I have been very depresive the last couple of days because I feel that my parents don't love me because they are always saying that I am not good for anything and that they are tired of being with me and are always treating me bad, I dont want to go to a sustitute home because that would only make me feel worse and I have a little brother which is the most important thing to me. Should I suicide?
2007-02-14 11:42:38 · 16 answers · asked by Axel C 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Also, my parents say that when I tell them that I feel bad that they think that I'm trying to manipulate them
2007-02-15 00:27:46 · update #1
They are always telling me to grow up, which means that they don't want me to continue being a teenager and already be an adult, I'm 14, I think that I ve got to live happily my life cause then I won't be able to go back to being a teenager, my parents already ruined my infancy, and are also trying to keep ruinung my life, what do you think?
2007-02-15 00:32:48 · update #2
The only person that comprehended me was my grandmother, but now she's dead, my other grandmother is always on my dad's side and my parents hate each other because of problems that they had when I had like 2 years of age and 12 years later my dad still hates my mom
2007-02-15 00:38:45 · update #3
You have already received some great advice so please take it and learn to love yourself even if you feel like no one else does. Someday you are going to discover that you are a great person who has a lot to offer so please never, never, never give up on yourself. Life can be very hard even in the best of families but it is definitely worth going on with in spite of any negative circumstances. Please don't try to harm yourself!!!
Also don't allow anger and bitterness towards your parents to steal your joy but remain determined that if/when you become a parent "your" children will know without a doubt that you love and cherish them. In other words, you must understand that history does not have to repeat itself in your life.
I wish you the best future you could possibly think or imagine.
2007-02-14 12:24:35 · answer #1 · answered by Bethany 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most important thing is to go and talk to your doctor about this matter. You can ask him to keep things between you and him if you don't want your parents finding out. Your doctor is a professional and knows all about issues such as these. Unfortunately, this is not the sort of problem that can or should be resolved over the Internet. Last but not least, no, you shouldn't kill yourself because theirs always a solution and you wouldn't wanna leave your brother behind to face the same thing you had to. Remember too, what doesn't kill you makes you stronger down the road.
Best of luck and go see a doctor tomorrow!
2007-02-14 12:10:09 · answer #2 · answered by roger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! That is never the answer to any problem! Can you talk to other family members about your parents, maybe they have some insight on their very unkind remarks to you. Are your parents having problems in their marriage? I don't think their anger has anything to do with you, there's something else going on and I'm so sorry they are taking it on you, it's not right! Can you talk to a teacher or school counselor, I'm sure they can advise you further. Remember, life is a precious gift and nobody and no reason is worth thinking about ending it. I believe you have a great future ahead of you and you will look back at this time in your life, and be very happy that you made the right choice, the choice of life! Take Care....
2007-02-14 11:53:52 · answer #3 · answered by pam m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey don't worry about what your parents think or say about you. The only thing you need to be concerned about is what you think of yourself and how you perceive yourself as a human being.
You need to divorce your parents and put as much as distance between you and them. A psychologist told me this many years ago.
I recommend that you go into therapy and start taking St.John's Wort which is a nautral anti-depressant.
You will be fine if you just don't listen to anyone.
KAL
No Don't try sucide I have done that and been there. If you need someone to talk too I am at mental.health.advocate@hotmail.com
2007-02-14 11:50:51 · answer #4 · answered by Karissa Anne L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. You should not suicide by any circumstances. What you need to understand first is that despite what they say or do, your parents do love you on some level and that will never go away. Secondly, you have to realize that right now you are just beginning your life, and right now there is no limit to what you can accomplish. Do what it takes to succeed and stick it out and eventually you will be rewarded. Trust me, its worth it.
2007-02-14 11:46:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!! Suicide is never an option. Call a friend or contact the local police and ask if there is a trained professional there that can speak with you and help you through this or if they have a number to a professional that can help you.
2007-02-14 11:57:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First place you need a hug..... Is there anyone you can talk to? A favorite aunt, teacher, adult friend? You are of value and you need to prove it to yourself. Your kid brother looks up to you and if you would do yourself in, it may push him over the edge . Your parents are idiots not to see your worth. No, dont try that stuff.
2007-02-14 12:56:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO!! You should show them that they are wrong about you and become the best person you can be for YOURSELF. Become successful and happy...that is the best revenge.
Please get some help...you can't stay sad forever!! Suicide is not an answer...it is the easy way out and you are better than that!!!
2007-02-14 12:02:34 · answer #8 · answered by BellyRubz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should live your life like you're getting paid for it. If you really want to commit suicide, why don't you donate your organs to people who want to live. There are some who'd give anything to be as healthy and as lucky as you are, ya know?
2007-02-14 12:09:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know that happends to a lot of People but put your mind on God and everything in your life would change you will know what to do just go to church and ask God for forgivness and thanks that your alive because if it wasnt for him you wouldnt be here right now
2007-02-14 12:54:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋