My boyfriend is absolutely perfect. I don't even think about other guys anymore. I care about him more than anyone else I've ever known and I miss him terribly when I'm not with him. I've never clicked so well with anyone in my life, and I'm happy to have him. But he's just told me he loves me and it scares me, because I don't know how I feel. The feeling, that kind of tickle right in the centre of my chest that I would consider "love" (although I'd only ever had it for obsessive crushes I'd pretty much fabricated in my head) I don't usually have that when I'm with him. But I have it all the time when I think of him. It would take a while hangin out with him to get that kinda cloudy buzzy head feeling...I'm so confused.
2007-02-05 09:13:09 · 13 answers · asked by Janice B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you miss him terribly and you don't feel for any other guy.. possibly you are in love with him and just don't know it yet. you might be the type that it takes a while to know you are in love. just give it some time. since you think that you love him when you are with him. tell him that you think you love him and just go with the flow. hope that helps
2007-02-05 09:17:48 · answer #1 · answered by lsubabe1086 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like what you're really asking is if what you feel is love... and I think it is. Love isn't always intoxicating, that "tickle," that "cloudy buzzy head feeling,"... instead, it can be uplifting, inspiring, profoundly comforting.
Yes, rushing love can push it away, and cost you the very thing you're trying to keep, which is why it's important to be patient... even if it means putting your heart on the line and waiting for the other person to catch up to where you are. Tell your boyfriend the first four sentences you told us, and ask him to be patient while you sort out what you feel and what the word "love" means to you.
2007-02-05 09:26:57 · answer #2 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you've heard the saying "good things come to those who wait.".....it's true. Don't rush anything. Just enjoy your relationship & allow it to build everyday. As you grow closer to each other, & your relationship grows stronger, the answers you seek will become evident. You'll know how you feel & what you want. For now, let your mind be free of trying to figure things out, & just love every minute . As for that lil' feeling, it's natural to have that when you're separated from someone you care about - b/c you "wanna be" with 'em, so when you're with 'em there's no need for "that' feeling, b/c all the other feelings take it's place.
Have fun & enjoy yourself.
2007-02-05 09:21:40 · answer #3 · answered by rjsluvbug 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you've got it bad. You know what yo want but it scares you to think someone else has those feelings. It might have something to do with wanting that feeling all to yourself but he is your reality and you need to let him have some (feelings that is).
2007-02-05 11:10:08 · answer #4 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush at all. You've got a good, thing going. Have fun and enjoy it. It'll go to the next level all on its own.
2007-02-05 09:16:11 · answer #5 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your heart! I am in a relationship myself and I get those feelings, but I love her more than the world, and she loves me. Listen to your heart!!
2007-02-05 09:16:30 · answer #6 · answered by Jerrett and Melissa M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just how girls are. They're taught to put guys down until guys stalk them.
2016-03-29 06:32:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes yes rushing love will push it away.
2007-02-05 09:18:57 · answer #8 · answered by Wendy C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes.
if you are ready for something he is not, and he feels like you are pressuring him he will be like "whoa! back off girl."
so just take things as they come. don't rush into anything you're not ready for.
Good Luck!
2007-02-05 09:16:45 · answer #9 · answered by A Girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I to think rushing love can push it away, If your relationship has been for a short ...time,give it more.................... time , have both of you met each out hers patients.,brothers and sisters etc. If this is true love more time..................................... would be in order.....Let true love take its course. Mel... thinking of you..........
2007-02-05 09:44:41 · answer #10 · answered by Melvin S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋