Why did he lie?

Question

me and my boyfriend went to a party 3 days ago
i drank like 10 beers. and did like 12 shots
i smoked like 6blunts and im pretty sure i took some pills.
I couldnt remember if we had sex or not so i asked him and he said No. than as i was walking down the hall of my dorm and my boyfriends best friend came up to me and told me that me him and my boyfriend all had sex and he hoped things wouldnt be strange. Why did my boyfriend lie also i found out i was passed out most of the time while my bf was doing me. he didnt use a condom. why would he do this weve been together for 2years and never did it before or anything like it
also i have like a huge bump on the back of my head what could that be from.

Answer 1

like O M G!!!! wake up and smell the coffee sister!!!
be thankful you are still alive to talk about it!!!!
your b/f probably lied because he regretted it afterward and was co-ersed into it.
the condom thing was (A) he was too messed up to care (B) male ego because the other guy didn't
PRAY..yyou did not get an STD and that you are not pregnant and PLEASE stop the stupid!!!

Answer 2

sounds like youve been date raped. go to your college health center for std testing and counseling.dont ignore just cuz youve been with him two years.howd you feel if you were married for 2 years and he pulled this w a friend? its criminal.

Answer 3

Did your brain fall out? Why do people put themselves in these situations? Why are you so dam stupid? Ok, I'm sick of the stupidity...BYE NOW

Answer 4

i dont think you get the big problem. dont ask why he would lie about it, ask why he would do it in the first place. the answer to why he would lie about having done it: it is rape! it is illegal. you can get him in deep trouble for that. this isnt something you can blow off. you NEED to talk to him about what happened. dont wait, please.