Family & Relationships - 4 February 2007

I went out with this coworker (we share hours maybe once a week on weekends) once, and we talked for a few weeks. Then we kinda just stopped calling eachother 2 weeks ago. I was cool at first, but now I feel terrible about not calling her because I got the impression from looking at her at work, and from another coworker, that she was upset at me. I feel like a total jerk, and want to make things right with her if she's upset . I tried to talk to her at work on saturday and I couldn't get a word out. I was too nervous and felt too bad about the situation. Her phone won't take messages (they bounce back) because it's broken, and I can't speak to her (too nervous, i'm very very shy).

I want to write a letter to her explaining how I feel, and that I want to appologise to her, but how do I write such a letter? Is it a good idea to write a letter?

Thank you for your help, it is greatly appriciated.

2007-02-04 17:55:21 · 6 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Singles & Dating

i just had my heart shattered in a million pieces...and i feel like i am not allowed to be sad because i am the type of person that everyone expects to just muscle through things like this. I guess I dont really have a question...just looking for some support froma community that has no expectations for me. I think I also just wanted to broadcast how horrible I feel somewhere since I can't do it in real life. Any thoughts on what else I can do to stop feeling so horrible on the inside and pretending to be ok on the out.

2007-02-04 17:55:12 · 14 answers · asked by e26.2 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok I like this one guy.
But I have a boyfriend.
He lives like long ways from where I live.
But I still like him..kinda.
But the guys I like lives here.
Please help me.
This is complicated.
Who should I go for.

2007-02-04 17:52:52 · 10 answers · asked by iloveyou 1 in Singles & Dating

I know men are clueless but why are some men soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo damn stupid when it comes to how females feel? Men, the woman wants you to be clear on how you feel. Dont wait around for her to tell you first. By the time she tells you, she is tired of waiting for you and probably has moved on. Dont make her tell you first. If you like her, tell her. Dont let her be the last to know.

2007-02-04 17:52:36 · 10 answers · asked by stacy s 1 in Singles & Dating

And if this happen what is the best way to react?

Woman how would you react if your partner watch pornography but would not want to have sex with you?

2007-02-04 17:52:14 · 13 answers · asked by Sue3612 2 in Marriage & Divorce

This girl that used to really like me has gotten really wierd on me, and i would like to find out why. We use to go out to lunches heaps, movies, and also dinner once, she used to always like to play with my stuff, and we used to laught all the time. She now seems annoyed at me, dont know why???.......i asked her once, and she said everythings ok, and stop being like that, and why do i ask such questions....im making a heap of effort now, and she kind of just replies to what i say, or else just kind of ignors me altogether as if she didnt recieve anything???......she invites me to movies with my mate though, and once i declined...and she was like "fine then!"....whats these games?im sick of them now, and dont know what to do....ive being making all the effort, so im now going to wait for her to speak to me first!

2007-02-04 17:51:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

yeah im like a picky person when it comes to relationships. but when i finally meet that person(well not really, we havnt seen each other yet) it seems that its ok that we chat about stuff but it gives me a feeling that we cant be more than friends. note: this person i like is just what ive been lookin for (means that this person is: smart, can relate to everything i say, has the same beliefs, etc)
so what do i do?
btw:hppy valentines!

2007-02-04 17:50:38 · 2 answers · asked by Leira 1 in Singles & Dating

I actually didn't love him when we married but after 6 years now I feel like I like him and I'm a very good wife and a good mother.
I'm 35, educated, rich, with a great body and a good face, since I feel he is not interested in me as much as before I just feel like I want to change my life style. I want to get my PHD degree and find someone else but kids are who I can never just leave them, what should I do?

2007-02-04 17:50:38 · 20 answers · asked by Melody 1 in Marriage & Divorce

why wont a nice guy like you if u have little confidence even though you have good qualities in everything else? like pretty, smart, wholesome, kind etc?? example many nice girls cant attract a good guy like holly berry, christie brinkley,,etc

2007-02-04 17:50:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you think I have issues? Or it's just a normal fear? Serious answers only, suckers...get a life and need not reply.

2007-02-04 17:49:30 · 10 answers · asked by Inquisitive_Mind 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I and my husband married for 13years. Arrange married. We don't get along well each other, either he will try to make me angry or me will try to make him angry. Living in a kind of revenge life but fun one. Yet what trigger me was that day once we had fight and ended up my hubby beat me coz of my bad words toward him made him to punch me and I threaten him that I will make a report on him and he threaten me back that he will take poison.And the sad part was he had taken all sought of painkiller and other medicine. (nothing happen to him). I am the bad women coz of my words I throw to him. How can I stop being bad and shut my mouth up, neverthelss at times he makes things worst without intention or say something that make me hurt. Ia there any way and please do not ask me to divorce him yes I know Iam bad he don't deserve bad women like me.

2007-02-04 17:48:52 · 11 answers · asked by sharon 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm just a pre-teen and I'm sad. Can you help me? Do you have good jokes? Can I chat with you? Pls. don't judge me.

2007-02-04 17:48:50 · 12 answers · asked by Faith 1 in Friends

You know how some guys like girls to chase them down by calling them, initiating contact, etc.Why is that?

2007-02-04 17:48:30 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

I have this dream that I am a massage therapist (which I am) and I am asked by this guy in a band (name witheld) to come on tour with him as his personal massage therapist. This is so wonderful but I am so into him that I would be afraid that he is going to throw me off of the bus because he would find out that I am totally in love with him. The other dream is that I walked into the recording studio because I was dropping off the pizza that they ordered and I was just staring at him through the glass....his songs got to me so badly that I started getting very emotional and I walked out. In this dream he chases after me and puts his arms around me and gives me a very passionate kiss and we talk and get together.

It is too bad this man will never know that I am alive.
I am cute and have a nice body (so men say) but this guy likes woman that look like pamela anderson I am sure.

It just bums me out people always say to follow your dreams, but mine is just too out of reach.

2007-02-04 17:47:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is this girl that I know but I don't really talk to her. I have danced at a club with her about 4 times. I really like this girl and want to give her a teddy bear that is about 2ft tall. I don't what her to know that I like her until I can talk to her a little more. Is it to obvious if i give her the present????

2007-02-04 17:46:56 · 6 answers · asked by Gus 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 17:46:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this guy.
He likes my best friend.
He calls me his sis.
Which is cool.
But I mean.
What do I Do!

2007-02-04 17:45:31 · 6 answers · asked by iloveyou 1 in Singles & Dating

im a pretty shy girl and im dating this guy that works with my uncle, they're like best friends (my boyfriend is 20 and my uncle is 30), anyway we dont see each other alot and ive had phone sx before but only about twice (to be brutally honest, i dont think im any good at it) when my bf, has alil much, he gets in the mood to talk dirty on the phone, and i cant b/c (1) im afraid it'll get back to my uncle. (2) im afraid i wont be any good.// BUT IM MORE AFRAID IT'LL GET BACK TO MY UNCLE! anyway i want to know if anyone can help, like what can i do? and also what can i say on the phone? id love to just shock him one night and say something wild (but not to wild remember im alil shy but i need to get over it)!

2007-02-04 17:44:03 · 8 answers · asked by Alisha 1 in Singles & Dating

im talking about a kiss or sex

2007-02-04 17:43:59 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am 17 years old, going 18 at the end of the year..

I am 5'4'' tall right now, bright blue eyes, dirty blonde curly hair, i weigh about 120-125 pounds (skinny figure)

i like art,music,drama,techonology, the outdoors, anything of the kind.

i am one of those guys who is always truthful (its just something that comes naturally)

anything else you want to know im me or just ask (email me)

2007-02-04 17:43:58 · 13 answers · asked by Kenny 1 in Singles & Dating

In the last 2 weeks me and a boy on my rowing team (I'm the female coxswain) He is the best rower and technecally we are allowed to but shouldn't date the teammates for drama reasons.

He had always been my best friend until 2 weeks ago when we kissed, talked, then fell asleep together. Then he didn't bring it up and I assumed it was a one time thing.

Then thus night I got back from going out and the same thing happened. I kept saying I hope your not using me, and I feel so comfortable with him cause he has been like a brother the last year

He left college and went home for the weekend, we talked on aim about everyday stuff, he came back and hasn't imed me or came to see me. I just found out he has 3 girls coming to see him this weekend.

I am usually not so spazie about guys or needy but it's just like I really like him and trust him and if this dosn't work I am going to feel so used.

What should I Do?

Is he using me?

2007-02-04 17:42:40 · 3 answers · asked by Coxie Megan 4 in Singles & Dating

examples please...so if you are a loving good person, and you love everyone else they wont love u back? why not? as long as you have a good heart and are good to others that is not good enough for anyonew else to love u back? i doint understand why people say that? can u elaborate>

2007-02-04 17:42:39 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What is the best way to catch a gal?

2007-02-04 17:42:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I are very different. I am very outgoing and spontanous and he is the complete opposite. He is an east indian born in Canada and I am a latin girl raised in the US, so you can just imagine with such different backgrounds the house can easily become a battle field. We often fight about money, about priorities and work. His goal in life is to make money money and more money, sure he likes to relax and travel but that doesnt happen very often. On the other hand I dont really care about money because I dont really see it as a priority. We are both young and without children but it seems to me that what he wants is to work and work until we have children so we can keep on working. I am getting tired and I am afraid I might feel to pressured and end our relationship even though I love him so much.

2007-02-04 17:41:59 · 4 answers · asked by Moquinita 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There are small little things in our life that makes us happy. The things make me happy are 1.Nature, 2. My Family, 3. My friends, 4. Hugs and 5. Kids, You can think about more but plz dont write anything obscene.

2007-02-04 17:40:03 · 33 answers · asked by Sam- the "big boss" 4 in Friends

2007-02-04 17:39:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-04 17:38:50 · 12 answers · asked by Paul C 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 17:38:04 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok this is the situation. on 2-3-07 just before 5 o'clock one of my friends called me and invited me to his place for dinner with him and his girlfriend. i told him i couldnt do it because i had to work and i needed the money. he said i should of skipped work and they were going to invite this one girl i work with so i could hit on her. Now today, 2-4-07 i went into work and that girl was working. She was the first one to say hi, first and only one at the resturant to notice i got a hair cut, when i asked her who was going to win she said the bears, that she watches football and other sports and her favorit sport to watch is basketball, and when i left work she quickly said goodbye to me. now she is cute and i wouldnt mind going out with her. but i want other peoples opinions on this.

2007-02-04 17:38:03 · 14 answers · asked by Ryan B 1 in Singles & Dating

Both my girlfriend and i are virgins but we are planning on having sex. I've been a bit curious and concerned about both our health. I've heard of "popping a girls Cherry" sorry i dont mean to be rude or vulgar if i seem that way but i am very concerned about this. I believe that has to do with the girl bleeding after penetration but i dont understand the whole concept. I was wondering if any girls or guys could let me know what happens and if it hurts either person. I really dont want to hurt her in any way. i would also like to get her an orgasim before anything so if anyone knows the best way for me to have her reach her peek i really appreciate it if you could let me know. If there is to much to write or you want to keep it private i wouldnt mind giving my e-mail address or instant messenger so we could talk. Thank you and again i ment no harm in this letter.

2007-02-04 17:37:59 · 12 answers · asked by young boy 1 in Singles & Dating