My mom is hateful and is only nice once in a great while so i always feel unloved, I am only 12 and I take care of the house and the baby Isaballa. When im at my dads i am always taken care of and i only have to take care of my older sibs eric,16 and jay-jay ,17. the are awsome i dont know what to do please help me.
2007-02-14 11:25:35 · 9 answers · asked by Alissa W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
well, just remember that your mom is the one who is dealing with you now, she has to be the bad mom and do the discipline and make sure you go to school and do the homework and dont stay out late and drink and get knocked up and stuff. Dad gets the weekends i assume, and they are all fun and games. If you move in then there will probably be an end to that.
2007-02-14 11:29:40 · answer #1 · answered by rand a 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your parents are divorced and your mom has sole custody then at this age it is your mothers decision. I too once felt this way and it wasn't until i was 14 that I had a choice. So I would suggest that you sit down and talk to your parents one on one and let them know that you would like to spend more time with your dad. And see if maybe your mom would let you stay at your dad's house 1-2 days extra through the week, and try it on a trial basis. If it works out great, but you need to discuss it with both parents. Try not to get angry when discussing it though.
2007-02-14 11:44:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with your dad. why go to a place where you feel unloved. however maybe your mother just needs somebody to show her some love which you can do from your dad's house, be sure to visit your mother.
2007-02-14 11:30:51 · answer #3 · answered by 2much 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh sweety the only person who can answer your question is you. Go where you feel happy and loved, that is what you need and deserve. Good Luck to you and I know you'll make the right choice.
2007-02-14 11:31:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your dad your mom might be mad but its better to be loved than unloved
2007-02-14 11:31:00 · answer #5 · answered by You should not be on this! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like you like your dad better so why not go with your dad? You haven't got anything to lose right?
2007-02-14 11:29:42 · answer #6 · answered by Loaha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont have a choice if your 12. flip a coin,,
2007-02-14 11:29:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take turns... On weekends stay with your mother or father and on weekdays stay with the other one.
2007-02-14 11:29:22 · answer #8 · answered by Almighty Armadillo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to make a list! wat u like about ur dads and ur moms! then make a list of things u dislike about ur dads and ur moms. it might help!
2007-02-14 12:03:30 · answer #9 · answered by reen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋