i want to fight this boy beacause he is tring to hit me for like no reason!!!!!!!!!!what i kick his butt or leave him alone for everyone to make fun of me!!!!!!!!!!!!!???????????????
2007-02-05 10:07:05 · 6 answers · asked by osisamisafiya 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
There IS an alternative to fighting.
It takes gutts and courage really:
If anyone hits you, just look at them calmly. Don't react. Just stare at them without showing emotion. If they keep hitting you then just keep staring at them. Most of the time they'll hit you once, say a few nasty words, and then realize you're not going to fight with them (and you've got to be silent, just stare at them the entire time) Eventually they'll break...as in. They'll get tired of trying to egg you on, or they'll be too confused about you to want to fight you and they'll leave.
If someone steps into the senario to break up the fight/potential fight, you have no liablity for it. You aren't engaging in anything and you really aren't doing anything but staring at him.
Sounds simple right?--It's not. It's a complex psycological tool that sounds easy on paper, but when you're actually doing it there are so many thoughts going through your head.
the only thing more I can say is that if you have to express your emotions somehow, it's probably better to hold them back as much as possible and then when you have to, just laugh. laugh at him for being stupid enough to assault you. At which point some tension will be releaved and you can walk off casually.
G'luck with whatever you do
-Kyle
2007-02-05 10:16:22 · answer #1 · answered by DatingZion 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well man this is a hard one. In this case i would defend myself and hit him back im sure ur will get into trouble but sumtimes thats wht u have to do when sumone keeps on pickin on u or try this first go talk to the priciple or teacher abt it and if nothin happens then defend urself. I help this helps, good Luck!
2007-02-05 10:16:50 · answer #2 · answered by Downsouthgurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he play fighting with you or really trying to beat you? Heres my advice as I told my kids..always have your guard up. But if someone strikes you you strike them back. Dont let people pick on you. But choose your battles wisely. Some ppl just arent worth the fight.
2007-02-05 10:13:07 · answer #3 · answered by dymedouthunni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him and beat him down. If you don't stand up for yourself, he will only keep on tormenting you because you are allowing him to. While you are beating him down or soon after, say something that will stick in his mind whenever he sees you like, "Try me again and what happens will be ten times worse!" Then hit him again and spit on him.
2007-02-09 08:28:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say leave him alone y u ask because u fight him ur just giving him wat he wants and if u do than he'll keep it up and even if he does just ignore him and don't worry about it k and thats all i have to say. not to sound mean or anything
2007-02-05 10:15:46 · answer #5 · answered by demon girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick his a** dont be a b**** and leave him alone
2007-02-05 10:11:03 · answer #6 · answered by Killa Cam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋