I don't know why but I tend to find people with no 'edge' very irritating.
Also, she never has anything to say. Me and my friends could be engaging in an intellegent conversation or talking about our problems and all she does is go "ooooh" "yeaaaah" or do some stupid "cute" smile and nod her head. She is very pretty and lady like but that is all there is to her. Very obsessed with an innocent image. She never knows what is going on. She just goes with any type of flow. And lord have mercy this is driving me crazy. I havent told any of my friends because i dont know if they feel the same but for some reason i think so. Once it was just me and her and I try to get to know her but then I found out...that is her NOTHING. :( And it is making me sad because I do want to be into her like i am the rest of my friends, but i can't because there is nothing there.
Does anyone know what I am talking about?
2007-02-04 17:26:26 · 5 answers · asked by uglyvanity 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
wow, no sorry but I am not jealous. If i was jealous i would have totally blown her off and not tried to get to know her. it's not like i have been acting out on this, i'm very nice to her.
2007-02-04 17:35:28 · update #1
sad, but she's trying to fit in with the rest of you. ask her opinion from time to time to help her get more involved in the conversation. or try talking about something that she can relate to. she sounds nice. you should be too.
2007-02-04 17:33:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant help but get the feeling that you're jealous... and because of this jealousy you're just allowing yourself to see in her what you want.Either let your guard down and give her a fair chance or end the friendship before you hurt her.
2007-02-04 17:34:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you are talking about. Sounds like she has no opinion because she lacks confidence to have an opinion. She needs serious social development help such as a professional councillor.
2007-02-04 17:31:00 · answer #3 · answered by bright_neon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not alone.. I have encountered many people acting the same like your friend. MAybe she just don't understand what your talking about in your conversation. She can't get it but tried to deceive you that she could understand. Get it?
2007-02-04 17:37:37 · answer #4 · answered by aNne 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well well, somebody is jealous
2007-02-04 17:30:44 · answer #5 · answered by jacky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋