Family & Relationships - 5 February 2007

My ex boyfriend will tell me over the computer that he doesn’t love me but he won't tell me to my face. It's something I need for closure but he refuses to tell me to face to face that he doesn’t love me. I told him I won't make a scene or be upset, because I really wouldn't. He told me he'd feel uncomfortable and some things he needs to keep to himself. Umm, okay? What's his deal and why can't he do this one little thing for me after he ended the relationship? Just because he'd be uncomfortable? Wouldn't it be worth telling me just to get me to shut up?

2007-02-05 10:22:56 · 4 answers · asked by Simple Love 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

this girl asked this guy if he liked me and i think he thinks that i like him now, but i dont and i dont want him to feel weird around me like i want him or something. how could i tell him but make sure he doesnt think i am trying to cover the truth or something

2007-02-05 10:22:44 · 8 answers · asked by summer girl 3 in Singles & Dating

We've been together for about 2 years living together for about 1 1/2. We both have great jobs and we know that we've found the "one". Is it to early or should we wait.

2007-02-05 10:21:44 · 23 answers · asked by Kevin C 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Am in love with my best friend and always believed he is too. Since 2 months he has not kept any contacts, should i send him a valentine greeting?

2007-02-05 10:21:28 · 15 answers · asked by bindu_b11 2 in Friends

2007-02-05 10:21:19 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friend is dealing with a death in her family. it hurts me to see her cry. i don't know what to do. i want her to know that i am always here for her but i can't cuase she now she lives in a different state. I feel helpless, like there is nothing that I could possibly do to make her feel better and it makes me want to cry. She is my best friend and i want her to know that i am always here for her, i just don't know how to make her see that.

2007-02-05 10:21:01 · 4 answers · asked by mandy iz a cutie 2 in Friends

Has any1 broke up with there bf/gf and ended up talking to them again how long did it take them to call you or you call them?

2007-02-05 10:20:56 · 1 answers · asked by AMBER 1 in Singles & Dating

ok i am feeling so alone latley... i dont know why. Me and my boyfriend broke up about a year ago and we were together for 3 years. I cant seem to find someone i want to spend my time with. When me and my ex were together we spend every waking moment together and we lived together after knowing eachother for only 3 months . i usually dont spend that much time with someone ever. Now i meet all these guys that i like and can see myself with for a long time but i cant seem to make myself go hang out with them or spend time with them. what is wrong with me? why cant i just let myself go and meet someone and just give them a chance??

2007-02-05 10:20:45 · 5 answers · asked by breezy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 10:20:02 · 14 answers · asked by mandyleigh 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What does he think??
Ok i have this guy. He's my best friend. Were constantly together and always going places together and work together a lot in school and are involved in the same activites. He's been my best friend since 6th grade (also my crush since 6th grade) and I REALLY like him! however i don't think he likes me...I mean he's constantly teasing me and flirting with me but i don't no if he's just normally like that. He did say he likes this other girl in our school..but could he like me too??? He likes girls who are **HOT** and i'm not even close to that..I'm kinda heavy and not very girly. What does he think??


WARNING: worried about losing friendship.


O btw...i'm in 8th grade now! 3 years!!

2007-02-05 10:19:18 · 3 answers · asked by Got_a_question? 4 in Singles & Dating

you know the 'professional' look SEXY?


I am 17. 5'5" 120lbs. 34c-25-36. Thin framed but hourglass?

2007-02-05 10:18:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i take the depo provera shot and one of the normal side effects is dry intercourse. it has become so serious that my husband and i cannot even enjoy sex anymore. We tried lubrications but it only helps for a while and its messy. i get the shot because the condoms hurt my husband and im allergic to latex. are there any vitamins that i can take or any suggestions?i am very interested in some kind of vitamin i can take to help if anyone knows of anything...?

2007-02-05 10:18:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

if i gave you a soft massage rubbeed ur feet kissed u on the cheek and felt all over u wat would u do

2007-02-05 10:18:06 · 8 answers · asked by Ac Milan Finest # 22 KAKA 1 in Singles & Dating

irritable bowel syndrome is a very sensitive intestine wherein she can only eat limited food and it's a lifetime disease, she would easily get diarrhea out of nowhere. she has a very humble personality. she is religious. she is talented, sings and write songs, witty, smart and a consistent A+ student, a listener, trustworthy, kind, and thoughtful? would you date this woman?

she's my friend... and lately she opened up to me how she feels unwanted and nobody seems to want to date her. she's wondering why nobody asks her or come to her. she opened up to me about how guys just treat her as a friend or a little sister, or someone they could trust with their problems about their girlfriends.

2007-02-05 10:17:56 · 14 answers · asked by terra 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 10:16:31 · 20 answers · asked by Gia 1 in Singles & Dating

What would you wear?

I'll take you to a very nice restaurant and afterwards we'll go to a jazz bar and drink wine.

2007-02-05 10:16:12 · 6 answers · asked by Jim D 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex bf is divorced with kids already but he told me he wanted to have more kids with me. After a while I found out he can't have any more kids and he lied to me, making me still use birth control even though there was ZERO chance I could get pregant. He said he lied because he knew I wanted kids and he was afraid I would dump him if I knew he didn't want more. So, I dumped him.

2007-02-05 10:15:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Should I cheat on my boyfriend?

He has cheated on me before and it completely broke my heart, and our relationship has not been the same. But here we are still after a year keeping our relationship strong. I love him very much, and we are in love, but part of me wants to explore what else the world has to offer me including men. I do not dare though, because it is my boyfriend who I want to come home to everyday. It is he I want to fall asleep with everynight and wake up to in the morning. I do not believe the grasser is greener on the other side, but now there is a guy who is much older then me, married with two children who has caught my attention. He is a very cool person and a lot of people love him for his unique personality. I on the other hand find myself sexually aroused by him. He has told me that he has fantasized bout being with me, and I told him I did the same with him. Now I am aching for him in that sexual way.

2007-02-05 10:13:47 · 13 answers · asked by dee m 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

This girl that used to really like me has gotten really wierd on me, and i would like to find out why. We use to go out to lunches heaps, movies, and also dinner once, she used to always like to play with my stuff, and we used to laught all the time. She now seems annoyed at me, dont know why???.......i asked her once, and she said everythings ok, and stop being like that, and why do i ask such questions....im making a heap of effort now, and she kind of just replies to what i say, or else just kind of ignors me altogether as if she didnt recieve anything???......she invites me to movies with my mate though, and once i declined...and she was like "fine then!"....whats these games?im sick of them now, and dont know what to do....ive being making all the effort, so im now going to wait for her to speak to me first

2007-02-05 10:13:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm 14, and at junior high, i'm the geek who always gets made fun of. I have a bunch of friends who help me, but still, i'm a geek. Everyone keeps making fun of me, the way I dress, how i'm quiet, and etc. I dress pretty cool, but they just do that to bug me. I hate it when they point fingers at me and do it un front m=of my face. they're the cool sexy, hot blond group! I try to igmore them and just wen everything is fine, they start again. I am so hurt, and ignoring isn't easy when you are in junior hig. I always have confidence, but not around them. Help me now!

2007-02-05 10:13:24 · 10 answers · asked by MEOW 3 in Friends

2007-02-05 10:12:43 · 3 answers · asked by Yvonne 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I never wanted to be a "statistic" of being a divorced, and I don't even know it will even go that far. All I know is if it really does turn out that way (due to not being compatible,no kids though)
I WOULD LIKE SOME *HOPE* that there's better life after separating from a spouse if that ends up what happens.
Have YOU entered another relationship after a separation or divorce and is it REALLY BETTER "The Second Time Around"???What's your experience(s) please? Thank you.

2007-02-05 10:11:21 · 9 answers · asked by Yvonne 4 in Marriage & Divorce

The guy's name is Eric. Don't get me wrong, I think he looks fine but There is nothing sexually appealing, crazy I know, But i'm bad at my own relation advice so I'v come to u. You see I Don't connect with him there but If i talk to him on the phone I connect with him 150%,and I feel like he's the one. on the other hand I have a guy I met thru a friend and we talk on the phone , his name is michael f., but I can't see him 'cause he's 45 miles away. He's very perverted,and I like that, and I feel a very strong sexual vibe from him, but no emotional vibe from him. The wierd thing is, when he moved to another state and I thought I would never see him again I would cried everyday, just burst out with no control ; anyway, I love 1 deeply emotionally and I love 1 deeply sexually......By the way the 1 I like emotionally wants a serious relationship. I neeeeeeeeed an answer a.s.a.p.

2007-02-05 10:10:43 · 9 answers · asked by kickasscutie171 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok yeah well I'm almost 13, and one of my best friends Chris has a thing for me and I do too. But he already has a girlfriend and her name is Sam. But yesterday Chris and I were discussing about having sex and have a child when we get older (when I'm 18 and he's 21). He lives in Ohio and I live in California. And he's been telling me when he's older he'll be traveling to Caliofnia to see me. Oh yeah and he's 15. What are your thoughts or reactions and do you think think will work?

2007-02-05 10:10:37 · 14 answers · asked by ~○~Linkin_Park_Lover~○~ 4 in Singles & Dating

I have been 'flirty' with a girl @ work for a few weeks now... and she flirts back.. One night she started talking to me on MSN - and opened up emotionally to me about being a 'lost soul' and how she really isn't who she appears to be (she is very cold to people @ work) and thinks we have the same problems etc. She ended 2 hours later saying she hopes we can chat again outside of work.

So, I ask her out - she agrees - BUT last minute, she has 2 friends come along too (a couple). I don't get much chance to talk on an 'emotional' level with her - its friendly chat between all. We hug (close,comfortable)@ the end of the night & I say I had a good time with her.

Last couple days she's said she'll call, but hasn't... I don't want to pressure her & create 'conflict' @ work since all this has been in the last 2 weeks

What is with the bringing friends to this? Is she looking at this as a friends only thing or ??? Should I ask her out again? But say her & I only this time? Help!

2007-02-05 10:10:22 · 2 answers · asked by mrc 1 in Singles & Dating

So I've been hanging out with this guy for more than 3 months now. When we first started dating, we had both ended really long relationships (10+ years) with our ex's. So we were both very clear with each other about not wanting to get serious. Well last night while I was sleeping, I overheard him with what sounded like his ex via phone. I learned that they communicate almost daily and he told her to stop texting him and sending him negative messages. He sounded irritated but nevertheless I feel that he's still somewhat attached (by the way, she lives on a different coast), at least emotionally. So to my point, should I let this guy go? It was never serious but I'm not sure that I want to hang out and sleep with a guy who is still caught up on his ex. Thoughts...especially from the guys?

2007-02-05 10:09:36 · 11 answers · asked by texirocks 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 10:09:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just broke up with my boy friend that i was with for a year and im dating this guy now... and like he treats me like im a friend.. he dont call me.. the only time we talk its on the internet... i just want to be treated like im his main concern?... but i think im hes 2nd real g/f

what should i do?... i need some help?

2007-02-05 10:08:55 · 1 answers · asked by Someonetolove 2 in Singles & Dating

I think my dad is having an affair. I've always been a little suspicious, but yesterday, I found a pack of condoms in his sock drawer by accident. He can't have sex with my mom because she's been physically handicapped for almost 10 years. I checked the expiration date on the condoms, and it said 2010, which means it's a relatively new box. I can't be sure of anything, but this seems to point out the obvious. I couldn't bear to tell my mother, and I'm scared to confront my father about it. I have two older sisters that might know how to handle it more efficiently, but I'm nervous that they'd blow it out of proportion, or that they won't believe me. Help! I really need some advice right now!

2007-02-05 10:07:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it true that when u end a relationship with a bf or gf that a part of u still loves that person but not in the romantic way anymore?

2007-02-05 10:07:51 · 5 answers · asked by Steph1490 4 in Singles & Dating