14 11:36:08 · 8 answers · asked by jeannie64 2 in Friends

could it be possible that you love a girl sooo much but you never want to see her???
Cause like I see my bf every weekend but BARELY on the weekdays and he always texts me saying he loves me soo much and no one fills his heart like I do, but even when were in the same building, sometimes we dont see each other. I dont know if im makin a big deal out of nothing or not but im mad at him for this!

2007-02-14 11:35:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was on the phone one day with my so called friend and i told her like 2 things i would never tell anyone but since i trusted her so much i thought it was ok but the next day everyone knew even my boyfriend i felt sick and stupid and now i have no boyfriend cause (she has him) and very little friends because of it what should i do?

2007-02-14 11:35:36 · 9 answers · asked by Chill 1 in Friends

My BF and I split after 5 yrs. I have decided that it is best that I don't see him anymore (well for a few weeks anyway). We were talking on the phone as our split was not nasty, it hurts like hell dont get me wrong. Everytime I see him and he leaves, it hurts so much. I have decided for ME that I cant do that anymore. I want to talk to him on the phone, but not see him in person. We were talking lastnight and it was friendly, then I told him and his attitude changed. I think I hurt his feelings.

He is comming over tongiht to exchange some stuff and talk. How can I tell him that I am doing this for me without hurting his feelings. I really don't want to do this, but I do need to. Its for the best (I think).

Any advise?

2007-02-14 11:35:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok my school had no school today.So Friday I'm Gonna win the heart of my crush.So girls any advice on Behavoir & style.Ooohh
& boys what do the popular boys look for in a not so popular girl?
Please answer me I'm desperate.I'll really apriciate it.Thanks.

2007-02-14 11:34:34 · 2 answers · asked by Bagon luva 1 in Singles & Dating