ok i am feeling so alone latley... i dont know why. Me and my boyfriend broke up about a year ago and we were together for 3 years. I cant seem to find someone i want to spend my time with. When me and my ex were together we spend every waking moment together and we lived together after knowing eachother for only 3 months . i usually dont spend that much time with someone ever. Now i meet all these guys that i like and can see myself with for a long time but i cant seem to make myself go hang out with them or spend time with them. what is wrong with me? why cant i just let myself go and meet someone and just give them a chance??
2007-02-05 10:20:45 · 5 answers · asked by breezy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds to me like you are just not ready to date yet. so keep these people as friends in your life...go out with your friends and you will not be "as" lonely...when the time is right you will know and start dating again.
be cool...
2007-02-05 10:25:33 · answer #1 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can relate to you... but I've tried to meet guys
but it seems that it's been too hard to find someone
that I can trust now.. I am also always this fear
bugging me that after few months, a year or two
it will just end up to nothing then I'll grow old on
my own, don't know.. I'm just hoping to find someone
that prove me wrong..truly hard.. sorry I've no advice
but you can email me if you want..
2007-02-05 10:30:03 · answer #2 · answered by JUSS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't make yourself going out with any of these new guys because you are hung up on your ex!! just go out with these new guys a few times. you never know what will happen! you could end up having a great time and you will probably forget about your ex.
2007-02-05 10:26:42 · answer #3 · answered by Tinkerella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way. And you are still hung up on him and your afraid to start over because it might not work out. If you need to talk just IM me sometime. I am female and not a lesbian just need a friend
2007-02-05 10:27:00 · answer #4 · answered by christinadc2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need time for yourself, to get your mind in order.
2007-02-05 10:31:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋