2007-02-14 11:42:18 · 41 answers · asked by linda 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No honey be mad and hurt when you have a child on this day and he passed away and there is no child to celebrate his birthday with. that's when you can be mad and hurt.
2007-02-14 11:53:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not mad. I could see a little disappointed, but not mad. It's not all about the gift, the card, the candy ... it's about love. However, I do not get anything for any of the holidays because my husband is a Jehovah's Witness. So consider yourself lucky for getting something sometimes. I mean, my husband will try to do things every now and then to make up for what I don't get on the holidays. But I celebrate all holidays with my family, but nothing with my husband except for our anniversary which so far has been great.
2007-02-14 13:44:25 · answer #2 · answered by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily. I am against Valentines Day. It's just the idea that on this one day you are expected to love someone and be more romantic than you are on the other three hundred and sixty four days of the day. I think what matters more is how he treats you the rest of the day. However you can feel disappointed and let down. Tell him that you felt that it wasn't right. Either you'll get something a day late (Which is better than never) or you'll get something twice as good next year. Just don't be to hard on him, remember he's just a man after all.
2007-02-14 11:48:47 · answer #3 · answered by MrsLuzius 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for 32 yrs and not once has he ever got me anything... I really don't need anything BUT he could stop at CVS, Walgreen's, etc and buy a dam card. I used to get mad and mostly hurt I guess. I would buy him something and make something yummy. Not anymore.. He didn't care. Says he didn't have time. That's BS...he does take care of me in other ways I guess.Buys my gas , oil changes and etc. so I guess that counts. He doesn't even buy Christmas gifts. I will sit there and watch him open his..
I told him if he can't buy me flowers at least 1 time while I'm living don't bother when I die..They really might get more from us if they tried alittle more. Benefits might be really good!!!!!! But not tonight.....
2007-02-14 12:25:43 · answer #4 · answered by Squirrlee-1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself this, does he always get you something? If he does then yes and be alittle mad and also be on the lookout as to why not this year, what is going on. If he doesn't usually then no. You are mad though and you can't help how you feel. Next year maybe you should plan something together instead of waiting for gifts from eachother, that way you're both getting something. Time together to show eachother your feelings, that should be more important than gifts.
2007-02-14 11:52:08 · answer #5 · answered by Whiteangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mad? sugar you should be screaming mad!!! Its not like he didn't know the holiday was coming up. And with all the dollar stores on every street corner you'd think he could come up with some candles and candy for less than he spends on the card that sounds too dam mushy to be from him!
I have never gotten anything for Valentines Day since the day we got married. He always says he doesn't have the money or didn't have the time. Bull! He has money to spend on new clothes for himself the same day and shopping trip he buys my card in! And time---hell the media starts advertising in December for the dam holiday!
There are no excuses as far as I am concerned for any man to miss the holiday celebrating love. Hell, yeah be mad and make him make it up to you big time.
2007-02-14 11:53:13 · answer #6 · answered by j05gemini 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you make it clear to him beforehand that this day was important to you and that you expected something special? If so, then it was wrong of him not to get you anything and you have the right to feel angry. In this case you should let him know how much it upset you. But it is also possible that he just didn't know that you cared. Valentines Day is a holiday that many people choose not to celebrate so it is also possible that he just didn't know that you thought today was important. If this is the case then just let him know how you feel about it and what your expectations are for the future.
2007-02-14 12:35:57 · answer #7 · answered by a girl in the library 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes be very mad take all your anger out on him get a divorce and be with all the other woman looking for a man because man did not give.
Will this make you happy
2007-02-14 12:07:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know him.........so, he really like this kind of celebration?Did he give you something past year?I know you are sad about this ,your expectations were to receive something in this special day.......but,for some person this days are a kind of commercial pression and that doesnt mean that he doesnt care about you and maybe is not a good reason to be mad....think about the values and the good things he has that make him your husband.
2007-02-14 11:59:40 · answer #9 · answered by mariposa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So your love language is "gifts". His isn't. Does he do things for you like clean your car, change the oil, drive you places? He shows that he loves you in another way. Be happy you have a husband. There are some lonely people out there that would love to have a guy to call their own.
2007-02-14 11:50:42 · answer #10 · answered by spinster wife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, I guess I just think that guys know how important V-Day is to women so how darn hard is it to get a card or candy or just something anything! Most men spend more time picking out what flavor of icecream they want. Its a day to make your wife feel special and the whole U.S. celebrates it. Men should know not to screw it up.
2007-02-14 11:55:13 · answer #11 · answered by pumpkinautumn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋