Family & Relationships - 4 February 2007

what attitude do you hate most from your friend?

2007-02-04 18:56:06 · 11 answers · asked by awancakes 1 in Friends

Hi Honey. I'm an Indian from Malaysia. I quite open mind and well travelled and have very much interest with Japanese girl. Could show is there anyways I could get to know Japanese girl and thier culture in detail? and If can I would like to choose a japanese girl as my life partner..

2007-02-04 18:53:34 · 9 answers · asked by reven n 1 in Weddings

cool buddy

2007-02-04 18:53:28 · 1 answers · asked by Tia 2 in Singles & Dating

giving her the notion that your really into her?

2007-02-04 18:53:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Currently, I have 7 bridesmaids for my wedding. Is this too many to have for 100 guests, or should I follow the 1 bridesmaids for every 50 guest rule.

2007-02-04 18:52:55 · 20 answers · asked by Amy W 2 in Weddings

My boyfriend of 5 years...has this ex that he dated for a few months. Shes always posting stuff on her Myspace with him in it, like pictures of when him and her were together, a video she made with him in it at random times, and when i confronted her about it, she told me to mind my own business. How is is NOT my business???? Shes unconsisiderate, and nasty when i try to tell her its not appropriate for her to be posting things like that on her Myspace for everyone and anyone to see. Shes always calling his phone, and i have to be the one to answer them and tell her to stop calling...but she continues to do so. Ive told him MANY times before that if he doesnt do something about it, him and i will have a serious problem...but hes doesnt "have the balls" to tell her to go f*** herself... Ive tried so many different approaches. Ive asked her nicely to stop, and told her i was going to rip off her legs...How do i get rid of her for good? Because i know killing is out of the question lol

2007-02-04 18:50:29 · 6 answers · asked by Jay L 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 18:49:15 · 15 answers · asked by Tgirl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

It is sad to see some people in their 20s feeling bad because they have never had sex. Insted they should feel sorry that they have not loved someone or being loved by someone. One person asked here that he was feeling sorry because he has never had sex.

2007-02-04 18:48:42 · 14 answers · asked by the_young_bride 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i really have no idea how to kiss, and i dont wana look like an idiot- how far does a first kiss go?
this guy has a lot of experience

2007-02-04 18:48:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how would you tell them?

2007-02-04 18:45:14 · 13 answers · asked by prettycoolchick38 4 in Singles & Dating

I've had a girlfriend for about 6 months now. Lately, I seem to keep misworking things or saying stupid stuff that really hurts her feelings. We've talked about it and gone over where I need to think and where I need to change my ways so I can stop hurting her (which I really, REALLY want to do) but I somehow manage to keep doing it, and I dont know how!!

Tonight, i hurt her again. This was the first time that she actually talked about leaving me because of it. She says she can't keep doing this, being hurt at night and acting like nothing happened the next day. I dont want her to do that, I want to stop myself from hurting her in the first place, but I just don't know how. I think before I talk, I watch my words, and I do whatever I can to keep her happy, but I just keep hurting her like this.

How can I stop myself? Losing this girl would hurt me so much, I can't bear to think about it.

2007-02-04 18:43:35 · 10 answers · asked by trainboy765 4 in Singles & Dating

He and I have been together for over around two years. It has been a powerful and emotional time and lately things have become hard - we are fighting over stupid trivial things.

He says he wants to start a new life without me now and I don't want to give up yet. I see so much room to grow and learn from our problems if only he would talk to me about them, but he refuses to talk...

2007-02-04 18:40:27 · 12 answers · asked by why 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I fail to understand how come saggy breasts, used and abused treasures be of such attraction..

2007-02-04 18:39:34 · 21 answers · asked by Sara J 2 in Singles & Dating

Tha wife is sad. Not angry. I feel a bad for her. I want to divorce her but she dont want it even though I made the daughter in the law preganant! My son not know. We not tell. I want to be a alone now. I want a new wife and life. But before I do, I want to say sorry to the old wife.

2007-02-04 18:38:49 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My sister is pregnant by her boyfriend, and she found out that her boyfriend still talks to his ex. She also stays with her boyfriend. She decided to talk to his ex through text message pretending to be him, and the girl did not even know she was pregnant or stayed with him, b/c he never even told her. When she confronted him he swore he did but the girl was obviously hurt by this b/c he must have been leading her on. My mother always made us believe that our father was such a great person to us, then we found out in the end it wasn't rue. Should my sister tell her child the truth about his dad? He basically denied him b/c he acted as if he doesn't exist. I told her no, b/c in a way it seems to hurt the childs self esteem knowing his own father didn't care enough to acknowledge him.

2007-02-04 18:37:59 · 9 answers · asked by bre714 2 in Family

yester day i made some apple cider baked chicken and some other suff to go with it.
i called my my gf down stair and told her dinner was ready and she just came down stairs and ate it with out looking at any thing
me : well you like it ?
my gf : yea its great.
me : your not even looking ! look i made dinner special and it looks nice and you didnt bother looking at it you just ate it !
my gf : ok
me : you dont appreciat me
my gf : are you going through another one of your phases ?
me : stop trying to change the subject !
my gf : listen your starting to creep me out
me : i slaved over a hot stove all day and all you can do is gobble down the food !
my gf : ok im going to take a bath and try to forget this ever happend.
me : you didnt eat your f*cking vegstables !


why dont women pay attention to the little things ?
im always the one who cooks with out me shed be eating take out.
my fiance doesnt even eat her vestables.

why dont women care ?!?

2007-02-04 18:36:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok most of the times were always going out but the results suck! first it starts off bad were just both mad in da car we dont look at each other dont talk to each other but getting to da end of da day its just like we just both express our feelings to each other and some tears and its just our love growing stronger? pretty weird

2007-02-04 18:35:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My daughter is 18 months old and i am a college student. she goes to daycare all day and is usually worn out from it. But she gets a seconds wind at around 8 and keeps going on until 2 or 3 am (until i go to sleep) her dad goes to sleep at around 10:30 everynight but she will NOT go to sleep with him, she refuses to lay down, even if i go lay down in there. i dunno she just doesn't want to sleep and then gets up at like 9am! it's crazy! please and she doens't take a nap when she gets home either. i don't know what to do.

2007-02-04 18:35:29 · 6 answers · asked by Clara O 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I decided to get to know this girl that always sits next to me in my college class (for about 4 weeks now), i decided to talk to her and get to know her better. At first she was playing with her hair when we started chatting. She greeted my conversation with a smile and seemed genuinely interested in the conversation.Then the professor started lecturing and she was fidgeting with her earrings, playing with her hair (grooming...?) and passively bitting her nails the entire time.

What do you guys/gal think? (That was yesterday)

UPDATE: Today we talked more freely and we had a pretty engaging conversation. She laughed at everything i said, funny or not. She wasn't afraid to invade my personal space and look at my notes either.

What are the chances she's already taken?

2007-02-04 18:34:20 · 10 answers · asked by HopelessOne 2 in Singles & Dating

I was at a wedding reception when I ran into my friend's wife. She told me he wasn't with her, and in fact they were getting a divorce She told me that they had been seperated for a few months. Confident, I asked her up to my hotel room for casual sex. She politely obliged and we proceeded to have sex in the hotel room. I then walked her to her car and she left. I haven't seen her since. 2 years later and I find out they got back together soon after, but a few months later actually got a divorce, and now have nothing to do with eachother. I've been hanging out with him quite a bit lately, and wonder if I should tell him.

2007-02-04 18:31:24 · 42 answers · asked by Hand Banana 1 in Singles & Dating

If you are in bed would it take you less than 10 seconds to answer the phone?

2007-02-04 18:31:18 · 15 answers · asked by SANDY 6 in Friends

but real funny incident.

2007-02-04 18:31:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm 22 year old female, in college, no degree (yet), and looking to move out of my parent's home. But I have a hard time finding a job that pays enough to enable this.

Any suggestions for a job that pays good enough to live on your own?

2007-02-04 18:30:55 · 6 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 18:30:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I've been married three years, after a courtship that lasted for two and a half years. I am crazy about my husband and love him madly. But things have just about never worked out... since the start we've been having huge fights, but we kept hoping we'll work it out.

The problem is I am too possessive, and can't see him with his friends (even male) and can't stand him having fun without me... and he feels stifled. So now he's so reticent. and he says such hateful things. and he wants me to get out of his life. and he says i have ruined him. and he has started lying. i am pretty sure though he is not seeing anybody else.

what do i do? i would love to split, but i can't bear the thought of staying apart from him. and what hurts more is not the thought of staying apart, but the thought that he will like me to go... i get the feeling of being a loser, and i hate it, i hate it, i hate it. how do i live with it?

Please help.

2007-02-04 18:28:44 · 13 answers · asked by verve 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im a college student and yet no boyfriend since birth.my friends are keep on asking why!many courted me but i cant choose any of them.its not that im being picky.its just that my heart doest beat for them....but now im starting to ask myself too!do i need to force my on someone just to have a boyfriend?

2007-02-04 18:28:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Last he talked to him was 10 years ago. He born in Iran.

2007-02-04 18:25:58 · 3 answers · asked by peacemakers3000 3 in Family

2007-02-04 18:25:49 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and I are a great couple. We love eachother very much and have been with each other for quite some time now. She recently told me what my Valentines Day gift from her was going to be (apparently she couldn't wait til the 14th.) She told me that her and her sister are going to get tattoos of each other's significant other's names. For whatever reason, I'm completely disturbed by this, and really don't want her to go through with this. Am I in any way justified in being concerned? It has nothing to do with our current relationship, in fact, our relationship is great and I don't see any reason why we would break up or seperate. But statistics see another side to the story. I just really would be uncomfortable with her getting the tattoo, and its hard to express that to her without her thinking I'm intending to break up, or to make her think that I don't love her enough because I absolutely refuse to ever consider having her or any other girl's name tattooed on me.

2007-02-04 18:24:50 · 16 answers · asked by Hand Banana 1 in Singles & Dating

I just moved into a new appartment last month, and my mom is going to make curtains for me (as she says the pull down shade is to plain). Then my grandmother came to visit and decided that She wanted to make curtains for me. I told her that I thought my mother was going to do so, but (as usual) didn't hear that. Now she's insisting that she come back down to measure for the curtains. I don't want to hurt her feelings but my mom and I already have material picked out. I"m 21 but she treats me like I'm still 5 and don't know what's best for me.

How do I tell her that I don't need her to make curtains w/o hurting her feelings to much? This kind of thing has happened before and she always acts like she's been slighted hugely then gets all huffy for the next few months or blames my mom entirely (they don't get along to well to put it nicely).

2007-02-04 18:22:32 · 10 answers · asked by izzy5_rose 3 in Family