Groups???????

Question

Im in high school and Ive always kind of been a loner but im really nice a lot of people say the nicest in the school so people like me and there are a number of groups particularly two that have been inviting but i havent got too close to them because i dont want to offend either. its not like they hate each other they can deal with each other but they definetly dont like each other all that much you can tell. id love to be friends with both without being seen as closer to one than the other but thats almost impossible since were such a small school. do you think one group would be offended if i sat with the other at lunch? i dont want them to think i chose one. because theyve both been equally inviting. and i kind of like being considered ma loner and without a group. but its kind of lonely. and we only have 4 months of school left, so i think if im going to be alone or make friends i better decide within the next month.

Answer 1

Well it depends, if these two groups don't hate each other then they probably wont care. I was like that, and i didn't like it so much cause i couldn't get close enough to these two groups. I preferd to be with a group of friends that became really close with me that i could talk about anything to

Answer 2

No one should be alone, it ain't right. So def get some friends, and I say just roll with both groups. Shoot I'm in like 10 groups, and my schools only like 400 people. At lunch sometimes sit with one group, and another the next day or something. I'm sure your a smart girl and will figure something out ;)