I am 24, my bf is 27, but he says woman above 40 are better lovers, is it possible?

Question

I fail to understand how come saggy breasts, used and abused treasures be of such attraction..

Answer 1

Why older women rule!!
Andy Rooney from 60 minutes
Andy Rooney says:

As I grow in age, I value women who are over 40 most of all. Here are just
a few reasons why:

A woman over 40 will never wake you in the middle of the night to ask,

"What are you thinking?" She doesn't care what you think.

If a woman over 40 doesn't want to watch the game, she doesn't sit
around whining about it. She does something she wants to do. And, it's
usually something more interesting.

A woman over 40 knows herself well enough to be assured in who she is,
what she is, what she wants and from whom. Few women past the age of 40
give a hoot what you might think about her or what she's doing.

Women over 40 are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you
at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant. Of
course, if you deserve it, they won't hesitate to shoot you, if they
think they can get away with it.

Older women are generous with praise, often undeserved. They know what
it's like to be unappreciated. A woman over 40 has the self-assurance to
introduce you to her women friends. A younger woman with a man will often
ignore even her best friend because she doesn't trust the guy with other
women. Women over 40 couldn't care less if you're attracted to her friends
because she knows her friends won't betray her.

Women get psychic as they age. You never have to confess your sins to a
woman over 40. They always know.

A woman over 40 looks good wearing bright red lipstick. This is not
true of younger women. Once you get past a wrinkle or two, a woman over 40
is far sexier than her younger counterpart.

Older women are forthright and honest. They'll tell you right off if
you are a jerk, if you are acting like one!

Yes, we praise women over 40 for a multitude of reasons.
Unfortunately, it's not reciprocal. For every stunning, smart,
well-coiffed hot woman of 40+, there is a bald, paunchy relic in
yellow pants making a fool of himself with some 22-year-old waitress.



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Answer 2

Wow, what a prick?!

Sorry, but what is he saying? That you are not a good lover? Or just that he has had better, and they happened to be over 40?

First of all, dump his a** and find someone who will show you some respect! Sounds like he is manipulating you by using your insecurities.

To answer your question.... He is wrong.

Just because a woman is 40 or over, does not mean she has let go of her inhibitions, nor does it mean that she has more experience.

Though it also does not mean that she has saggy breasts or abused treasures. Don't lash out at 40 year olds. Lash out at the inconsiderate, careless boyfriend who said this to you.

What makes a woman a good lover is confidence, knowing herself, knowing and understanding her own needs... having an open mind about sex and self exploration.

Take the time to get to know yourself on an intimate level. Learn what it is that you like and don't like. Learn what your body is capable of..... Then give him the ride of his life!!!

When you are comfortable with yourself is when you can be fully comfortable with a man and learn all of his wants and needs. (Some of which you may not be into by the way!!)

Some men like to be told what to do. I don't know if this is some kind of mummy syndrome, or just that being bossed around in bed turns them on.....

I do know that men like a woman who knows what she wants and isn't afraid to ask for it.... or rather, demand it of him!!!

Good luck.
I still think you deserve to be with someone who is not so uncouth as to say something like this to you.

Answer 3

Oh Yeah!!!
women over 40 know what they are doing. Frankly, saggy breasts just aren't a factor, and I don't know what 'abuse' any treasures may have to sustain if the woman has a normal life.

It's passion that counts.

Answer 4

hmmmmmmmm well, has he had any experience with a woman over 40? for one thing young guys think older women know what they want or at least know what they are doing. im so sorry my breasts sagged being a mother. such is life, ive also had several surgeries, i limp, and so on, but ive had a few guys say im the best lover they ever had, maybe some day you will find out what its all about. but right now you are too impressed with yourself.

Answer 5

Honey, I'm ALMOST 40, and If I knew THEN what I know NOW, I COULD'VE MADE A WHOLE LOTTA MEN HAPPY AT 24!!! I am rapidly exiting my "Dirty 30's" and entering my "Horney 40's" and LOVING IT! (..and by the way-my BODY is NOT SAGGY or USED up! I am sexier now, than I have EVER been, because I know how to USE my "treasures...")

Answer 6

HAHA OMGOSH u just made my whole night. well i always heard women over 40 are experinced and have let go all their inhibitoins so they are wild lovers. also if he is younger he might have some subconcoius desires of sleeping with his mother and sleeping with these older women fulfills that. i just think its so funny that even said that to your face and then the way you described it on this questoin ! HAHA LOL
Btw- that was kinda mean for u to say for the 40 year olds on here that are reading it. sorry i laughed about it :P

Answer 7

lol. The only reason your saying negative things is because your insecure. The best way that I've learned to react is just be positive, u can think those things but dont say or write them. I've learned that. Try to be a good person and better yourself on a daily basis. Let him be with who he wants to be with and go get what u want. You deserve to be happy too.

Answer 8

That depends. Some woman in their 40's looks even better than those in their 20's in terms of character and dressing and experience in sexual and love.

Answer 9

be nice you'll be 40 one day.....and there not saggy at 40.

sounds like your man found one hot 40 year old , didn't that bit you in the A**.

And by the way the thing with older women is we know how to make a man happy, like making him feel like a man not a babysitter.

and if that don't get you this one will.
WE ARE SMARTER. OLDER.MORE EXPERIENCE AND HAVE MORE $$$$$$$$$.
(where did that one grab you)........LMAO

Answer 10

Prove him wrong...
I don't agree with him anyway...
I am in my 40's and have had sex with women from
18 - 50 and find them all good....20's are great...
Perhaps he means that sometimes younger women
are more inhibited than older women....
That is as much the mans fault as it is the womans...
Good male lovers are able to overcome womens inhibitions..