im 15 years young and im very shy. ive never had a gurl before and i need help on knowing when a gurl likes you and how to ask her out.
oh and i also need some tips on what to do after i ask a gurl out.
2007-02-04 18:08:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, first of all, it is almost impossible to just say "what a girl will do if she likes you." This is different for each member of the female race, and understanding that all girls are different is crucial. Don't stereotype. If you have a particular girl in mind, flatter her a bit, see how she responds. If you're reeeally shy, write her a note. That's what my boyfriend did; we're still together 5 years later. He was pretty shy about it, too, but then again,s o was I. So, needless to say, I understand. If you don't have a girl already in mind, wait a while! There's really no rush. Regardless of what most girls say, most of us don't want to date a guy that's dated hundreds of people. I LOVE being my boyfriend's first girlfriend. It makes it more special. So hold out and wait for someone you really think could be "the one." It's worth it. But if you already have someone in mind, write her a note! Maybe deliver it with a single rose, or have her friends deliver it. Don't get your heart too involved though, until you know how she feels. You can just tell her how you feel in the note. You don't necessarily have to ask her out right then and there. You can even wait awhile and see if she responds! Once you ask her out, take it day by day! Just relax. It will all get easier, I promise. Ask her what she'd like to do. Honestly, movies really are a great way to bond, as you can discuss the movie later, etc., and you odn't have to worry as much about awkward pauses. Just hold on. You'll know which girl and when the time is right. Good luck and God bless!
2007-02-04 18:18:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your so shy how'd you get the guts to ask a girl out. You just need to look inside yourself and shine. you are young girls are still naive and flirty and when she likes you she shows it the thing is a young womans heart is very tender so from the jump you should be up front about where your intentions of going are. but don't rush your 15, you got plenty of girlies to run thru.
2007-02-04 18:19:10 · answer #2 · answered by shampaynealize 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok? well for starters, don't let the girl know you like her automaticaly cause it might freak her out a bit, so get to know her and become friends with her gradually, and then tell her and see how she takes it. And if a girl likes you, she'll look at you alot and look away when you look at her. She'll prolly tell her friends, so just ask her friends and they'll most likely tell you believe it or not. After you ask a girl out, you'll prolly wanna set a date, and then leave so you can both think about it and not have that little aqward moment afterwards.
2007-02-04 18:14:03 · answer #3 · answered by Tizmo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey im 15 also and never had a guy...well once like last year but it lasted for like a week and he was an ****** lol.. Uhmm..Usually when a girl likes you , she gives you alot of attention,stares at you,laughs at your jokes,acts nervous/fidgety around you, some girls might like you and you might not even know it..Ummm always get friends with the girl first so your comfortable around her and vice-versa..Movies is always nice for asking a girl out..
2007-02-04 18:20:30 · answer #4 · answered by MeganElizabeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
15 yrs young is right. you are too young to date. you'll know if a girl likes you. always says hi, etc.
when you are old enough to date, then after you ask a girl out, then you take her out.
no sex until you are ready to support a child, and are not one yourself.
2007-02-04 18:13:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you date the girl after asking her out
2007-02-04 18:12:02 · answer #6 · answered by ntu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she looks you in the eye go over and introduce yourself, after that if she laughs at your jokes you can ask her out and it will be smooth sailing...
2007-02-04 18:13:21 · answer #7 · answered by ricardo m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like guy thats be cool, not so hurry try to talk to me. When a girl likes you, you can see that she looks at you all the time, be please with your help etc. You can first ask her for a drink or so,...
2007-02-04 18:40:38 · answer #8 · answered by ~â?¥~MoOnY~â?¥~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
observe wat ur friends do, in this year...mayb wen u r 16 u'll av got some ideas. In the mean time try to make some friends who r girls just plain friendships it might b easier way to start off
2007-02-04 18:16:42 · answer #9 · answered by smart_eluh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her can we have a party .can u will with me for a party. and u will complete then asking him will u be my u understand na...........
2007-02-04 18:21:18 · answer #10 · answered by Tia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋