so my friend just realize the guy i like is someone that she think is bi because he had a crush on her but her friend told her he was bi!! Once he called her and she ask if it was the gay guy. From that day he stop talking to her! I dont think the guy is bi he doesnt act like it he had a few girlfriend and his myspace profile says hes straight! This friend of mine has a boyfriend i dont belive she could be jealous. Also now he has a girlfriend so... what shoul i do now???
2007-02-05 09:11:56 · 8 answers · asked by pluto rocks 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's a maturity thing. And I can tell by the way you're talking that you're young. But the problem with that is... you have to be able to accept that person and the activities. If you have anything against bi's, or gay's, then he's not someone for you. But YOU need to decide what you will and wont put up with. There's always that chance that if you and him hook up, and he IS bi... that he's going to cheat. You need to be mature and think about what YOU want, and if this a person that you want it with. Not just a puppy love 'I think he's cute type thing'
2007-02-05 09:21:52 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs. Bee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him if he is Bi if not move on and your friend probably was jealous because she couldnt get with him so she called him bi. One more thing just because he doesnt act like hes bi doesnt me he isnt on the DL-down low with a guy you never know these days
2007-02-05 17:16:28 · answer #2 · answered by cuttie1972 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he has a girlfriend now so... you should leave him be.
Would it bother you if he was bi? A very good friend of mine is too, he would rather date women and have long term relationships with women, but he also likes to be with men on short term "flings".
Some people also think of sex as sex, not a gay or straight thing, but would prefer to be in a relationship with someone of the opposite sex as them. Maybe this is also his case. Either way, he's taken now so he should be off limits to you.
Goodluck!
2007-02-05 17:16:42 · answer #3 · answered by Heather S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I could help, but the story I'm about to tell you may in fact depress u more. I dated this guy last year and He told me he was straight. I believed him, then a month later he told me he was bi...I thought he was just confused about his sexual orientation, but then two weeks later, he left me for a guy. It sucked. So what im trying to say is trust ur good judgement, get all the facts first, i wish i had
2007-02-05 17:16:30 · answer #4 · answered by **Angel_Eyes** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you dont like that kinda thing then you do have a probelm.. but if not then that would be more for you.. he might be straight and your friend was just telling that.. or he is just shy and doesnt want to come out.. if hes dating someone then you prolly shouldnt try for him in less he is really worth it to you.. that would cause problems but if you really like this guy talk to him find out whats going on..
2007-02-05 17:30:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friends aren't always right, and you will learn you have to make some decisions on your own... if you like this guy, go out with him and make your own conclussions... if he happens to be bi and thats not something you want to be a part of, then go from there... best of luck to you.
2007-02-05 17:15:25 · answer #6 · answered by emtb9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, don't believe anything anyone tells you cause it's second hand news but on the other hand, if he is bisexual, you have a problem. Bisexuals are the main cause of women getting HIV and AIDS.
Watch your step with this one.
2007-02-05 19:13:08 · answer #7 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either accept this is who this person is...or don't. Don't make such a big deal out of "lifestyles" you love the person not their tendancies.
2007-02-05 17:14:55 · answer #8 · answered by onecutebyrd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋