ok this is the situation. on 2-3-07 just before 5 o'clock one of my friends called me and invited me to his place for dinner with him and his girlfriend. i told him i couldnt do it because i had to work and i needed the money. he said i should of skipped work and they were going to invite this one girl i work with so i could hit on her. Now today, 2-4-07 i went into work and that girl was working. She was the first one to say hi, first and only one at the resturant to notice i got a hair cut, when i asked her who was going to win she said the bears, that she watches football and other sports and her favorit sport to watch is basketball, and when i left work she quickly said goodbye to me. now she is cute and i wouldnt mind going out with her. but i want other peoples opinions on this.
2007-02-04 17:38:03 · 14 answers · asked by Ryan B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why do you want other ppls opinions, your going to be the one dating her not someone else. your the one that will have to spend all the time with her. if you like her, date her. she seems great and interested. so if you want too, date her.
2007-02-04 17:46:26 · answer #1 · answered by Alisha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is to think of this girl as a human. She should know who she slept with even if she has to be told. She should also not be judged for what the two of you did together. It seems like you're curious, but not truly motivated towards the child, so you should take her lead on what to do about it. Tell her you think the child may be yours and if she would like you to be part of it's life. Now this part's really important: if it's established that you're the biological father, just be a good man in front of the kid. Enjoy the kid's company and give her credit where credit is due. If the kid is cool and smart, SHE taught it to be cool and smart. Ultimately, it's her child. It's going to be attached to her. The fact that you're taking sooo long to even say anything says that you're not ready to take any real responsibility. Months have gone by and she's been bonding with this baby who doesn't even know you. The manly thing to do in this situation is to offer help and to have a relationship with the kid, but not to act as an authority over this kid or the girl. Avoid taking over her baby and certainly avoid using it against her. Even if you disagree with how she does things, say a little something, say a little prayer too, and gently back off. Remain open to seeing the kid and remain respectful to it's mom.
2016-05-24 14:39:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best way to know whtas on her mind is to ask her...she is on your mind thats why even a very normal hi and bye is looking very special to you...may b she is just normal but u r taking it the other way...on the other hand what u r thinking is also possible...may b she is also interested ...so in such a case rather than making guesses just go ahead n ask..:)
2007-02-04 17:52:09 · answer #3 · answered by joyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally, I think guys are chickensh_ _ when it comes to asking a girl out.
Tell her since she is a Bear's Fan and they lost you'd like to make it up to her and take her to a movie or basketball game.
2007-02-04 17:48:18 · answer #4 · answered by Incognito 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that dosent exactly mean that she likes you she was prolly just being nice so hey she noticed u hair got cut personally im not sure and cant say but hey go 4 it :D
2007-02-04 17:42:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be a set-up of a great time,check it out !
2007-02-04 17:43:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the time it took you to ask this question you could have called her and asked her yourself! grow some balls dude!
2007-02-04 17:44:05 · answer #7 · answered by jehorko29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ofcourse she in for u.......go for it boy..dont waste more time....ask her out for a drink
2007-02-04 17:46:41 · answer #8 · answered by smart_eluh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just ask her out. it sounds like she likes u so chase after her. good luck
2007-02-04 17:42:36 · answer #9 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God...can it be so difficult to ask her out for something ???
2007-02-04 17:41:13 · answer #10 · answered by try.myanmar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋