If u were good pals with and ex bf who really relies on u and your family because his is deceased. And u had feelings for another ex but returning to the second ex would emotionally damage the first one would u do it?
I know stop spending time with EXs is the real best answer. But can I have the next best one please?
2007-02-04 17:34:27 · 8 answers · asked by k 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
funny thing you said at the end....do not surpress your feeling towards another person just because one also has a problem...follow your heart but dont be insensitive about the situation...just try to be courtious to the first one and tell him right away that you are falling for another...otherwise you are both just gonna be unhappy...he should respect where your heart leads to...just dont let it get between you guys... because in a long run you are also gonna be happy and sometimes this will lead to hatred to that person you think is the one holding you back but really its all you and nothing is stopping you...
2007-02-04 17:41:35 · answer #1 · answered by badluck13b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are "ex" for a reason. Take time to think back on why they in your past and move on. You cant meet new love until you make a place for them by throwing out the old.
2007-02-04 17:40:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha you sound like me =] lots of ex's are u friends. this is always fun. but then its also always majorly screwed up lol =] ok my suggestion is that u sit down and talk to ur first ex and tell him that u like the other ex and that u want to get backtogether with the other ex but u dont wish to hurt him because u hold the friendship at high value and you want to b completely honest with him thus you telling him. if he still isnt ok with it... he is... an EX... so i guess u gotta do what u gotta do... after all it is your life... and ur future! hope that helps! God bless and Good luck! =]
2007-02-04 17:39:55 · answer #3 · answered by becstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the last personj. Go with your heart. There is nothing worng with being #1 friend though and the person you end up with should know that you are going to be there as a friend to the other. If they care about you they will understand. Good luck
2007-02-04 17:40:44 · answer #4 · answered by brookesingsalways 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with the one your heart wants, but still try to be there and be a support for the ex that doesnt have a family. u dont have to stop being friends just cause you have a boyfreind.
2007-02-04 17:37:28 · answer #5 · answered by lady26 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first ex shouldn't care whether you are hanging out with anyone...if the first ex still has feelings for you then you have to make it clear that you just want to be friends
2007-02-04 17:40:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go back with the other one because you cant be stuck and ruin your hapiness not to hurt someone else....if he really loves you he will be happy to see you happy.
2007-02-04 17:47:05 · answer #7 · answered by ricardo m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is depending on you and your family, he is being too attached,and dependent. he needs to stand on his own two feet. so do what you wanna do,..move on with your life, let him stand or fall, he will be able to get back up anyway.
2007-02-04 17:40:13 · answer #8 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋