2007-02-05 09:38:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Find a new friend, and take the guy away from her.
2007-02-05 09:42:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happened to me many years ago. I was interested in a guy - and we'd dated - but he'd pretty much dumped me. I found out (from my Mother!) that my friend - who I had introcduced him to - had started dating him - and my friend didn't want me to know. I was hurt - and angry. I told her that I didn't appreciate her lying to me - and that I didn't trust her as a friend. The two of them ended up getting married - and they had a couple of kids. We started hanging out together for awhile after that - but I was always careful. Her husband - the guy who dumped me - never felt comfortable about us being friends. (of course!) After about 4 or 5 years they divorced. She's continued to try to reach out to me over the last 25 years - but I I have really never respected her since then. I forgave her long ago - but she's not a true friend.
A good rule to follow is this.... "Good friends don't share guys." I've had friends who I've known had NO CHANCE hooking up with a guy - but if they like the guy - I consider him off bounds. I've had guys ask me out - and I'll turn them down because I know a friend is interested. It's just the respectful thing to do. Girlfriends - true ones - are usually way more precious than some guy.
So what would I do? I'd confront her and tell her that she didn't act much like a friend - and let her know that she hurt me and I'd tell her that I now know what her priorities are - that she'll choose men over friendship - and that makes me sad. That's what I would do.
2007-02-05 17:54:36 · answer #2 · answered by liddabet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did this guy ask you out also? Were you 2 an item? Sounds like they are both hounds and you should choose other friends.
2007-02-05 17:41:08 · answer #3 · answered by smart azz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to her about the situation. See why she didn't tell you her feelings about this guy. Maybe she didn't know what to do if she is young. Is this guy really worth you friendship?
2007-02-05 17:47:12 · answer #4 · answered by 868788 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would three way her with him on the phone without talking
2007-02-05 17:41:18 · answer #5 · answered by chatterboxx777 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UMM, i would get over it, he's not my property, but the friend...is not a very good friend...i would get over her too
2007-02-05 17:41:16 · answer #6 · answered by &d. i. l. i. hawt; 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it. Find someone better. then show him off.
2007-02-05 17:58:56 · answer #7 · answered by lizzy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id be pissed, talk to her about it though, hopefully she has some sort of excuse, made up or not.
2007-02-05 17:41:30 · answer #8 · answered by whyy_nottt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably didn't want to hurt you.
but it seems he likes her and not you. so please try to deal with it.
she shouldn't not go out with him because you like him.
2007-02-05 17:43:56 · answer #9 · answered by myddad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋