You may comment on the duration of your relationship or why yes or not.
2007-02-04 18:21:36 · 20 answers · asked by ButterMilkQueso 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is so superficial. I can't believe you're asking that question! What kind of person would dump the person they love, and who loves them at the time that they most need you?
If someone has been through trauma they need love and support, not a kick in the head.
2007-02-04 18:28:37 · answer #1 · answered by Snow White 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if my boyfriend ever was (GOD FORBID!) i would stay with him despite the fact that he's handicapped. i love him too much to lose what we've already made & an accident wont let me break our bond. it's never anyone's fault that they become sick or get involved in an accident and leaving them in that case would just make them feel much sadder than they need to.. they've already lost so much they could do. im not saying i would stay for pity.. i would definetely stay and even marry him if i was given the chance because i love who he is.. i've already seen beyond his looks that a physical deficiency (is that too big a word?? haha) would just make our love seem superficial and i feel as if i'd have lost the whole meaning of us ever being together.
i'd stick by him for the rest of my life because people like this come only once, their personality is .. never to be repeated and not much would change the way i feel.. sure it would be alot more difficult to look after someone who is handicapped but sometimes love just gives you that little bit of strength.. and for me, i have alot of faith in that and hope that despite the fact that it's so hard, that the both of us will get through it.
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2007-02-05 02:34:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi = (
Thats not a happy thought. But I would say... if you truly love him/her, then you would stay by their side in any way you can.
But if you feel it's going to stand in the way of you living your life the way you are meant to, then just be there as a friend for them.
Other ways you can think of it is to ask yourself/others the question... would he/she have stayed by you if it were to have happened to you?
Or would he/she who is now handicapped, want you to stop living your life to look after them/marry them?
Don't feel obliged to marry- or you may end up regreting it, if you don't feel it's the right thing to do.
All the best!
2007-02-05 02:40:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I wouldn't break up with my boyfriend. We've been together five years and though I do know it would be extremely difficult to be married to him if he were paralyzed or something. I do know from having been diagnosed with several health problems the worry of not having my boyfriend around to be with me. I could never leave him when he needed me most. That's not love. I would probably marry him in spite of any handicap, unless it left him incapable of love or feelings. Then, I don't know. If we were already married though, there's no way I'd leave him.
2007-02-05 02:27:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can honestly say that i would continue to be w/ that person. A few yrs back i met this woman named Jennifer, and we began to talk and get know each other and she told me that she aids. I could never think bad of someone who couldnt handle that kind of news it does change alot about ones future and the relationship in general. But i really liked her personality and i opted to become invloved w/ her. She later decided that i wasnt the right person for her, but now we are friends and she is in a great relationship.
2007-02-05 02:37:56 · answer #5 · answered by Smurfy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would soooo stay with that person. I was with a person before the accident or sickness, & that is what I would do after the sickness, be with a person. An accident doesn't not make them a person anymore. They are still who they were before, just in a different state of health. I would be a coward to leave them in that case.
2007-02-05 02:28:28 · answer #6 · answered by sis_jk27 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Offcourse i would still marry her, ive dated this girl for 3 1/2 years and it took me breaking up with her and afterwards regretting it very, very much to realise how much i really loved her and during that time i though about it and no matter what happened if she had cancer if she lost a limp or even if she was in a wheelchair i would still marry her
2007-02-05 02:27:55 · answer #7 · answered by ricardo m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I were hypothetically in a relationship, then something like that wouldn't change my decision. Not even if she required constant care and expensive medication that could leave us broke. If you run away when there is a challenging situation, then in my opinion that is not love. In love you have to be willing to sacrifice some of your freedom and possibly other things.
2007-02-05 02:28:04 · answer #8 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both my fiancee and I are paramedics, and we work on the same shift. Every time I hear his ambulance go out on a potentially dangerous call, I worry about him. I know that if anything ever happened to him, that I'd stand by him no matter what the situation.
2007-02-05 02:27:06 · answer #9 · answered by rita_alabama 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
true love is not should not be restricted by physical or mental disabilities....if my girl were to become handicapped, i'd b there even more for her, nothing like that should ever make u love a person less
2007-02-05 02:28:37 · answer #10 · answered by blibit 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋