Family & Relationships - 5 February 2007

2007-02-05 09:19:58 · 4 answers · asked by LATOSHA F 1 in Family

But when the church says that sex before marrige is bad, people ignore this rule?

So in other words, people pick and choose which rules they want to follow

2007-02-05 09:19:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

but my husband to be thinks this not fair to him as we will only have been marreid 2 mths what should i do go with my pal or stay

2007-02-05 09:18:56 · 9 answers · asked by dd 4 in Weddings

Theres this guy who i hooked up with 2 years ago but hes from another city. we agreed not to do long distance coz it just doesnt work. I was quite hurt coz i really liked him but eventually i decided to move on and see other guys.we still see each other at least twice a year. when we are around each other its as if we are a couple and its always really intense coz we are VERY attracted to each other. this 'plan' worked well for us but now its so complicated because I am in a relationship but cheated on the guy with him. I ts weird coz even tho i knew it was wrong it felt natural like we couldnt see each other and NOT be together. he tells me he wud cheat on his gf with me too. its like an 'agreement' that we have. this is the 2nd time iv cheated on a guy with him but we actually cant help oursleves wen we around each other! the main problem is that neither of us think this will ever change. has anyone else had a relationship like this? its bn going on for 2 yrs

2007-02-05 09:18:23 · 12 answers · asked by ckgirl_sa 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and this girl are good friends. she has a boyfriend but he's known as a player and almost everyone i know thinks she's too good for him. but she always says hey to me, she waits for me when we're going to class, she chose the same group as i did (we have modules and we get to pick what subject we want based on how high our grades are mine was higher than hers by a point and she went right after me) , she lets her leg rest on mine, and she's all giggly when its just us two. and you know how sometimes people have a certain look in their eye when they dig u, i think i see it in hers not sure yet. is she crushing or is she just a good friend. oh and once she was talking to herself and i think she said i can't wait til our next class. but i asked what she said and she said never mind. i could be wrong but i think thats what i heard.

2007-02-05 09:18:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im in high school and Ive always kind of been a loner but im really nice a lot of people say the nicest in the school so people like me and there are a number of groups particularly two that have been inviting but i havent got too close to them because i dont want to offend either. its not like they hate each other they can deal with each other but they definetly dont like each other all that much you can tell. id love to be friends with both without being seen as closer to one than the other but thats almost impossible since were such a small school. do you think one group would be offended if i sat with the other at lunch? i dont want them to think i chose one. because theyve both been equally inviting. and i kind of like being considered ma loner and without a group. but its kind of lonely. and we only have 4 months of school left, so i think if im going to be alone or make friends i better decide within the next month.

2007-02-05 09:17:56 · 2 answers · asked by leena 4 in Friends

How come when the church says that sex before marrige is bad, people ignore this rule?

2007-02-05 09:17:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

iam not being immature hear, or maybe i am , but i just wanna know why do girls have great wobbling bottoms , and men have disgusting bottoms ? its not as if they all workout,......... they totally rule !!! keep it up girls !!!!!!!!

2007-02-05 09:17:34 · 19 answers · asked by yo ! 1 in Singles & Dating

and no i dont mean sex
thanx

2007-02-05 09:16:39 · 8 answers · asked by Sage Elizabethhh 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok. There's this gut that goes to my school that I REALLY like...but he gets drunk often and is just a jerk. THEN...there's this other guy that is new that is in a few of my classes that is cute, and nice. Like the classes that we have together...we spend talkin the whole time. Which it's not that he's like this total stranger..bc he used to go to my school then he switched to somewhere else and now he's back. BUT i don't know that much about him. THEN there's this other guy that i met somewhere that has just REALLY became like another brother to me that is nice, and kinda my type...BUT he's like 3 or 4 years older than me and has a gf, and lives like 6 hours away. I need to know what to do! I like all of these boys. So....that's why i'm asking yall to help me decide...what do yall think...please help me! i need some help!

2007-02-05 09:16:06 · 8 answers · asked by Kelsey G 1 in Singles & Dating

There is a guy a like. We have known each other for about a year and a half. I like him a lot. Last year i found out that he liked me at the same time that i liked him, but he ened up going out with someone b/c he didn't know. Well recently i found out that they've been broken up for a while. I want to ask him to prom, and everyone is telling me i should...but i don't know if he likes me again. He's always asking me for hugs when he sees me. & smiles a lot around me. But i also noticed that another girl likes him, but i don't know if he likes her or not.
I've spent all weekend thinking about him, and what i should do. Because if he does like me again, i don't want this opportunity to pass me by again. I don't know what to do, and this is driving me crazy.
Any suggestions?? Or opinions on what you think i should do? It would be greatly appreicated.

Thanks.

2007-02-05 09:15:40 · 15 answers · asked by muzicisrocko 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and this guy met at a club on new years. He asked for my number and I gave it to him not even really caring just for the hell of it. I couldnt even remeber what he looked like. We started talking on the phone and I was like wow he is actually kind of cool. About a wk later he came over, and when I really just got to look at him I was so attracted. We went on about 5 dates within one wk everything was going great. He called me when, he got off work, when he wasnt busy he would text it was awsome. Well this past wk he has been kind of distant. He tells me his grandmother is in the hospital and dont get me wrong I completely understand. But now he hardly ever calls, when we do talk its like for about 3 minutes. he will tell me he will call me back and wont call back until the next night. But then he will send text messages saying he misses me so much and he is sorry he hadnt had time to hang out with me? Im really confused because he is giving me mixed signals.....

2007-02-05 09:15:11 · 12 answers · asked by ANTM 1 in Singles & Dating

Alright there is this girl that I like. I thinks she might like me :D
Like every English class, when she walks in the door, she waits and looks for where I sit. Then she comes and sits in the seat the closest to me. And she always sits sideways, with her legs and knees facing me.

I told one of my friends, and he said that she likes me because her legs were facing me, and she tries to talk to me.

Is that true?
Thanks

2007-02-05 09:15:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i luv fall out boy and i really like pete wetnz

2007-02-05 09:15:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What was the outcome?

2007-02-05 09:14:59 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my friends birthday was yesterday and she just turned 17.
she was talking to this boy for a while and i couldnt answer this question but maybe the public can:

my friend had a party on friday from me, and i threw it @ school, and she is a senior, well were both seniors. so this boy shes been talking to since last year wanted to talk to her by pulling her, and tugging her but not in a abusive type way it was playful then, he was like come on i gotta talk to you... you dont wanna talk to me, and shes like no why dont you do you?
just go ahead and do you(meaning dont even bother messing with me anymore) and then he wwalks away with his head kind of down,then she looks @ me and says vanessa did i do something wrong? do you think i hurt his feelings? and now everytime i see them in the same path i try to do like little things like say hello to him and her @ the same time and it never works. he looks the other way, and shes already in the stairway
do they belong or not
positive answers

2007-02-05 09:14:44 · 1 answers · asked by Maryah 2 in Friends

So, I have a limited budget, but I decided I want to make my gf a card. With each turn of a page, there will be a different phrase to go along with a corresponding picture or item pasted to the card. Ladies, what do you think? Here is a sample.

You want the moon
(Moon picture) I’ll give you the moon

You want the stars
(Star Picture) I’ll give you the stars

Maybe it’s the simple sweets you desire
(Godiva Chocolate taped to the card)

Perhaps a little reminder of home will light your fire
(Some type of Hawaiian memorabilia, not sure yet)

Trust me, I ain’t going to lie
Like it or not, you’re going to get the “stink eye” (picture of me with a silly face)

In all seriousness whether you’re near me, or we’re far apart
You are always carrying a little piece of my heart (cut out picture of a heart with my name on it)

2007-02-05 09:13:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 09:13:30 · 12 answers · asked by shiv k 1 in Singles & Dating

I feel so alone is there any one that I can talk to

2007-02-05 09:13:14 · 24 answers · asked by outlaw64 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend is absolutely perfect. I don't even think about other guys anymore. I care about him more than anyone else I've ever known and I miss him terribly when I'm not with him. I've never clicked so well with anyone in my life, and I'm happy to have him. But he's just told me he loves me and it scares me, because I don't know how I feel. The feeling, that kind of tickle right in the centre of my chest that I would consider "love" (although I'd only ever had it for obsessive crushes I'd pretty much fabricated in my head) I don't usually have that when I'm with him. But I have it all the time when I think of him. It would take a while hangin out with him to get that kinda cloudy buzzy head feeling...I'm so confused.

2007-02-05 09:13:09 · 13 answers · asked by Janice B 1 in Singles & Dating

Cause im in love.

2007-02-05 09:13:00 · 6 answers · asked by bryntfth 1 in Singles & Dating

okay ive asked something like this before but left something out i am dating a boy that is in placement we've been dating for a while now and well hes known to play people and how do i kno if he'll play me how do i know if he really loves me and only me im so confused

2007-02-05 09:12:09 · 13 answers · asked by #1devil 1 in Singles & Dating

so my friend just realize the guy i like is someone that she think is bi because he had a crush on her but her friend told her he was bi!! Once he called her and she ask if it was the gay guy. From that day he stop talking to her! I dont think the guy is bi he doesnt act like it he had a few girlfriend and his myspace profile says hes straight! This friend of mine has a boyfriend i dont belive she could be jealous. Also now he has a girlfriend so... what shoul i do now???

2007-02-05 09:11:56 · 8 answers · asked by pluto rocks 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 09:11:48 · 8 answers · asked by Alex 1 in Singles & Dating

About two years ago I had met this guy and we had a connection of sorts but then we lost contact and now we're talking again and he wants to go out on a date with me. Only problem is that back then I was about 30lbs lighter. He told me that I was one of the most beautiful women he had ever met and I'm afraid I don't and won't live up to what I used to...He told me that he understands the weight gain and that he's sure I'm "hot" anyway but I dont belive he wil after he sees me again....Should I even bother going out with him or just say no and forget about the entire thing until I lose the 30lbs?

2007-02-05 09:11:06 · 15 answers · asked by The nu cancer 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a question on dating?
I was raised very old fashioned and brought up to believe that in the beginning of a courtship the guy should come to the girls house to pick her up and take her to wherever it is that the date will be taking place. Does anyone else out there believe this to be true/a must as well? Or am I just being too old fashioned? I just dont think the girl should be running around for the guy, at least not in the beginning. I've done it in the past and the guys normally afterwards took advantage and had me running around everywhere for them. What do you guys think?

2007-02-05 09:11:02 · 23 answers · asked by TheLight 5 in Singles & Dating

.. so if you see someone looking at you, would you look back at them beacause your creeped out or the other way arond you think that thier good lookin?

2007-02-05 09:10:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just wanted to know if anyone here has or had deaf friends in elementary school. I do, I'm in 5th grade. I have several deaf friends. And do you know sign language?

2007-02-05 09:10:43 · 1 answers · asked by wildthing365 2 in Friends

I mean I sit here waiting for that 1 special guy to come ask me out.
It's time for Valentine's Day again.
My most geekest friend has a Valentine & I don't it kinda makes me mad
I want a Valentine so bad it makes my head hurt.
What should I do?

2007-02-05 09:10:32 · 5 answers · asked by Talk-A-Holic 1 in Singles & Dating

i just wana know (from teenagers and older people too)if when you were in your teens did you ever just feel like you didnt belong? i feel as though my parents dont understand me and i get so down living at home. i stayed on to do A-levels(for whatever reason i do not know)and ive been doing them for 5months and i've had enough, my plan is to get a job between now and september and enroll in the tec. but my parents want me to do what they want and i swear i've had enough of them. and problems with my gfriend do not help matters...

is this similar to any other people out there???

2007-02-05 09:10:13 · 18 answers · asked by TheLizardKing 3 in Family