this is a follow up question to my other one regarding bob and john. it was suggested that i talk to john but i only have one class with him (first hour) and then i dont see him the rest of the day. how should i approach him and what should i say? im sorry for being an incredibly shy person when it comes to people like him, I really am working on it. if you were me, what would you do?
2007-02-14 11:41:07 · 8 answers · asked by Miss_Sunshine 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not to sound like a PIG, but when it comes to approaching people, you got it made.....between your legs. If you're a female and you talk to a guy, no matter who that guy is, the thought of "Is she attracted to me" or "I wanna bang her" will defiantly cross his mind. All you have to do is, sorry I make it seem so simple but it is, say "Hi" and very vaguely get into a convo about some common interest. I assume your class topic is a great start. Guys love talking about themselves so let him ramble away. And say statements which require him to elaborate.
That's how you break the ice.
2007-02-14 11:49:33 · answer #1 · answered by blueboy342 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Catch his eye. After he looks at you, trow a smile. If he's close enough to you ask him how he's doing or something about the class or what class he has next. Being funny works too, say that you are frustrated with something in class, or make a comment about a teacher or homework. Little talk don't say more than a sentance!
2007-02-14 11:45:16 · answer #2 · answered by Nataliya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him on the way out of the class and ask him out for after school
2007-02-14 11:46:39 · answer #3 · answered by hoplessly_in_love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say this exactly.
"hey john, would you like to hang out sometime?"
possible answers;
"yeah, that would be lovely. when would you like to meet?"
"ummmmmm.... it's not you, it's me. no"
what to say to #2
"well, if it's you then my conclusion was correct."
"really? fasinating. what was your conclusion?"
"well, gotta go now bye."
answer 2 #1
"that your not good enough for me to know that i'm best for you."
and walk away. let it slide off like water. you make a big deal, you end up as the school gossip. relax
2007-02-14 11:47:10 · answer #4 · answered by Sunbirddie 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should approach him after your first lesson and ask him out and then meet him after school.
Make time to see him.
2007-02-14 11:44:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would try to talk to him, because you shouldn't leave everything bottle up inside. maybe you could try to talk about a subject that both of you like. or ever try to act like you need help with your assignment , so that you could get closer.
2007-02-14 11:50:03 · answer #6 · answered by CYTHIA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm shy too.... but what i would do is tell him that you want to talk to him during lunch break..... and just relax, you don't want to sound rehersed.... say what u feel right there
2007-02-14 11:46:43 · answer #7 · answered by :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it up he's not worthy
2007-02-14 11:45:17 · answer #8 · answered by t-bone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋