Family & Relationships - 4 February 2007

My mother expects me to visit her and take care of chores twice per week. I think this is excessive, but I don't know how to tell her so. I offered to come over this often after my father died, but it's been a few years and my professional and personal life is suffering. I have explained this but she seems to brush it off, saying that I don't visit enough! I am under 30 and trying to get my demanding career off the ground. When I try and explain, she says she visited her own mother every day! What do you say to that?

2007-02-04 17:35:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I havnt talked to him in 4yrs theyve been married 2yrs.

2007-02-04 17:35:29 · 13 answers · asked by Got Curves? 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-04 17:34:49 · 11 answers · asked by Franky 1 in Singles & Dating

I realized alot of people told me that, as in when they got older, their jelousy slowly started fading away. Do you think thats true?

2007-02-04 17:34:29 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

If u were good pals with and ex bf who really relies on u and your family because his is deceased. And u had feelings for another ex but returning to the second ex would emotionally damage the first one would u do it?

I know stop spending time with EXs is the real best answer. But can I have the next best one please?

2007-02-04 17:34:27 · 8 answers · asked by k 2 in Singles & Dating

I am married, but i am cheating on my wife with her sister, and i also slept with their cousin, i really enjoy the sex and love the adventure, but turns out know that the cousin wants more from me, not just sex every year, she wants to start seeing me more often, but im already seeing my sister in law and im married, what should i do, should i make space available and risk getting caught? or do i say no and still risk getting caught by her telling on me if i dont do what she wants?

2007-02-04 17:33:58 · 8 answers · asked by Rey M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Recently one of my cousin sister is behaving very close with him, She knew that we r in love still she behaves like that. I feel very bad for that. 1st I didn’t noticed, my bfrnd itself told me that she is interested. I know abt my bfrnd he is not interested with her but still she behaves like that. For eg. Forcefully she will ask him chocolate or lays something If he get her a chocolate or something, n she will come n tell me that see what I m having do u know who brought me this ur bfrnd like that…(this is eg. She does some many thing which hurts me a lot) I feel very bad I told my bfrnd not to talk to her n give anything will he feel bad thinking that I m not trusting him, but why I feel so much… when I know his mine n never change 4 others… or why I m feeling so bad for such a small thing……

He use to talk to my frnds, I never felt bad. By the way before I was not feeling bad if he talk to my sister but wen he told me that she is interest from that day I m feeling very bad. What is wrong with me…. I really love him yar n don’t like to give up… n he too loves me lot, when I tell him he feels bad n tell me that I m always urs dear don’t worry…but why I m so possessive… is it bad….

2007-02-04 17:33:38 · 7 answers · asked by Janu 2 in Family

i decided not to buy any condoms for the reason if it came to sex i want to be discuraged to have it quite yet.

i am hell bent on not having kids till i feel i can aford one. and also hell bent on using condoms.

she sitll is a virgin (so am i) and i fear hurting her. i know it can hert a girl on her first time.

also i don't want to rush things but hormones can screw that up.

is it a good idea or a bad one?

2007-02-04 17:33:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My b/f hasnt talked to me in about 2 months and our 3 yr anniversary and i have no idea wat to do....ive tryed everything calling emailing ect. nothing works...wats wrong?

2007-02-04 17:33:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i love a girl in trust but i afraid of saying no .
i think maybe she had engaged.i think she loves me too.
please guide me .

2007-02-04 17:31:53 · 11 answers · asked by simon h 1 in Singles & Dating

how much does an average non church wedding cost in uk and would a budget of £5000.00 be enough for 40 people?

2007-02-04 17:31:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-02-04 17:31:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Because we have a lot in common ( i've never met this fellow but he is also a writer and we are both passionate about it.) I don't want to ruin my friendship with my friend... I would rather avoid meeing him, I told her no... I told her I wasn't interested but she is persistant. I feel if I let her have her way and meet him and things work out it will ruin our friendship becuase I KNOW how much she likes him. She insists we will really hit it off. What should i do? or how do I tell her no?

2007-02-04 17:30:31 · 9 answers · asked by LIZ 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a good friend who has a really hard time facing reality. The slightest honest opinion I make can get him a bit upset for a while. He gets put down easily, and it's often hard for me to reach him when he does because he rears away from me. What can I do to allow him to become more openminded to other people's ideas and more tolerant towards harshness? He seems to shut himself away. AND everytime he does that, I FEEL SO BAD about myself like I've done something wrong. Please help. >__<

2007-02-04 17:29:52 · 5 answers · asked by m&ms 1 in Friends

so far the worst day of my god-forsaken life. =(

2007-02-04 17:28:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like these acquaintances and they like me too and I don;t know if it would be ok to ask if i could sit at lunch with them. i always wanted to, but i don't know if its arrogant at this point, since ive known them for years and never have but now i really want to be their friend.

2007-02-04 17:26:59 · 8 answers · asked by leena 4 in Friends

I don't know why but I tend to find people with no 'edge' very irritating.
Also, she never has anything to say. Me and my friends could be engaging in an intellegent conversation or talking about our problems and all she does is go "ooooh" "yeaaaah" or do some stupid "cute" smile and nod her head. She is very pretty and lady like but that is all there is to her. Very obsessed with an innocent image. She never knows what is going on. She just goes with any type of flow. And lord have mercy this is driving me crazy. I havent told any of my friends because i dont know if they feel the same but for some reason i think so. Once it was just me and her and I try to get to know her but then I found out...that is her NOTHING. :( And it is making me sad because I do want to be into her like i am the rest of my friends, but i can't because there is nothing there.
Does anyone know what I am talking about?

2007-02-04 17:26:26 · 5 answers · asked by uglyvanity 3 in Friends

im usually shy around popular kids and hot girls. i get so nervous in class and i almost never speak up. girls find me attracting but i never get with them. please help people.

2007-02-04 17:26:12 · 3 answers · asked by Curious John 1 in Singles & Dating

My dad promised me he was never going to get remarried he has been with alot of girlfriends and one of them especially was really nice and worked out for all of us as a whole. But now his new girlfriend he is with who he has been with for about 3 years is a nice person but we just don't get along and its not as good as the previous situation we were in. He just told me last week that he gave her a ring and i did not know how to respond. I am 18 and in college but still am very close to my dad, but not nearly as close as we were before she came into his life. In all honesty i would not be as upset as long as he does not officially marry her what i am asking is, is it fair to ask my dad to just not marry her, even though i don't like him being with her i will sacrifice that for his happiness I just don't think i can be a part of his new life if he officially gets married to her. Also if he remarries her what does that do if something happens to him does stuff go to her now not me.

2007-02-04 17:26:10 · 20 answers · asked by KPM1028 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Searching for these two lovely people who a large impact on my life from 76 - 84. Emma has dark skin and very curly hair and 2 brothers, 1 older & 1 younger (Jonathan). If anyone knows someone who could be one of these please let me know thanks :-)

2007-02-04 17:25:42 · 2 answers · asked by SEJ71 3 in Friends

He recently switched jobs and is behind on his support, but we have been together 5 years and filing together I haven't worked his year but have three minor children and get deductions for them, can she take our income tax? Or the Irs ?

2007-02-04 17:25:22 · 11 answers · asked by raja2773 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Should i have food? Could i seel hot wings fries and stuff or just have snacks.

What should i do about food?? Should i have it

2007-02-04 17:25:20 · 5 answers · asked by meggirls_sweet16 1 in Singles & Dating

Or the lies of some one who only want's to get around you or some thing from you. It is my opinion woman prefer the lies the truth put's them off at least thats my experance with the lies they hear only what the want hear the truth dos not do it for them. the daft old man says now you have gone and done it you will never hear the last of it. but do feel free to have a nice day or night.p.w.l.

2007-02-04 17:25:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I was answearing a question called do i still have a chance with this girl if u guys remeber it and 2 people said that what does it mean

2007-02-04 17:24:27 · 9 answers · asked by Charlie 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 17:24:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 17:24:22 · 13 answers · asked by kariel1219 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-04 17:23:17 · 13 answers · asked by nanabe 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-04 17:21:57 · 9 answers · asked by PAL E 1 in Singles & Dating

over and give you what you want? To always be told that your right even when your not.? Women confuse the hell out of me.

2007-02-04 17:19:56 · 15 answers · asked by mike d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ive been with the same guy since i was 15 years old. Im now 20...theres been talk about marriage proposal...but he keeps putting it off and putting it off...and everytime i bring it up, he tells me...."the more you ask about it, the further away i get to doing it."
But i feel like if i dont keep bringing it up, it'll never happen. I dont want to pressure him...but god damnit!! lol
what do i say? And dont answer with...just wait it out...IM GOING INSANE....i cant wait it out....i get anxious and depressed and annoyed at the fact! Please...someone...anyone!!!

2007-02-04 17:18:39 · 30 answers · asked by Jay L 1 in Weddings