. After three months of fantasing, role playing, MMF porn, and scheming my girlfriend and I set up a time to for the three of us to get togther. He was the only one she would do this with and the only one I could trust with to do it with. She has a killer body (we're not exactly ugly either) so there was very liitle arm twisting involved.. So this was a perfect fit-no pun intended! To cut to the chase it didn't happen, too much planning not enough spotonaety IMO. Well when I came back from the kitchen (my friend was in the bathroom) my girlfriend was now sitting on the couch and she had taken her bra off underneath her sweater and undid a few buttons to get his attention.. Also asking (very excitedly over and over) do you think he's going to do it! Well when he left, she said that she was glad it didn't happen! Now do you think she really didn't want to do after all that (especially the "bra" thing/3 months) or did she just didn't want me to know how much she wanted to do it?
2007-02-05 09:36:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, she wanted it. Probably still does.... More girls want MMF than are willing to admit.
2007-02-07 19:59:34 · answer #1 · answered by The Man In The Box 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have done MMF's for years, and the one thing I can tell you with each time (way to numerous to count), that there is soo much pressure on the girl...what if he doesn't like me...what if my man gets jealous...what if I'm not as good of a performer as the other guy is used to...and so on. It is kind of like the first date jitters. I have found that compliments (toward her) while the other guy is around helps tremendously, as well as the guy complimenting her. I also know that if the guy isn't the agressor, the woman feels something is wrong with her. We all have been to a bar, and not been hit on, and feel like wow, did I look like a bundle of ugly tonite? Talk to him to see if he really was interested, as well do the same for her. It just may have been a misunderstanding or just nerves. Good luck bro.
2007-02-06 05:43:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anderson J 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think she was feeling rejected when he left and it didn't happen and she was saying "I'm glad it didn't happen" to cover the hurt.
It doesn't always happen like you plan. Like you said, spontaneity is a big part of it. You plan it, then just let it happen and don't force it.
Was your friend in on it though? Or did you just invite him over and try to force it to happen?
Another thing is that inexperienced "other men" can get really freaked-out by it. As the veteran of many MFM threesomes I can factually tell you that at least half of the men that said they wanted to do a MFM with us got cold feet or stage fright and couldn't perform when the time came. However, sometimes with a second chance they have become more at ease and it has happened. So don't give-up.
2007-02-11 03:20:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
There's always the fear that the real thing won't live up to the fantasy. That fantasy is intact.
What if it HAD worked? Would it become a regular thing? And if so, wouldn't you/she eventually need some NEW fantasy? Like FFM ?
2007-02-06 03:29:21 · answer #4 · answered by Alan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think wanting to share your girl with another is sick, especially with the std's out there...and yes of course she wanted it...
2007-02-13 13:37:48 · answer #5 · answered by momof3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fantasies are great! That's all they are fantasies. Please leave them there. I don't believe she actually wanted to do it, just was thrilled at the idea of it and the build up to it.
2007-02-13 02:15:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋