My ex boyfriend will tell me over the computer that he doesn’t love me but he won't tell me to my face. It's something I need for closure but he refuses to tell me to face to face that he doesn’t love me. I told him I won't make a scene or be upset, because I really wouldn't. He told me he'd feel uncomfortable and some things he needs to keep to himself. Umm, okay? What's his deal and why can't he do this one little thing for me after he ended the relationship? Just because he'd be uncomfortable? Wouldn't it be worth telling me just to get me to shut up?
2007-02-05 10:22:56 · 4 answers · asked by Simple Love 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He had talked about marriage with me a week before we broke up. But he said he knew we weren't going to work two weeks before we finnaly broke up. He told me many things about never wanting to leave me and then all of a sudden he wanted to be just friends. So I told him that was fine. He said we weren't meant to be together. I just want one little thing for everything he has put me through.
2007-02-05 10:39:57 · update #1
Move on! You shouldn't give a rats azz about him. if he said it in an email/text then that's good enough! You deserve better. If you are still interested in him the only way you might spark his interest is to go cold turkey on him. Find a new man even if it's just for fun!!
He has another girl lined up if he went from marriage to just friends that quick! better to find out now.
2007-02-05 10:25:51 · answer #1 · answered by bal z 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's probably why he doesn't love you in the first place ... you can't demand things from people and expect everything to be ok ... him not telling you - means he is finally standing up to you and not doing what you ask him to do ... move on find another poor boy to nag to ... and things will work out just fine ... !
2007-02-05 10:33:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
LET IT GO!! he doesn't love you - leave it at that. Maybe he doesn't like confrontation, and it sounds like you want it.
Frankly, you are being the baby.
Move on, closure comes when YOU stop insisting that you need more.
2007-02-05 10:27:16 · answer #3 · answered by I_Love_Life! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he needs to grow up did you know girls mature faster than boys
2007-02-05 10:25:53 · answer #4 · answered by ☆♥gurly gurl☆♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋