i should not get too attached to him... yet, he;s the one who's always checking up on me.. he says he's not going to get attached to me as he's not looking to get hurt.. what should i do??
2007-02-05 09:34:23 · 4 answers · asked by God's own 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you need to tell him to stop checking up on you like that.. it just shows he has no trust what so ever... and he needs to gain that trust... if it is too early in the relationship.. i dont suggest you get attached easy because anything could happen... but as time goes by you do ge attached.... im just wondering why he tells you not to get attached... have you tried asking him or talking to him? communication does make the relationship perfect.. so try that... ok? best wishes..
2007-02-05 09:43:15 · answer #1 · answered by Jessie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's good for the goose is good for the gander. This is a double standard. Just give it right back to him. Why is it ok for him to check up on you if he doesn't want to get attached? It seems like he already is attached.
2007-02-05 17:42:26 · answer #2 · answered by judirose2001 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
obviously i odn't know you or know your exact situation, but sweety, he's your boyfriend. decide how much you really trust him and how much he trusts you a nd follow your heart. yes, things do happen and you may get hurt, but if you both like each other enough and trust each other enough to not hurt you, things will work out ok. Get attached- enjoy each other. L I V E L I F E N O W .
2007-02-05 17:43:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is the controlling type. Also sounds like he is considering, willing or participating in another relationship. Even when you are in a relationship, you are still an individual and you have your own life.
I would find someone willing to be more committed to me. Someone secure enough to let you be you.
2007-02-05 18:10:24 · answer #4 · answered by TopCatt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋