and basically told him to break up with me. Since he is such a momma's boy (he's 23) he did just that. We haven't talked in 5 months, i've tried calling him and e-mailing him but nothing works. Till this day I still love him, but I don't know what to do!!! Please help!
2007-02-05 09:53:00 · 11 answers · asked by chisholm18 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Does he still live with his Mom?
How in the H did you guys get anywhere to begin with.
I used to know a guy who would tell his Mom everything that went on with him and his wife. agh and now he thinks I would be interested in him since his divorce.!NO WAY!
Get away from him and run as far away from him as you can. his mom will probably hear everything that you two do.
He has chosen his path.
Where is yours leading you?
2007-02-05 10:30:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
please take this advice. please. I had a little girl with a guy and he took his mothers side of everything. He could not even stand up to her when she held my daughter while she smelled like smoke(she was a newborn then) he called me a hypocrite because i had smoked a few cigarettes when i was pregnant. that was the most horrible thing i have ever done but when she was born and the maternal instinct kicked in and i did not want her in harms way and i wanted to protect her it caused a huge battle that ended up with us broken up. he was seeing someone else anyway but the point is that his mother never liked me. i was girly girl and they were all about sports so his mom probably encouraged him to be with his new prettier sportier girlfriend. the thing is ...if he does not love you unnnnnconditionally why are you putting yourself through it. you are so much better than that. challenge yourself and find a man who will love you no matter how much the two of you dont have in common or what his mommy thinks!!!!
2007-02-05 18:04:04 · answer #2 · answered by alvins82 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him (now there's a thought you should have had 5 months ago)
Find somebody that will put you ahead of his mommy.
??5 MONTHS?? helloooo you just missed 5 months of opportunity finding the right guy. LET IT GO.
Picture yourself married to this guy and at the age of 50 he tells you that you need to stay home at take care of mommy or you're moving to Alaska because of mommy's health.
GET OVER IT
It's possible that he's using good old mom as an excuse because he can't tell you because you obviously can't take no for an answer
Try going into sales
2007-02-05 17:58:36 · answer #3 · answered by Johnny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had that same problem...we have been together now for four years...I had to beg him to stand up to her. I had to make him realize he was a man not a boy anymore and he could make his own decisions in life. It took a lot of time but eventually he stood up to her. He never left me even when she told him too...mothers have strange control issues at times and when they are afraid of losing their boy they freak. His mom still doesnt like me but he and I love one another and thats all that matters. If I were you I would just tell him how I felt, whether it be email or voicemail, and let him know that I loved him but I couldnt wait anymore. He has to make that decision to stand up to his mother at some point in time, maybe now isnt time. Just tell him how you feel and try to move on...you deserve someone who will stand up for you need be. Good luck.
2007-02-05 18:01:08 · answer #4 · answered by mrsbarber21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im sorry i know what it is like to love someone that you can't have i think it's time just to forgive and forget you know though people can be wrong if you love him enough keep going for it... I hope it workds out ok but don't put your life into it there are other fish in the sea
2007-02-05 18:03:31 · answer #5 · answered by Hayden W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there done that! better not to bother with a momma's boy because he'll always run to her and weigh her opinion very heavily. My ex broke up with me basically because of a silly fight (REALLY SILLY). He was upset (naturally) and his mom said if he wasn't happy to break up with me...and he DID. Trust me hun...you are better off without him.
2007-02-05 18:00:55 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Mommy to 3 year old Jacob and baby on the way♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a momma's boy, always a momma's boy! go for a young stud, who doesn't need his mommy!!
2007-02-05 17:59:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its time to move on with your life. Obviously he listened to mamma,and if he wanted to do anything or see you he would have found a way to contact you. I know it hurts,but give yourself time.
2007-02-05 17:56:05 · answer #8 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if hes really going to let his mother get between what you had. If he's going to let her, then maybe he's not worth it.
2007-02-05 17:57:15 · answer #9 · answered by Maddy G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her and tell to quit c***kBlocking your relationship. GO GET YOUR MAN GIRL!
2007-02-05 17:58:30 · answer #10 · answered by Triplndy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋