My ex bf is divorced with kids already but he told me he wanted to have more kids with me. After a while I found out he can't have any more kids and he lied to me, making me still use birth control even though there was ZERO chance I could get pregant. He said he lied because he knew I wanted kids and he was afraid I would dump him if I knew he didn't want more. So, I dumped him.
2007-02-05 10:15:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes you were right to dump your ex boy friend as this is a very serious matter, its obvious that you have come to a age were you want to have you own family, is it time to become a bit more chosy, as for me i want to start a family on my own and the girl that i am going to do it with will for sure come with out bagages.
not all man are liars, are you saying that because have been messed about and you are annoyed and i am sorry but not everyone is bad you ll just have to find the right man for you, good luke.
one more thing i am french so i hope all of that make sens.
take care jeff
2007-02-05 10:46:25 · answer #1 · answered by jefregnard 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you! Guys can act like such pigs sometimes cant they!But i honestly think you did the right thing! plus, talking about having kids is a serious issue, what an ***. Good job!
2007-02-05 18:25:18 · answer #2 · answered by chisholm18 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Orange, please don't generalize. You make it sound like all men do this. There is no doubt woman out there who do the same thing just to get back with an ex boy friend. People lie for a variety of reasons. I hope your not being to hard on yourself about this.
2007-02-05 18:23:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
GOOD FOR YOU!!!!!!!! I wish I knew why men lie too. I was once dating this guy who told me he was divorced. Come to find out he was separated and not divorced. Dumped him as quick as I could. Men suck!!
2007-02-05 18:22:06 · answer #4 · answered by asking away 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Um...It takes a couple of years for the "valve to shut". There's a VERY slim chance that he could be "loaded"
2007-02-05 18:24:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we sometimes delude ourselves that we wont get caught lying and we always do --- we must (if we truly care for you) accept what you want from a relationship --- i said i never wanted kids again (mine are all grown up) --- my lady does woant children and you know what?? i think i would love to have a family with her
2007-02-05 18:21:50 · answer #6 · answered by trader1867 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
men are liars just as much as women are liars...
2007-02-05 18:21:32 · answer #7 · answered by Voicekiller 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
people lie because it works.
2007-02-05 18:19:30 · answer #8 · answered by croato87 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
because they are idiots and they think we are just stupid and will fall for it.
2007-02-05 18:21:49 · answer #9 · answered by . 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋