I sit with these kids from 9th, 10th and my best friend T.S. sits there too but he sits on the other end of the table leaving me to just stare off into space. I can't talk to the kids at my table because every time I do they turn what I say into something vulgar. They always talk about something vulgar and always bother this other dude who sits at the table. While he's eating they say things that make him sick and not want to eat his food. My question is what should I do?! I can't really move because I don't know anyone else in my lunch wave wave! What should I do!?
2007-02-05 09:35:08 · 22 answers · asked by Brodie Bruce 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I can move outside but I'm telling you I that's the only other option I have right now besides standing in a stall in the rest room, (f*ck that!). I can't realte to anyone at my high school. I don't fit in with any of the 'clicks.' If you ask me I'll do alright by myself. I Don't Care Anymoe.
2007-02-05 09:50:14 · update #1
That's a tough situation. You need to find a way to save face yet make a change. Do you have to eat in the cafeteria? Can you go outside or to a lab or something? At least you need to get with your good buddy so you can talk. Isn't high school fun...NOT!
2007-02-05 09:40:37 · answer #1 · answered by Cindy W 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Try and get more friends. Simple as that. You aren't being forced to sit at that table.
Over the course of the rest of this year try and integrate yourself into a new click. Have T.S help you.
You really should try and not hang out with underclassmen anyway, if you don't like them that is.
2007-02-05 09:39:27 · answer #2 · answered by bhj618 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get some balls and move to another table. People arent going to tell you that you cant sit there...just walk over, introduce yourself and tell them that the table you used to sit at is full of douche bags.
I know people in high school can be pretty mean BUT theres atleast one person at every table that will reach out to someone. Just try it, and who knows? You may end up with tons of new friends
2007-02-05 09:40:12 · answer #3 · answered by suthrn_sunshine_lsu 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You & your friend need to talk to the "dude" that the others are making sick & the 3 of you either find another table together or agree to save each other spaces at the vulgur table...whoever gets there first, saves spaces so the 3 of you are sitting together.
2007-02-05 09:42:01 · answer #4 · answered by SmallVoiceInBigWorld 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't sit at that table one more day.There's no use in complaining to them about their behavior because they'll just tell you to leave if you don't like it. Maybe your friend & you can sit elsewhere. If he chooses to stay put, then find another place to sit & eat. Maybe you'll stike up a conversation with someone & become friends, in doing so.
2007-02-05 09:41:51 · answer #5 · answered by Shortstuff13 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Make some new friends. Saying you can't move because you don't know anyone else is just an excuse.
Or you could bury your head in a book and ignore everyone.
2007-02-05 09:39:15 · answer #6 · answered by Justin H 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Aren't there any people in your classes that you like enough to join for lunch?
Or...get into an extracurricular that will introduce you to friends with a brain. Once you get to know some of these new people you can join them for lunch.
2007-02-05 09:41:44 · answer #7 · answered by alisongiggles 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if u really don't like them u can either make new friends n sit with them or tell this T.S. person to sit next to u so ur not all left out or w/e.
2007-02-05 09:39:55 · answer #8 · answered by ~giggles~ 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
talk to the people at other tables u don't know, just ask to sit at a new table
2007-02-05 09:38:23 · answer #9 · answered by ACE 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Either go sit at another table by yourself with people you don't know or shut up and deal with it.
2007-02-05 09:41:18 · answer #10 · answered by Lucinda M 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋