a few weekd ago at a swim meet my team was competing against another team at my school and when i was walking to the pool i immedietley fell in luv with this one guy on the other team
during the meet i couldnt stop thinking abt him so i would turn around and look at him and the wierd thing is he was also looking back and i got this amazing connection
the thing is i promised myself i would talk to him on aim and my friend knows him except he keeps forgetting to give me his sn
and its been 2 weeks but the only thing that is still making me go for it is the connection i felt
the only thing is mabye i should give up bc im not sure what kind of stare he was giving me but i cant stop thinking abt him???
2007-02-04 17:56:49 · 7 answers · asked by SOPHIE p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
talk to him. Take a deep breath and say, "Hi" it's ok to be scared, but you have to get past that or else the best things in life will slip past you.
2007-02-04 18:00:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Could you possibly bump into him at another swim meet? Or go to a sport function at his school? Maybe you could ask his friend if he and his friend are going to any other function where you could meet up? Even though it's 2007, guys still like to be the persuer. Maybe the thought of you getting in touch with him scares him. Maybe he's thinking...what would I say??? If you were to run into him at a meet, or something, you might just have that real connection again...a real attraction that is just that! Attraction, like a magnet to bring you together to meet! Make sense?
2007-02-05 02:12:51 · answer #2 · answered by Christine P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You felt a connection to him but its been two weeks and you've heard anything. If he feels the same he will get in touch with you. He may have only been looking back because he noticed you looking at him. Infatuation is a very strong emotion and one that is hard to get over but if I were you I would divert my attention to other things. You never know what will happen later....
2007-02-05 02:06:37 · answer #3 · answered by Incognito 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it to yourself or if you tell your friends they might embarrass you. He was probably looking at you because he saw you looking at him. If he wanted to meet you he would just come over and talk to you, but he didn't and you can't make that happen. This could happen a couple more times to, so don't worry you will meet someone you really like and he will come to say hello to you as soon as he sees you.
2007-02-05 02:05:37 · answer #4 · answered by chez006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow.. if hes had 2 weeks to give you his screenname and still hasn't thought of you enough to do that.. Forget him.. Good looks are nice.. But remember its inside that counts..I've been in the same situation though.. give it more time and dont keep asken for his screenname.. wait it out some more and if this keeps up.. like i said.. forget it lol
2007-02-05 02:02:16 · answer #5 · answered by MeganElizabeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, how can you say you're in love with somebody when you don't even know them? I'm sure if the relationship is meant to be, you two will get together; somehow, someway, but I wouldn't act too anxious; let them wonder a little.
2007-02-05 02:01:52 · answer #6 · answered by Nancy D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are so psycho, sorry! Get over yourself and get a man who will take u out and get to know u.
2007-02-05 02:02:19 · answer #7 · answered by kayla k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋