Family & Relationships - 4 February 2007

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2007-02-04 18:21:36 · 20 answers · asked by ButterMilkQueso 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a celebate person and my sexuality is not gay, straight or bi. I don't feel love any more and I hate slutty girls who engage in prostitution and have a slutty personality. I have nothing when it comes to my sex drive other than this biological urge to masturbate once daily. I feel really depressed when I masturbate because it doesn't feel right and I have tried really hard to stop, but I just seem to do it. Shall I:
a) masturbate anyway (after all I am worthless and I might as well have some sort of desire in me)
b) Kill myself or chop my penis off

I am probably one of the most sexless guys in the world. What advice can you give me?

2007-02-04 18:21:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

One night I had sex with this guy that I really liked, and then I asked if he liked me....he said that he doesn't not like me.....what does this mean?

2007-02-04 18:20:52 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 18:20:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Would you ever date or consider marrying someone outside your ethnic or religious background? Why or why not

2007-02-04 18:20:46 · 20 answers · asked by Girls! Girls! I do adore 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 18:20:30 · 9 answers · asked by Cedric 1 in Family

How to tell my parents that I smoke , if I'm very very very shy

2007-02-04 18:20:10 · 7 answers · asked by Ali 1 in Family

Or is it just to protect a man's assets? Just curious about pre-nups.. Ladies would you ever sign one?

2007-02-04 18:17:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

at school that day there will be noone to hang out with and nothing to do because all my freinds have girlfreinds which will make them to busy to want to hang around with me and do dumb stupid funny things like we allways do. im very sad because just everyone but me having a gf alone is sad enough i dont know how i will handle valentines day. is there anyone else who has no gf or bf and if so do u feel the same way?

2007-02-04 18:17:10 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

(optional) Why?

2007-02-04 18:16:32 · 7 answers · asked by ButterMilkQueso 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

What are the best "hot" pic sites? I like models (Sunny Leone, Pamela, Maria, ...etc)
Or just send me some hot pics via email.
effen_2006@yahoo.com
Thanks for feeding this hungry handyman!

2007-02-04 18:14:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend left me a month ago and it's been killing me. I loved him with all my heart and it hurt so badly. I know he's a jerk now and it's not worth it to cry over someone like him. I tried to get myself busy but whenever I'm alone I can't help thinking about him and then weeping. It's been a month and I still miss him. I wonder how much longer it'll take to completely get over him. I don't think I'll be able to handle the pain any longer. Plz help me...

2007-02-04 18:13:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My 7 year old autistic boy sleeps with me and my husband and have been for almost a year. He cries when we want to put him in his own bed and says he's scared to be alone. We've taken turns to lie with him in his bed until his asleep but 10min after we go to our own bed he comes running through crying. We've tried to make his bedtime routine as calm and consistent as possible but it doesn't seem to work. Is this just a phase and should we wait it out or what other suggestions do you have? We are getting quite desperate and obviously worried.

2007-02-04 18:12:06 · 7 answers · asked by SweetyPie 2 in Family

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Some who are single ' tense up ' when February or Valentines Day comes about.

Why not ' celebrate ' your own self value that you are not in a relationship because you won't settle for just anyone knowing that the heart is too precious not to be patient for ?

To celebrate the authentic value of the heart and love whether in a relationship or single. To celebrate your own self that you are not in a relationship by choice as you won't share your heart with just anyone. . .that maybe you ended a relationship because it was not of value or emotionally healthy for your heart. To celebrate the focus of heart in February that you do in fact know what true love is and you are either sharing that with a dear heart in your life now. . .or. . .are you at peace with yourself, your friends, family knowing that you will, one day, meet that special one for your heart ... when it's right.

Do you celebrate your own heart in February and not stop doing so when the month has come and gone?

2007-02-04 18:09:54 · 3 answers · asked by onelight 5 in Singles & Dating

We have been married for over 3 years, she has now had a 4th affair. She says she needs help and has a problem and that she still loves me very much. I dont know if I can trust her, can she change her ways with professional help? Should I give her another chance or walk away. Any suggestions?

2007-02-04 18:09:45 · 27 answers · asked by Steve 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im 15 years young and im very shy. ive never had a gurl before and i need help on knowing when a gurl likes you and how to ask her out.



oh and i also need some tips on what to do after i ask a gurl out.

2007-02-04 18:08:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like thin girls with meat like size 8 or 9 and boobs and butt but i get these skinny girls cuz im skinny. I dont like them. just my preferance. but why wont any meaty girls date me ?

2007-02-04 18:08:49 · 8 answers · asked by wavthrsr 1 in Singles & Dating

Apart from religeous reasons, why should marriage mean that you should not have sex with other people that you find sexually attractive? I am a firm believer that faithful monogamy is the right form of a relationship but I am looking for purely logical arguments to support my position.

2007-02-04 18:07:18 · 13 answers · asked by John B 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a very good friend who’s been busy this past month and whenever I talk to her all she does is complain about the pressure and the stress that she’s under. She was never a complainer but she’s fast turning into one!

I don’t know how to deal with complainers since I hardly complain. I’ve tried offering her advice (take it easy!) which agitates her even more, and being silent whenever she complains which makes me feel utterly useless. It’s a lose-lose situation. She cracked up the last time she saw me because I said I’m lousy at dealing with complainers (apparently the wrong thing to say!) and from then on she’s taken to restrain herself whenever she’s about to complain. I’d really like to be able to alleviate her stress so she doesn’t feel that she has to restrain her will to complain (not because I am such a fan of a complainer!)

So, what do people want from people who hear their complaints? Advice, relief, or simply a validation of their stress?

Cheers

2007-02-04 18:03:19 · 9 answers · asked by yellowscissors 2 in Friends

2007-02-04 18:01:36 · 7 answers · asked by ~â?¥~MoOnY~â?¥~ 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so i used to like this guy and the great thing is that we became good friends and i actually thought i had a chance
one day one of my friends told me this one girl told him i liked him and from that day on he talkedto me less and less until he totally shut me off
i was really hurt and sad so i decided to also ignore him and i could tell he ws trying to talk to me but i still ignored him trying to be as rude as possible bc of how hurt i was
but now i dont understand i thought ignoring him would teach him a lesson but now he is again ignoring me and i am also still ignoring him
what does it mean????

2007-02-04 18:01:01 · 19 answers · asked by SOPHIE p 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 18:00:26 · 13 answers · asked by Arvind j 1 in Singles & Dating

One more question, actually how many of you people out there use condoms or not using at all or sometimes, why?

2007-02-04 18:00:05 · 2 answers · asked by ButterMilkQueso 2 in Singles & Dating

I really like this one guy but I don't know if he likes me. He's in 11th grade and I'm a senior so I don't really know him. He was in one of my classes last year and he once said that he would remember my name (Story is that in class everyone was partnered up and u had to get to know the other person. You had to remember their whole name and other stuff about them and tell it to the class. The problem was that my partner forgot my name! He was embarassing both of us. Everyone got mad at him. After, the guy who I liked was talking with my partner and saying stuff like how could u forget her name. He then tried to make me feel better and said that he wouldn't forget my name) but we only talked briefly like twice. After a year, I don't have any classes with him and want to ask him out but I think that will be a little weird since we really don't know each other. Also I think he might have a girlfriend since he's going with someone to winter formal. What do I do?

2007-02-04 17:58:35 · 4 answers · asked by Joleen 1 in Singles & Dating

I had some fun with a prostitute in the last december. Then I paid her and she went off. But after 2 months, now she is coming back to me. She says she wants me, not my money........what is really behind this? what should I do?

2007-02-04 17:58:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Two Questions: (see http://www.udel.edu/bkirby/asperger/ for more information)
1. Since Aspergers syndrome marrages more often than not (in the past maybe not now) have been between people one undiagnosed Aspergers syndrome suferer and on non-suferer, what are the chances in our modern day society that a diagnosed person will have such a relationship? And

2. Assuming that you are not a diagnosed Aspergeras syndrome suferer, would you accept someone who has Aspergers syndrome (please be honest).

Please explain your asnwers.
I thank you in advance for your insight.

2007-02-04 17:57:10 · 5 answers · asked by Arthur N 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I went out with this coworker (we share hours maybe once a week on weekends) once, and we talked for a few weeks. Then we kinda just stopped calling eachother 2 weeks ago. I was cool at first, but now I feel terrible about not calling her because I got the impression from looking at her at work, and from another coworker, that she was upset at me. I feel like a total jerk, and want to make things right with her if she's upset . I tried to talk to her at work on saturday and I couldn't get a word out. I was too nervous and felt too bad about the situation. Her phone won't take messages (they bounce back) because it's broken, and I can't speak to her (too nervous, i'm very very shy).

I want to write a letter to her explaining how I feel, and that I want to appologise to her, but how do I write such a letter? Is it a good idea to write a letter?
what should i write? should i put the stuff
Thank you for your help, it is greatly appriciated.

2007-02-04 17:57:05 · 5 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Singles & Dating

a few weekd ago at a swim meet my team was competing against another team at my school and when i was walking to the pool i immedietley fell in luv with this one guy on the other team
during the meet i couldnt stop thinking abt him so i would turn around and look at him and the wierd thing is he was also looking back and i got this amazing connection
the thing is i promised myself i would talk to him on aim and my friend knows him except he keeps forgetting to give me his sn
and its been 2 weeks but the only thing that is still making me go for it is the connection i felt
the only thing is mabye i should give up bc im not sure what kind of stare he was giving me but i cant stop thinking abt him???

2007-02-04 17:56:49 · 7 answers · asked by SOPHIE p 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this girl, I actually haven't talked to her much, I am just now getting to know her, she actually lives in a different state anyhow, not very far away though. She is actually really cool, and I already know she doesn't mind the age difference. And I know age shouldnt matter but it's kinda big. I'm 19 she is 28, so 9 years. what does everyone else think

2007-02-04 17:56:41 · 10 answers · asked by jimhm3 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 17:56:39 · 5 answers · asked by kevgreens12 1 in Singles & Dating