i really really like this one guy and we r always talking n hanging out. we talk before bed and in the mornings when we get up..i really really want to be with him but my best friend likes him too. she always gets whenever she finds out that i talked to him pluse she has a bf but she cant stand me being near him... iv tried to let him go because of her but i just cant and when i start to he comes back to me....... i really dont want to lose either of them but what do i do???
2007-02-14 11:38:35 · 12 answers · asked by DaZe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-02-14 11:41:50 · answer #1 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your best friends she should respect your honesty... 1. why should she care if you like this guy when she has one. 2. your not in grade school playing on the playground like him if you do. 3. best friend or not keep your business to yourself. 4. He needs to let her know that he is trying to make something happen with you and she will get the picture. Come on now you don't need to lose a friend over a guy.. He needs to set her straight and if he cant maybe he is the one to be looking at. Is he trying to play you both..... Maybe not but the fact is if she has a boyfriend and she is happy she needs to step back so her best friend can find some happiness too.
2007-02-14 19:48:32 · answer #2 · answered by vicki m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best friend sounds like a hoe. Why is she trying to prevent you from being happy? She must obviously have a bad relationship w/her guy if she's looking @ other dudes (whom, by the way don't give her the time of day apparently-if he's talking to YOU). Misery really does love company it seems. Go for the guy, leave your friend, she sounds like the kind of girl that would step on you if she had the chance. She should be supportive of your possible romance with this guy, and she's not.
2007-02-14 19:45:30 · answer #3 · answered by jules44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is obviously very selfish. U should go after the guy, cuz ur friend has a bf and she obviously doesn't trust u very much. U can't have a real friendship without trust.
2007-02-14 19:42:37 · answer #4 · answered by yo. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There should be no reason to lose either of them, I think you should go for it. If your friend is your best friend, she will come around, maybe you should set up a double date?
2007-02-14 19:45:41 · answer #5 · answered by ngawhetu72 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore your best friend. She HAS a boyfriend. She's supposed to be committed to HER and her BOYFRIEND'S relationship.
Don't feel guilty for going for the guy you like! She has no right to interfere and b*tch at you!
Good Luck :]
2007-02-14 19:46:47 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is REALLY simple. You like him, your friend (who has a boyfriend) likes him. Does he like you???
If this girl is really yoru friend she will not care what you do with him if he likes you and not her. But that is beside the point since SHE IS WITH SOMEONE. That places her out of the picture.
If you like him, and he likes you than be with him. If your "friend" ditches you because of this than she really wasn't that good of a friend to begin with.
2007-02-14 19:43:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was you, id go for the guy. YOUR BESTFRIEND HAS A BOYFRIEND! she should not be worried what you and this guy are doing. shes being selfish actually.. she has someone and when you find someone she wants him too? thats a little messed up... go for the guy.
2007-02-14 19:42:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friend is not a good friend if she is jealous of you talking to a guy she likes, if SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND!!! What is this girl's problem??
2007-02-14 19:44:28 · answer #9 · answered by john 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the two of you should sit down and have a really hart to hart
2007-02-14 19:41:43 · answer #10 · answered by mrs.smith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋