My b/f hasnt talked to me in about 2 months and our 3 yr anniversary and i have no idea wat to do....ive tryed everything calling emailing ect. nothing works...wats wrong?
2007-02-04 17:33:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your still interested in him, that's whats wrong.
2007-02-04 17:36:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he isn't your boyfriend anymore. Is he still on earth, or is he just avoiding you? Have you talked about marriage or conveiving. Any of those might scare a guy away. I was with my first girlfriend for five years and she started bringin up the marriage thing. I let it just slide buy a few times but she didn't get the hint that I had not interest in marriage. She did when I wasn't her boyfriend anymore. She has since divorced....LOL.
2007-02-05 01:40:02 · answer #2 · answered by MiKe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um girl i think A. he broke up but he ain't got the balls to tell
B. he probably cheating on you and wants you to say something to like accuse him so he can break up with you
C. or he is simply gay
I think you should just write him a letter saying it's over.and i think you need to move on with your life and find someone else . it's no longer a relationship when your man of 3 yrs. haven't talk to you in 2 months and your anniversary is coming up. Well good luck with your life.:)
2007-02-05 01:45:13 · answer #3 · answered by AnjelBaby:(- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm, call me crazy, but I think you can pretty much state that your relationship has been over for 2 months. If he isn't contacting you, he obviously does not think he is in a relationship with you. It is unfortunate that he could not be up front about it so that you could have remained friends. Why don't you write him a letter and tell him that you can only assume that he wants to break it off but he is too much of a coward to tell you directly so he needs to be passive aggressive about it.
2007-02-05 01:36:59 · answer #4 · answered by isis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow! 2 months. girl! I would have noticed something was wrong within the first week. This may be heartbreaking but its done. And if its not for him for some reason you should let him go. My guy is in the military and we talk everyday and when he doesnt call or I dont call it feels weird. The calls arent cheap but we try. He has no excuse. not unless hes in iraq....there is no reason for that. dont be sad. let him go. something is wrong.
2007-02-05 01:38:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its over. he is too weak and scared to come to your face and tell u its over. i think you outta go have a girls night out on your 3 year anniversiary and try n find someone better. If a guy loves you he not gonna do that 2 u for 2 whole months. barring any situatoin where he is hurt or dead, he is just not that into you.
2007-02-05 01:36:00 · answer #6 · answered by lady26 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say it's over move on.
He's not returning your calls (Hellooo) there is no 3rd anniversary.
He probably found someone else or he's afraid of you because what you describe sounds a lot like you are stalking him.
2007-02-05 01:40:33 · answer #7 · answered by Johnny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems he has moved on. It's time for you to do the same. It's a shame he didn't have the kahunas ... to sit you down and let you know what his plans were, but, it's is obvious as to how he feels. Find someone whose worthy of your love and devotion hun ... let it go. :)
2007-02-05 01:40:01 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Carol♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go around to his place and if he still refuses to see you call it quits. It seems you want closure and this is it. But geez, 2 months is a loud and clear "ITS OVER"
2007-02-05 01:38:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like he's too scared to break up with you so he's just doing the old "I'll ignore them and maybe they'll go away" thing. It's time to let it go. If he contacts you, call him a jerk and get on with your life.
2007-02-05 01:36:27 · answer #10 · answered by Miss 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, stop emailing ,calling ect..
when you see him have a serious talk .Mybe he is giving you a surprise so you better wait!!!
if he really isn't caring then you should forget about him and then he might feel sad ,mybe he might call you
2007-02-05 01:43:15 · answer #11 · answered by lorrrrrrrrrrrrrrn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋