there was this 24 year old man that was married with 2 kids and i see him here at the library alot and he was hitting on me and asked how old i was and he gave me his number and told me to call him. i know i will see him again and he will ask me iwhy i didnt call..... what do i do?
2007-02-05 09:58:39 · 10 answers · asked by Amber 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him your not his type.
Tell him it's hard getting out because you have 7 kids and while 8 is enough, 9 is too many.
Tell him you work at the Library and the policy stipulates that you are not allowed to date patrons
You don't owe this guy an explanation. If you're not interested tell him.
Or tell him you have a big boyfriend that's extremely jealous
2007-02-05 10:05:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
uh...don't embarass him infront of people
If you are a nice person, let him down easy by first flattering him, and then saying he's not what you're looking for. Like for example, "I think you're funny / a cool person in general, but you have two children and you're at a different stage of your life than I am, so you're the kind of guy I'm looking for."
and don't pick something he can change, like "I don't go for brown hair guys"...and then the next time you see him he'll have dyed his hair blonde...haha. Anyway you get the point.
2007-02-05 10:06:38 · answer #2 · answered by space monkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time just call him out make him feel uncomfortable like say " ewww no way old man i dont want ur number" or say "no i wont hab sex wit u god" that would always work since theres a lot of pplz around
2007-02-05 10:02:40 · answer #3 · answered by jimmy N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you know he is married and you don't do that. and say that you don't want to bust up a marriage, and that he should stick with his wife because of the kids.
2007-02-05 10:04:05 · answer #4 · answered by christinadc2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply tell him you're not interested. I don't understand why some women have a hard time doing that. If he gets mad, so what, you're not obligated to him for anything.
2007-02-05 10:05:00 · answer #5 · answered by ksgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you have a boyfriend, his name is Nick, and the next time you ask me out, I will tell him and give him your phone # and he's gonna kick your a s s !!!!
2007-02-05 10:04:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him you refuse to be his bit on the side and if he doesn't leave you alone you'll ring his wife
2007-02-05 10:21:28 · answer #7 · answered by TOM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you name is Jail Bait, LOL!
2007-02-05 10:02:11 · answer #8 · answered by Fireanddesir 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him the truth.
don't hold back.
let him know that your not interested and that you have your eyes on someone else....
2007-02-05 10:04:05 · answer #9 · answered by *BABY NENA* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say your 17, it all depends how old you actually are though
2007-02-05 10:03:21 · answer #10 · answered by Mr_wall2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋