Family & Relationships - 4 February 2007

Recently I met this guy. he's very cool and attractive. i started seeing him as an aquaintance, i never imagined that id end up seeing him in a romantic way, -1 because he's 31(doesnt look like it though) and im 18 and 2- because he lives far away. i dont really want a relationship with him, but i do feel sexually attracted to him. to the point that i really wanna act on it. he's going back to the state he lives in and while we're still going to keep in touch, we wont see eachother for a while if not ever again. i have felt tension between us and i think he feels sexually attracted to me too. my question is to all of you who have been in the same or similar situation before is, should i act on it? Is the age difference such a big deal if i just want an intimate encounter and then just keep being aquaintances? how did it work out for you? What do you think? Please mature answers only.

2007-02-04 17:00:48 · 21 answers · asked by ♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

I NEED ALL THE DETAILS AND WHAT TO DO WITH YOUR TONGUE! PLEASE...

2007-02-04 17:00:29 · 5 answers · asked by jack m 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 16:59:26 · 9 answers · asked by .......... 4 in Singles & Dating

Me and this guy have been flirting for a few weeks. I could never figure out if he liked me for sure or not but the other night he kissed me. We were leaving the bar after a few hours ( he had only had three beers) and I walked to my car and he was walking to his but as I was looking for my keys he suddently walked up and said I have been wanting to do this for a while. Then he kissed me. Not like a peck but a really deep kiss. Afterwards I told him I had been wanting him to do it for a while. He kissed me again and I said goodnight and got in my car. That was tuesday but he still hasn't called me or messaged me. What is up with that?

2007-02-04 16:58:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 16:58:27 · 5 answers · asked by collegedebt 3 in Singles & Dating

go to another guy's house, cook lunch for him, and watch movies with him on his bed by yourselves? QUESTION IS FOR GIRLS. thanks.

2007-02-04 16:57:43 · 11 answers · asked by space monkey 2 in Singles & Dating

ok two brothers seperated...
Danny Soto-age 12
Michael Soto-age 18

Danny lives with his real family, mother and father and 2 sisters, Danny has 80,000 dollars in his savings, danny has a phone already, has a girlfriend already, danny lost his virginity already.

Michael lives with his deaf grandfather, grandfather is about 65 yrs old and is about to die soon, Michael has 0 dollars in his savings,danny has no phone in his house, no cellphone nothing, no girlfriend did not lose his virginity yet.

10 yrs pass by....

Danny Soto--22(has a car,has a job,has a girlfriend,has a house, has alot of money)

Michael Soto--28(still lives with his grandfather,no job, no money,no girlfriend)

now...which brother succeeds better in life and is it fair? that the other brother gets the higher ADVANTAGE?!...

Danny's lucky...
Michaels Not...its not michaels fault..its Michaels Parents fault for leaving him...

2007-02-04 16:57:38 · 14 answers · asked by ThanatoS 1 in Family

My gf and me have been wanting to get more physical but she says that i cant do anything to her yet because she needs to go to the doctors about something with her lady parts she says thats is also the reason she has stomach aches a lot she is a virgin and has no stds (her and i are very honest but this is something that i cannot ask her cuz it is very personal) any ideas?

2007-02-04 16:57:07 · 4 answers · asked by thescarsarethere 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a girl friend and intimate fried (he is my best fried for long period) usually we will be together on weekends in my Apartment. But some times I am busy with my job and I will not be in my home. But they met and spend a lot time in my home even with out my knowledge. I am not comfortable with such type of relation, because, if a guy and lady spend long time together things may change. I think like this. Am I correct or wrong? Even Some times after we spent a lot in my home she go with him (left me alone). What shall I do to stop their relation? I fear if I upset both of them if they are not engaged in such type of activities. Please tell me the truth?

2007-02-04 16:57:07 · 7 answers · asked by HOke 1 in Singles & Dating

We had a fight in Nov 06. He got an apartment after living with his mom for so long. He's divorced 2 kids. We was having issues with alot of things. His ex cheated so now I deal with alot of his insecurities but never treat him like this. He is always the one calling and bugging, poping up when I live 2hrs away. Then when he got his apartment, I was intolerable. He was acting bigger, better or something, he felt good about himself and was acting different with me. This fight was about a phone call and he refuse to explain it to me. I walked out then came back and demanded the money I lent him. I was pushing trying to get in his house he was pushing me out then tried to push me down the stairs. Just then the conversation came up, he claimed he never tried to push me down the stairs and got angry. That night after I left he called the police and tried to do a restaining order which didn't happen. Tonight I said if you love someone you wont do such a thing. I will never forget this

2007-02-04 16:56:44 · 14 answers · asked by Smile 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I already asked a friend's questoin about the bulk of my freinds but there is one more freind im thinking on throwing away while im cleaning my friend closet,, she lies all the time pathologically about anything and everything. i dont evne think she can help it or whatever. Anyway somesitms it big stuff sometimes its little stuff too. so dump her or what?

2007-02-04 16:56:39 · 2 answers · asked by lady26 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was very close with my dad. He was a true father to me. He was a friend to me. He did everything he could to support his family. He was everything to me and my mom. We didn't have time to prepare or anything of that nature, we didn't even know how bad his heart attack was. We don't know what to do. I need some advice from someone, now that my dad isn't here.

2007-02-04 16:56:07 · 20 answers · asked by S. Rook 1 in Family

2007-02-04 16:55:32 · 9 answers · asked by Melody 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend has that problem, and I'm not sure what to do. Sometimes they get really long. I think he's just lazy about it. Any suggestions what to say or do?

2007-02-04 16:55:29 · 7 answers · asked by petunia 1 in Singles & Dating

Here we go; I am sixteen years old and the girl I might still like is fifteen. I understand when you ask the popular question: "Will you go out with me?" is generally a yes or a no. When she said "no" (obviously not "no" but something like "that is really sweet but i dont feel i am ready for that") she was scared that I would never talk to her again. She told me that she didnt want me to never talk to her again and wanted to remain really good friends. I asked her out about a week ago and ever since she has said "no" to me, she has become closer to me, wanting more intention, always initiating conversations and enjoying them even more with me. I told her I would never ask her out again, and I wont. DONT get the impression that she is playing hard to get; I know forsure she isn't. My question is what should I do now? And why is she doing this? PLEASE do not give a simple "move on man" as an answer; think about it . The more input and advice the better; this means alot, thanks a million!

2007-02-04 16:54:46 · 12 answers · asked by Justin K 1 in Singles & Dating

my best jus had a boyfrend,who she is plannin 2 marry,wenever she tels me abt her boyfrend i feel very lost,i jus worry wether i wud get my true luv or not,my exams are around d corner,how do i gain my concentration

2007-02-04 16:54:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

is it trie that girls don't like boys they like cars and money?

2007-02-04 16:53:42 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend Pam is an amazing woman, she has aheart of gold, wears her heart on her sleeve and will give you the shirt off of her back if someone needed it. She is a mom of two children a 15 year old boy and a highly intelligent 10 year old daughter.She has extremely low self esteem and I think it would be nice if I could get her to go out with someone, just to have a nice evening out. She deserves. Are there men out there whom are not superficial? Remeber the movie "Shallow Hal"? This is the kind of woman that Pam is and she is so sweet. She has so much love and kindness to give but men just treat her cruely because of her weight. She has a hard time loosing weight because of all of her medical problems....can someone help her? Is there men out there that truly love bigger woman and who would treat her like gold?

2007-02-04 16:52:57 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

valentine's day is just around the corner.........dere is this girl i really like but i have no idea how to ask her to be my valentine!!!!.......can somebody please help me!!!
THANX!!

2007-02-04 16:51:48 · 10 answers · asked by HI! 2 in Singles & Dating

I recently found out that my boyfriend of 10 years cheated on me 3 times with 2 people in the last 4 years. I always said that I would leave and never look back if he cheated, but it is hard to walk away from a 10 year relationship. He says that he is sorry and wants to be with me and will never do this again. Should I try to stick this out and work on it with him, or should I cut him loose and try to move on? Please give me any advice that you can. I love him and don't want to just give up on the last 10 years, but I don't know if I can ever trust him again, or if I will always question him and wonder where he is going and with who.

2007-02-04 16:50:55 · 22 answers · asked by That girl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Long distance relationship.... thinking of getting my girl a dildo but getting a custom kit to make it of .. myself... would most girls find that odd? I'm having 2nd thoughts

2007-02-04 16:49:53 · 11 answers · asked by Danny D 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We have paid an extremely high amount for a long time and we just can't afford to pay our bills and this amount. What can we do? My husband is trying to get his own business going so we can live as we did before but this is very hard and he hasn't had a check since the first of November.

2007-02-04 16:48:59 · 11 answers · asked by nicole s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok here is the story

I have a boyfriend with whom im staying with he is realy nice and i do like him very much we get along very well and we understand each other

Ok so where is the problem.....

There is this guy at work, we started flirting and chatting through messenger. A little flirt wont hurt anyone i figured.
He is on training the whole week so i wont see him around and i miss him i havent seen him 2day at all and i miss him i miss talking to him i miss looking over my should and see his face

Why is this happening im realy happy with my boyfriend
Am I only over reacting or what?

2007-02-04 16:48:52 · 6 answers · asked by SAgirl 5 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have gone out for about four months. His family loves me, and my parents like him. Back in sixth grade, his mother called my mother at 10 at night and yelled at my mother over an incident my BF & I had at a dance. My mother was shocked, and offended.

After six years, we met up and began dating in Oct. My mother has always liked him as a person, but now she is constantly asking when I'll break up with him, why I still stay with him, etc. She especially hates the fact that we are Christian and he is Muslim.

Today she told me if I didn't break up with him soon, she wouldn't pay for my top choice -- an out-of-state university -- and would instead send me to a community college here. I told him that we'd fake a breakup after V-Day, since she doesn't mind us hanging out, she simply doesn't want us dating. He's very upset about this, but I don't know what else to do. I think my mother is still upset about the phone call. What's the best way to get through this?

2007-02-04 16:48:49 · 11 answers · asked by Roni L 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a teacher and this year I will be teaching sex ed to a group of 14 year olds.
I know they are going to ask a lot of questions about when they should lose their virginity and what "first times" are like and I would like to be able to give them a well-rounded and informative answer, based on both the male and female perspective.
If there is anyone out there who would like to share their story and experiences for this cause I would love to hear about it.
Knowing kids they'll want details, but please only give those you are comfortable sharing.
Thanks!

2007-02-04 16:48:03 · 11 answers · asked by Jodes 3 in Singles & Dating

Don't you hate when the person you are with ask that question? Do you think that it is just a way to jump start a conversation? If so, why do they get mad when you tell them what you are thinking and its silly? Like..."I should have wore my hat with this outfit".

2007-02-04 16:47:08 · 16 answers · asked by pan2fly 2 in Singles & Dating

Let’s say you have a friend who is an adult who is disabled—on disability checks and he had a girlfriend who is also an adult but is independent and works. He wants to marry his girlfriend but has to talk to her dad first. Will there be conflicts since he doesn’t work? What should he do?

2007-02-04 16:47:07 · 6 answers · asked by Josh 1 in Singles & Dating

I am so bored where I live. I do not know anyone. I have not been here long, and I need to meet a friend, or atleast have someone as a pen-pal. Can anyone help?

2007-02-04 16:46:54 · 5 answers · asked by sugarchunk1980 1 in Friends

My partner has asked me to consider getting it on with another couple. Im not sure if what he is asking is just sex in the same room as them or partner swapping or a little girl on girl action. What do you think? Should i give it a go?

2007-02-04 16:46:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

this girl is 18 she occasionally shaves her pits and legs, doesn't bathe very much (you can tell in certain intimate situations trust me) she does EVERYTHING her mother tells her to do no matter what. if her mother says to be home at 8 she will try to be home at 5. she never ever wears underwear, she hangs out with emo's and flirtatious women (avoiding the s word for yahoo) and plays guys for a long time until she finds another one she thinks is better. what is this kind of girl?

2007-02-04 16:46:06 · 28 answers · asked by U.S MARINE GREG 2 in Singles & Dating