Family & Relationships - 4 February 2007

Can someone tell me how?

2007-02-04 16:46:02 · 9 answers · asked by free love 1 in Singles & Dating

Im 21 and in November my fiance split up with me. We had afew fights and it wasnt working out for us. We had a block of land together and i made all the repayments on it since we had it cos he was sorting his life out seeing a therapist. And after we broke up i said for him to make repayments cos i couldnt deal with it anymore. And we had an argument. cos he didnt want to have the responsability. I found out recently that his mate asked my friend " Why does nat555 have to be such a b**** to my ex fiance". I was sooo hurt because he had been telling people that i wasnt nice and i never ever hurt him like that i always respected him and told people good things about him. Does anyone have any good advise they can give me?

2007-02-04 16:45:08 · 12 answers · asked by Nat555 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 16:44:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you have an apology to make? Have you hurt someone? Do you have a dirty secret? Let it out here and feel better.

2007-02-04 16:43:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im having problems with my mind and dont know what to do. I need to talk to someone about everything. phycologists cant help me. I need help.

2007-02-04 16:43:01 · 15 answers · asked by Meltedplasticbag 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am not full figured neither thin but i attracted to tall masculin guys with strong thick bone structure !but the only guys attracted to me are so thin light and same height as me?
i dont know the reasone?:(
i would rather guys answer me?

2007-02-04 16:42:58 · 10 answers · asked by karen 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm getting more anger, what can I do?
Eventhough it is correct
My view differs with most of them....I start arguing with them, I thrush them, ....
then I myself compromise with them, what to do.
Because of this, I lose my precious time, relationship, money, health

2007-02-04 16:40:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I cook, I clean...We dont have any kids and I just really want a pet, but he refuses. I dont want to get one behind his back and cause a huge fight but I am starting to get resentful about this issue. He is worried about the cat getting on his things(i.e. He has an expensive tv and we have nice furniture) but then he wont let me have a small dog either. So how do I go about this in a sane way?

2007-02-04 16:39:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok so the guy i was crushing finds out that i thought he was attractive and its not a big deal for me, but then when i tried to follow some advice...he made me feel like a complete idiot. i tried to talk to him like how i would before i even liked him and then he asked "why are you calling me?" in a very disrespectful tone of voice. i was shocked because i have never heard him talk that to me or any other girl. i told him i was looking for someone’s number and was wondering if he could help but it turned out bad. now i have to go and see him tomorrow. can anyone give me advice on how i can handle this situation.

2007-02-04 16:38:27 · 17 answers · asked by meme 1 in Singles & Dating

What are they about,why do they ask the things they ask and then run away from the answers and why do they think men are monsters? Jenni O this one is for you.

2007-02-04 16:38:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm in love with this guy, and have been for almost 2 years now. it's been 13 months since we broke up, and we only were togehter for a short 3 weeks, but something clicked, and i knew then and there he was the one. since then we have dated on and off, and other friends (ex friends) have dated him. we are still kind of friends, talking occasionally. but he is an ***, and i can't seem to move on. I know he doesn't love me back, not anymore atleast, but is it worth it to wait it out. (this guy is a man-whore who plays every girl, but i thought me and him might be different). i have waited this long, would it kill me to wait any longer?

2007-02-04 16:36:55 · 10 answers · asked by chickpea726 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 25 years old and the single mom of a two year old girl.

Do I still have a chance to find "the one" ?

2007-02-04 16:36:49 · 16 answers · asked by IMLooking4answers2 1 in Singles & Dating

Do couples in serious relationships love each other the same—or does one have a higher percentage and the other a low percentage. For example one loves 90% and the other 85%.

2007-02-04 16:36:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Girls are so Stupid, I mean most of them are. They are demanding, They make u do things u hate the most, They ***** around, always expecting u to know what they want, some don't even care what hardships u have been through, and I could go on..... but why do I still feel lonely and want to be with one? I have been in two relashionships and both of them Sucked, I do things I dont want to and regret when I am out of it. Its crazy!!! ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Its like the saying " P0rn is better then dating" and I agree. but there is an uncontrlable desire to be with some one that I hate to have.... am I going CRAZY?

2007-02-04 16:35:43 · 9 answers · asked by boygenis 3 in Singles & Dating

has everyone dated someone by the age of 20? i mean i see 8th graders on here complaining about not having a boyfriend and saying theyre the next 40 year old virgin. um, am i missing something? sh*t. ive never dated anyone. i mean i went on like "dates" but ive never had a bf. ive also hooked up with random guys. ive just never had a "relationship". how could that happen?!?

2007-02-04 16:35:38 · 6 answers · asked by ajflkajfsalkfsalkfna 3 in Singles & Dating

1. A girl that CAN go out with you but doesn't like you back

or

2. A girl that likes you just as much (in that way) but because of certain situations (career, school, busy schedule) she can't committ to a relationship

and can you explain why - please? I'd appreciate it - thank you!

2007-02-04 16:34:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I find them both degrading and insulting to the person you're about to marry. To, as a man, go out and drink and do stuff with male only friends, and even sometimes have a female stripper....what?? It is beyond me. Its like saying, "Life with you as my wife/husband is going to be so terrible, I better soak up all the fun I can while I'm at it." let alone the things themselves. Female/Male strippers before you're about to commit yourself spiritually, emotionally and physically to one person? I personally will never ever have one, nor would I be interested in anyone who would. Even a 'tame' version I dislike- the only thing I can see as acceptable is if everyone goes together for a fun night out. And I'm not one of those nuts who thinks Dr. Spock had it right or anything...just how I feel about this. What do you think?

2007-02-04 16:34:05 · 10 answers · asked by fslcaptain737 4 in Singles & Dating

my boyfirend and i have been dating for a long time but i saw some recent messages he has been sending girls and now im kind of worried so i made an account its kind of bad but what he is doing is bad too and so far he's just flirting. IM planning to ask him if he has a girlfriend after we kind of become online friends. I will never let him know that i have done this but if he says he does not have a girlfirend i will end it. Is they anyway to hack nexopia or get a password? please help thanks

2007-02-04 16:32:32 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my bf have been going out for over 2 months and we are really into each other. I'm sweet to him and he treats me like a queen. He has two kids and i know they come first. But lately I've been questioning our relationship. He's an engineer, and when he calls me to do someting that night he gets stuck working late, or sometimes he's out of town of about a month every 3 or 4 months cus of work. There are times when he says he'll call be back he doesn't. At this point I'm pretty annoyed and frustrated but i know he has to work. What should I do?

2007-02-04 16:32:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

girls ,
have you ever felt unloved after breaking up with somebody??? i just had a break up with my girlfriend of 4 years and feel so unloved and hurt what can i do??? serious answers only please....

2007-02-04 16:32:07 · 6 answers · asked by geostrom b 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 16:32:06 · 22 answers · asked by may_the_heavens_weep 1 in Friends

In the last 2 weeks me and a boy on my rowing team (I'm the female coxswain) He is the best rower and technecally we are allowed to but shouldn't date the teammates for drama reasons.

He had always been my best friend until 2 weeks ago when we kissed, talked, then fell asleep together. Then he didn't bring it up and I assumed it was a one time thing.

Then thus night I got back from going out and the same thing happened. I kept saying I hope your not using me, and I feel so comfortable with him cause he has been like a brother the last year

He left college and went home for the weekend, we talked on aim about everyday stuff, he came back and hasn't imed me or came to see me. I just found out he has 3 girls coming to see him this weekend.

I am usually not so spazie about guys or needy but it's just like I really like him and trust him and if this dosn't work I am going to feel so used.

What should I Do?

Is he using me?

2007-02-04 16:30:29 · 8 answers · asked by Coxie Megan 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 16:30:22 · 12 answers · asked by ? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

OK long story shorter.. My almost ex husband has been dating my ex best friend. Everyone was telling me but they just said no they were not. Well there are few problems here. #1. in our parent agreement it states that "WHILE WE HAVE OUR DAUGHTER, WE ARE NOT TO HAVE SOMEONE OF THE OPPOSITE SEX, UNLESS RELATED BY BLOOD OR MARRIGE SPEND THE NIGHT. his rule he put in there. BUT he takes my daughter to spend the night at my exbest friends house all the time. Isnt that the same thing? Ive told him and told him but he does not stop. When he has our daughter on the weekend, he is also babysitting her kids cause she has to work. so then my daughter is stuck and bored. That annoys me. but what gets me the worst is that the last few months our daughter has said stuff about them being bf and gf and they told her no they promise they are not, and now they are all of sudden? is that not going to affect her? my daughter is 8. and to top it off. he gave her MY KITCHEN TABLE/

2007-02-04 16:29:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

laughing should have tecnic,when others are happy,enjoy the laughter and bless them, when others is sad,Don't laugh at them if you see it,but show your love and care, always bless people not refrenge,if you are lucky work harder to win a good name,be honest from your heart with a true smile,not pretending,show love.

2007-02-04 16:29:20 · 1 answers · asked by Hui Meng C 2 in Singles & Dating

she lost almost everything. we have a trayler for her.we just need it moved and hooked up. how can we get the money to help her

2007-02-04 16:28:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok my dad had some people over today to watch a big football game. This girl came over with her mom and dad and she's really cute and I think she likes my boyfriend and he's sooo hot and I dont want to lose him. Anyway I was forced to sit with him to protect him and watch that stupid game. His mom came over with her fiance and my mom noticed that I was all uptight and told me to chillllll!! and I did and than she and I went into the other room to hang out. Anyway what do you think? Am I being paranoid?

2007-02-04 16:27:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How far would you go in flirting / pursuing someone you've met, knows you like him and you know he has slight interest in you, but he's not living in your country? (long distance). Would you spend $ just to visit him and pursue it further?

2007-02-04 16:25:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband meets women on the net and then has phone relationships with them, we are married and have 3 kids and he doesn't tell them about us. I eventually find out about them and they stop. One time a lady sent flowers to the house that said "To the begining of something special Love, Carol" He travels for work so he has opportunity to meet them. I do not have access to his bank account so I don't know if he sends them anything. When I find out he swears it'll never happen again. He's now playing Final Fantasy XI online and the other night he told a lady he had taken his clothes off and that he was holding her. I said that it was cyber sex not a part of a fantasy fighting game. He said that I am stupid it is a part of the game. With his history I can totally see him getting this ladies #. I really am at a lose on what to do I love him but feel I deserve better than this. Since we're married and I'm uncomfortable about it I don't think he should do this. Is this ok for him to do?

2007-02-04 16:25:46 · 2 answers · asked by rhonda c 2 in Singles & Dating

I love to make friends and chating with them if it is she or he mostly during the chating most girl and me but not reply why i dont know

2007-02-04 16:25:44 · 2 answers · asked by Raj N 1 in Friends