HELP ME right now! I am so desperate and heart broken!?

Question

i'm 14, and at junior high, i'm the geek who always gets made fun of. I have a bunch of friends who help me, but still, i'm a geek. Everyone keeps making fun of me, the way I dress, how i'm quiet, and etc. I dress pretty cool, but they just do that to bug me. I hate it when they point fingers at me and do it un front m=of my face. they're the cool sexy, hot blond group! I try to igmore them and just wen everything is fine, they start again. I am so hurt, and ignoring isn't easy when you are in junior hig. I always have confidence, but not around them. Help me now!

Answer 1

You are a bud and in time will blossom and those"hot" chicks in time you will see that relay THEY are beneath you. Being smart is one thing but when you have wisdom, you have so much more, I used to be a "geek" but not in the "smart way, I was just different and young adults torment what they do not understand, don't you worry for one minute around them, you must change the way you see them and your life, you are going places in life, I know high school can be very very difficult, but stressing around them isn't helping so what your going to have to do is keep being yourself, but love yourself, love everything about YOU the good and the bad, even your flaws, love them as well because if you don't love yourself no ones going to love you don't put yourself through any more torment because you don't deserve it, be strong and hold your head up high no matter what people think, they are going to be looking up to you one day and they just may have to come to you looking for a job when you get older when you start to love yourself and everything about you, it will start to show on the outside and others will notice so keep your head up smile and God Bless you sweety

Answer 2

The average lifespan of a human is around 85-90 years of age. You are in grade school for thirteen of those years. THIRTEEN. That's it. Sometimes I feel the same way. My school is very cliquey, and I live in the poorer part of a very rich town, so all my classmates are spoiled brats. You just have to remember that they don't matter. It may hurt now, but it will not matter to you for the other 70 years of your life. Do well in school, work hard, and earn success when these people are still dying their hair with lemons.

Or you can fight back. Get some dirt on these hot blondes. Come up with some clever come backs. Make sure they never catch you unperpared. After a while, they will become sick of being publicly humiliated, and hopefully decide tormenting you just isn't worth it. So many people have this problem...you have to be strong and have confidence in yourself.

Answer 3

oh Hun i am so sorry this is happening to you i feel so bad i didn't like Jr high either people did't make fun pf me but they were rude and they didn talk to me either but then guess what i worked on my personality the way you are right now.
and in high school i became the hot one with the great personality
in some crowds i was still out but i didn't care i was a hotty and everyone new it and now that i am in college alot of those pretty snobs are pregnant and don't look so pretty and well they have ugly personality and do you know what its all worth it i wouldn't change a single thing i still would be that nerd in Jr high if i had to do it a second time cus it made me a better person

i know it really hurts right now but i have been in your spot almost to a T and i know how it feels and i know it gets better its going to be OK i can promise you that but only if you don't let those comments get to you and if you keep working on yourself you will do great good luck Hun

Answer 4

14 IS hard, but trust me (I'm a Grandma now, and I know these things!) it WILL get better. Just keep practicing your "ritual" of ignoring the group that THINKS (doesn't mean they ARE) cool, sexy and hot. Look at them with pity in your eyes because they have to try and make someone else look bad just to make themselves look good. Poor immature, pitiful, low self-esteemed wanna-be's. You are just as good and more mature, kinder and self confident than they could hope to be! So you just hang tough, honey!

Answer 5

I'm in junior high too!but homeschooled thank god,they are probably just jealous of something you have that they don't probably like brains and real friends,they have fake plastic barbies for friends and please don't feel sad cuz they are so ignorant,just remember you have people who love you for who you are and for those blondes tell them to stop if they don't confront somebody about this

Answer 6

I know it is hard. I had a rough time in highschool too. You will make it through - it's only time. Once you are out of school - and move on to more mature people, you will fit in. you are just dealing with immature jerks. Keep your chin up.

Answer 7

i always tell my daughter, you will be in school for a short time of your life. don't let girls like them bother you. they do it to make themselves look cool. that happened to me, and years later at class renunions a lot of them actually said they were jealous of me. don't let it ruin your school life. concentrate on your studies and who knows, when you get out of school and go on to college and get this great job, they will all have dead end jobs and envy you. good luck. keep your head high.

Answer 8

they are just a group of btich, watch they are gonna grow up to be transvestites and prostitutes, good luck girl, they just cant stand anyone else being pretty

Answer 9

You should just be yourself, i know it is not easy to be made fun of, but it is all about you. Noone can destroy your confidence and noone can buit it for you either.

Answer 10

you should start smoking