good idea or bad one?

Question

i decided not to buy any condoms for the reason if it came to sex i want to be discuraged to have it quite yet.

i am hell bent on not having kids till i feel i can aford one. and also hell bent on using condoms.

she sitll is a virgin (so am i) and i fear hurting her. i know it can hert a girl on her first time.

also i don't want to rush things but hormones can screw that up.

is it a good idea or a bad one?

early 20's
7 months
touched chest but not seen them
i have my own place

...enough answers?

bad yellow ***** "Well considering your can't spell, I say it's a good idea because..."

please don't bring attention to spelling errors into the answer when you, yourself made one in your answer. it is rude.

Answer 1

Like they say "Only fools rush in" and your idea doesn't seem foolish at all. Take your time and when you decide the time is right,you might find that the anticipation was more exciting than the actual event. This idea shows that there is more blood flowing upstairs than down below.

Answer 2

Unknown. There are too many missing pieces of the puzzle including:

1. How old the both of you are
2. How long you have been together
3. How intimate the both of you have been up to this point
4. How much alone time is available to the both of you
5. Whether your parents work (because a common place to lose your virginity is in your own home)
6. And so on.

As to condoms, if you are the sort of person that does not act impulsively, then it is a good idea to buy them. However, sex is a dangerous weapon. It's hard to know how you will react.

Answer 3

I would buy the condoms and put them in the draw just incase. You dont know where passion can lead and about the pain thing if you concentrate on the both of you really really enjoying the experience, taking your time and all that you will be fine and she will barely feel a thing. Trust me I know I am a woman. Good luck with it sure you will enjoy hahahaha

Answer 4

well there is more than one way to skin a cat ok first if you really want to wait thats cool but if push comes to shove and you dont really want sex a b j will clear the spirits lol along with eating at the y will clear her spirits id say try that oh as you was saying about hurting her if she is already hot and wet try to finger the puss first that way you can spread the hole out before you insert yours and be gentle until she lets you know that its time to go for it i hope this helps

Answer 5

It's a great idea, very wise and responsible. Just take your time with her, no need to rush!

Take the relationship to another level whenever you both feel comfortable. It's a one time thing you know, make it special..

Good luck!

Answer 6

Well considering your can't spell, I say it's a good idea because you can always use the excuse that you don't have condoms and you don't want to get her pregnant. There are a lot of people who get pregnant their first time having sex.

Answer 7

Dont get in any situatoins where u might be tempted to have sex. dont get in a lying down situtoin togheter or dim the lights. dont be alone togheter. That being said, always pack a condom just in case. u never know when your hormones are gonna take over and its better to have one on hand.

Answer 8

well...

how about telling her that you're not ready to have sex.

From what I have read of your question, it doesn't seem like you ready!

A couple should talk about things like this, and don't rush anything. when it's time it's time!

And by the way having a kid is more than just being able to afford one... kids are a part of you... kids drastically change the way that your life is today.... it's a mental and physical task.... everyday is a learning experience and a challenge.

Kids are a gift of love , but you have to be ready to accept them and the change of life they bring!

Answer 9

If you buy condoms, you are telling yourself that
there is a good possibility you will have sexual
intercourse. If you can't control your hormones without
a first aid kit in your billfold, you need to stay away
from intimate relationships....that is until you can
control them.

Answer 10

i think it is still a good idea to buy some condoms as it is safer as it can cut the risk of her gettin pregnant and it also show you dnt want to hurt her as wearin a condom is bein safe. i also suggest you both choose your timings right as you two should make ur firsttime special.