Family & Relationships - 5 February 2007

I've been married for 8yrs, moved away from home for 3yrs and now I'm back to take care of my sick dad. My husband agreed to us all living together and we even purchased a new home together for more private space. Now my husband doesn't want to live here and he wants me to move with him. I don't want to leave my sick dad behind, and I know that dad won't move with me. He's not married so there's no one else here with him. My husband doesn't understand how upset I was when dad passed out one morning, to see my dad so helpless all I could do was hold him in my arms and wait for the paramedics. I knew then I needed be here with him to care for him. I can't get the sound of him hitting the floor out of my head. I don't want my husband to leave me, but I don't want to leave my dad. We're also discussing divorce for other problems along with this. We separated last year, got pregnant and gave it another try. I don't want him here if he doesn't want to be here, I need some good advice.

2007-02-05 10:07:35 · 12 answers · asked by kimkim 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i want to fight this boy beacause he is tring to hit me for like no reason!!!!!!!!!!what i kick his butt or leave him alone for everyone to make fun of me!!!!!!!!!!!!!???????????????

2007-02-05 10:07:05 · 6 answers · asked by osisamisafiya 1 in Friends

It was mainly focused on a blind couple who had 6 kids but the two older girls cared for the younger kids. What did you think? They seem to me to produce those kids for the sole purpose of slaves.

2007-02-05 10:06:32 · 16 answers · asked by no1shylass 4 in Family

Im kinds pretty but its my nose its kinda a bit big and im soo self cnshouse? i really like ryan E. and we talk sometimes and my friends told me that she told him that i like him and i have some classes with him and i lovv him whats should i do . i have his number but i cant call him or ask him 2 the movies he'll think im wierd!!!

2007-02-05 10:06:08 · 11 answers · asked by ryaneppleyluvr 1 in Singles & Dating

Like maybe the spouse didn't seem "into" you anymore but was just kind enough to get thru the day and avoid conflict. even if you wanted to address certain issues, they were in a perpetual state of denial and refused to believe anything was wrong or had the same desire as you to improve things in the relationship.......and u even wanted marital counseling but they weren't truely interested because they were so blocked off by their feelings and the only thing they believed were important in a marriage was eating, working, saving money and very little to no sex, and hardly EVER wanting to go out.....(well maybe just once in awhile "to shut you up" but not really having that mutual desire to explore and have fun on any level except make fun of people all the time.
I'm so tired of being ignored and patronized constantly. No we do not have children but have 16 yrs. together, family history, and that's it.
I've exhausted almost all efforts here. I'm tired.....and very lonely.

2007-02-05 10:06:07 · 12 answers · asked by Yvonne 4 in Marriage & Divorce

but you see them almost everyday @school and he/she is saying they still have feelings for you

2007-02-05 10:06:03 · 6 answers · asked by babygurl15 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-05 10:04:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friend and me are really close but i dont know if that will hurt her wat do i do

2007-02-05 10:03:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you know the 'professional' look SEXY?


I am 17. 5'5" 120lbs. 34c-25-36. Thin framed but hourglass?

2007-02-05 10:03:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a guy i used to sleep with said publicly that he was going to get me a valentines gift.. he hasn't been flirting with me as much since he said that! i'm over him but what do you think is up with him?

2007-02-05 10:03:19 · 13 answers · asked by God's own 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend Madison had sex with the boy i like Sam even though i tell everyone i hate him and now im bout to go crazy cause i wish it was me now he prbably hates me cause i no about it i feel like im an idiot for not telling him that i like him i thought he liked me a little but now i no he doesnt for sure and now no one is going to trust me now plz help me i dont no what to do!!!!!!!

2007-02-05 10:02:21 · 20 answers · asked by shtopramen 1 in Singles & Dating

because there are so many wrong ways to ask what works best for you ?

2007-02-05 10:02:07 · 5 answers · asked by Jujeaux 6 in Singles & Dating

do you think a guy is too old when hes ten years older than the girl?

2007-02-05 10:01:06 · 36 answers · asked by eowynspirit 1 in Singles & Dating

I like a guy, and I think he likes me, but I'm not sure. Whenever we hang out, he walks really close to me, bumping into me and bumping my hand multiple times. When we talk it is usually flirty-make-fun-of-each-other or serious. He flirts a lot, for example, we walked to Target, which is rite next to our mall, and there was a patch of ice on the side walk- he grabbed onto my arm and said "Pull me, I want to skate." So i pulled him and we were both laughing histerically and looking like idiots. And if he ever mentions another girl that he liked, he would quickly add that he didn't like them anymore and explain why. I don't beleive he has had a gf before, and I know that he is shy when it comes to telling girls how he feels about them. So what should I do?

By the way, I am 15, 16 on March 2- not 12.

2007-02-05 10:00:41 · 5 answers · asked by yo. 3 in Singles & Dating

ok so im 15 and me and my boyfriend (hes 18)have been together for a couple years and we want to get married next year if posible with out my parents permision is that posible??

2007-02-05 10:00:35 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-05 09:59:54 · 6 answers · asked by primamaria04 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know this guy for twelve years (we met in college), and then couple of years ago we had a brief relationship and got pregnant. Since he didn't want to get together with me and assume patternity (he's already a single parent of a 13 year old), I wasn't ready mentally and financially to have a baby;I decided to get an abortion. it was very difficult decision and I went into a deep depression....plus I had complications, which I almost died. He never called me again not even to find out if I was ok and since I didn't call either, we lost contact for two years; until now that he got my email address through my other friend (that doesn't know about this whole deal) and he offered me a job.
I hated him for being a coward and not taking responsibility for his actions and for not showing any feelings for my well being. he's asking me what have I been up to...I don't want to answer his email, yet I want to show that my life is much better without him. I don't know what to do....

2007-02-05 09:59:51 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

are girls suppose to have hair down there???

2007-02-05 09:59:10 · 2 answers · asked by ? 2 in Friends

does that mean there is something going on between them??? and he bumped her up on his top friends...

2007-02-05 09:58:57 · 21 answers · asked by jojo 5 in Singles & Dating

there was this 24 year old man that was married with 2 kids and i see him here at the library alot and he was hitting on me and asked how old i was and he gave me his number and told me to call him. i know i will see him again and he will ask me iwhy i didnt call..... what do i do?

2007-02-05 09:58:39 · 10 answers · asked by Amber 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 09:57:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

tonight at supper my family and i were talking and my dad mentioned that he didnt sleep good last night because our 2 kittens wanted to sleep in his face he said but i dont know which one it was. Then my mom said" well i know one cat that was on your face". Somehow I dont think she was talking about our kittens. Im 15 and what she said puts a chill down my spine. I just want to know what you think about it and if you have any stories so I know my parents arent the only ones

2007-02-05 09:56:39 · 25 answers · asked by Daisy Duke 2 in Family

ok, i have verizon wireless, and i know that on the bill u can see the incoming/outgoing calls. i was wondering if there was any way that u could block a certain # from showing up either way so that it would just come up unavailable or restricted on the bill. the question im trying to ask is kinda confusing, so i need to email or IM someone so that i can try and explain what i am talking about lol...so if theres anyone out there that knows verizon cell phones well, please help me! thanx soo much!
*sorry about the wrong topic, but i really need help and no one was answering me in cell phones*

2007-02-05 09:56:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im single and valentines day is just around the corner. what should i do? I don't want to be the only one without a valentine. help!!!

2007-02-05 09:56:33 · 15 answers · asked by *BABY NENA* 2 in Singles & Dating

He broke up with his girlfriend what shoud i do know how can i get more closer with him?

2007-02-05 09:55:25 · 19 answers · asked by Velina 980 2 in Singles & Dating

What does the phrase "we have something together" or "we had soemthing together" (past tense) mean? --or...What does it mean to the person who says it?

2007-02-05 09:54:01 · 7 answers · asked by shelby13 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend of 5 years wrote a song for me and played it on the guitar and it was so sweet and heartfelt and i feel like i can't do anything that will be as good as that.......i just feel like i cant give him anything good enough to show him how much he means to me!! any ideas?

2007-02-05 09:53:51 · 10 answers · asked by sarasugar 3 in Singles & Dating

phone....read an article other day about a women that chats to men over the phone dirty,been looking on line and cant find how to come across such a job?think id be good at it!!

2007-02-05 09:53:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just ready about Kylie and Olivier and he seems to have "moved on" already. My brother was the same when he split with my sister in law. She was (and still is) in bits. He is now happily living with his new partner.

2007-02-05 09:53:21 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

and basically told him to break up with me. Since he is such a momma's boy (he's 23) he did just that. We haven't talked in 5 months, i've tried calling him and e-mailing him but nothing works. Till this day I still love him, but I don't know what to do!!! Please help!

2007-02-05 09:53:00 · 11 answers · asked by chisholm18 1 in Singles & Dating