My hubby had an affair and we are trying to fix it, and despite it all, our marriage has been better than ever. But...I am having a hard time coming to terms with the whys? and how could he, etc? What makes a man decide that a woman he has known for under 6 months be more important than his wife and marriage and kids of ten years? Why would he decide this woman is more important than trying to fix a failing marriage? Because that was us. Our marriage was going to hell. So, why not fix it instead of straying? Its killing me cuz this affair wasnt just sex. And i dont understand the whys? and the hows? If anyone can enlighten me to maybe understand my husband and his motives. In a "sick" kinda way this affair has bought us closer together, our marriage immediately got better after the affair was out. I think it made us both realize what we had standing in front of us the whole time, but it kills me, cuz i knew our marriage was crappy and didnt stray, but he did. Why?
2007-02-05
09:36:06
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