today for valentines day....i gave a girl a really nice hand made card...and although she didnt show a lot of emotions ...she seems to like it....anyways...my questions is.....what should i do next?? what is my next step? i see her in class almost everyday.....what should i say???
2007-02-14 11:28:09 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nothing, you don't want to come on too strong. if she doesn't thank you for it, or make the next move then i think you should move on
2007-02-14 11:31:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a gem! Taking the time to make a handmade card is very sweet. In class, ask her is she had a good valentines day and maybe make a joke about glad you paid attention in second grade when you learned how to cut paper...or something funny like that. If she blows you off or acts funny, then get over her, move on, because your a sweerheart and someone needs to appreciate you more......a handmade card, I would have jumped up and down with excitement!
Good luck!
2007-02-14 19:34:30 · answer #2 · answered by no_me_no_u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy you remind me of myself. Although I have to ask, did you really express yourself deeply in the card. I mean, did you tell her how you feel about her. It's really important for a woman to know how a man feels about her. Then again, if she's shy, this would problably make her feel more shy around you. One thing I do make clear, if you think that if you don't ask her out immediately she will go with another guy or some other guy might come along and take her, that's not true. Not unless you express yourself deeply. If she knows how you feel about her and you really show interest, it will be hard for her to accept another guy besides you. Trust me, don't make the same mistake I did of falling for a woman just because of her physical apperance and somewhat attraction. Know her first and then decide. Knowledge is important, and so is concern, and when they're both in tact, physical attraction and appearance can't take them away. Trust me.
2007-02-14 19:41:56 · answer #3 · answered by Luis G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to give you two thumbs up for make a home made card with your own thoughts in the card too. WOW
Just ask her of Thursday how was her day and if she liked the card you made for her, and take it from there.
If she didn't then you have some thinking to do, do you try and fix it or move on to find someone who'll like you for who you are and not what you can buy them.
Good luck
2007-02-14 19:39:14 · answer #4 · answered by choiceav 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Valentine's Day is an event. Tomorrow, it's over. Resume your relationship. You gave her the card, she liked it, end of story.
2007-02-14 19:30:58 · answer #5 · answered by Thomas K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about something you did last weekend or extracurricular activites that you do. see is she shows interest when you guys talk. if not, find some one better that is interested in you. if she does, try asking her out sometime next week, that way you have this weekend to sort of plan out everything...dont forget to ask her for her number...lol
good luck and happy valentines day!
2007-02-14 19:32:42 · answer #6 · answered by neatfreAK47 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont pursue this any further,if she diddnt show a lot of emotions, well take that as a hint.if she really liked you, she'd know she has to make the next move.a guy who tries too hard isnt a turn on.
2007-02-14 19:34:46 · answer #7 · answered by bentley f 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her did she like the card you made for her and already gave it to her. Give her some real flowers that's what girls like the most and then ask her would you be my VALENTINE............god luck ^_^
2007-02-14 19:32:44 · answer #8 · answered by Sa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be cool. Just talk to her every day, but don't be stalkerish. If she seems like she's interested, ask her to go out to a movie, even in a group if that's what works for you at first.
2007-02-14 19:31:50 · answer #9 · answered by every1lovesamixedgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her out to eat or something like that.. just take things slow. get to know her and become closer to her. if you are already close to her then ya, you should ask her out, the worst she could say is no, and you two could hopefully just remain friends
2007-02-14 19:31:59 · answer #10 · answered by mrs.contreras 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋